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7 Reasons Why People Don’t Buy & How To Overcome Them Through Your Content

Are you a service-based business struggling to get clients?

It’s so important that we understand the psychology of the people who are in our communities and following us…

…and understanding the deeper mindset of people who may buy your services.

I’ve found there are 7 reasons why people don’t buy.  In this video and article, I unpack those 7 reasons and give you the keys to overcome them through your content.

1 –  They Don’t Trust You

Now more than ever, building trust is key for connecting with your ideal client.

How we can overcome this through our content is by showing our credibility.

You want to remind people of your experience, skills, knowledge, and make sure you do it confidently.

(When was the last time you bought a service from an unconfident person??)

You might be thinking you don’t want to come across as bragging or being vain, but if you don’t sell yourself, no one else will. You need to be confident in order to build trust.

Think about someone who you have invested financially in, whether they are a relationship coach, a business coach or someone similar. You invested in them because you trusted them right?

Another great way to build trust is to be consistent in our content.

As a service-based business, trust is built through consistency and repetition. It’s about regularly showing up, putting out quality content in blogs, videos, Facebook Lives etc. and giving value. This increases your credibility.

Show up consistently and share about how you have helped people.

Talk about your years of experience and highlight your strengths. Talk about how many people you’ve worked with and who you’ve trained under for example.

If you haven’t got any clients yet, talk about the education that you’ve done.

You could state that over the last 20 years you’ve been fascinated by personal development and you’ve done xyz courses and you’ve read specific books.

You can say you’ve been researching your topic for xyz number of years.

You can also talk about your mentors and their success.  No matter where you’re starting from, you have to show your credibility, you’ve got to play to your strengths.

2 – They Don’t Trust Themselves

The next reason people don’t buy is because they don’t trust themselves to get a result.

This is one of the hardest reasons to overcome.  People may trust you and know you can get them results.

However, they may not trust that they are going to do the work to become successful themselves.

People have to be pretty vulnerable to admit this. There are not many people want to admit that they procrastinate or may prioritise other things over your service. Often people will give an excuse rather than admit.

Who of you have downloaded a course and never logged in? I have started so many online courses and haven’t finished them! I know I’m not the only one!

The success rate is less than 10% when people undertake online courses. This means 90% of people who sign up for a course don’t actually complete them.

People don’t always trust themselves to complete a course. You can layout how easy it is, in a step-by-step manner and still, some people don’t trust that they are smart or savvy enough to actually do it.

3 – They Don’t Trust External Factors

There may be a problem with your industry in general, so the trust may be low in the public’s perception of what you do. This is where you’ve got to show how you’re different.

For example; someone may have had a bad experience with a yoga teacher and they may paint you with the same brush if you are a yoga teacher. So, it’s really important that you show how you’re different.

When I was a personal trainer, I had to always overcome people’s negative perceptions. Some people thought that I was going to be nasty and make them do horrible things that they didn’t want to do. People were surprised when I told them that I won’t make them do anything they don’t want to do.

You’ve got to use your content to overcome these objections that potential clients are thinking and show how you’re different.

4 – They Don’t See The Value

When people don’t see your value, it’s rarely a problem with affordability.

You may think about having having some lower price-point products, so that people could jump onto your online course or group coaching program, for example, if they can’t afford your one-on-one services.

Creating a payment plan is another good option to offer people.

Obviously you’re not targeting people who are completely broke, but you’re targeting those who are your ideal client and have money to invest. You can’t build a business trying to convince people who have no money to pay you money.

People will invest when they can see a return of investment. You need to show people the possibility of getting more back than what they are paying for.

Fear of change is the number one fear in humans. Offering people a solution in which they have to change can be daunting. So you have to show them that change is safe, that they can do it and you are going to support them through it.

You also need to show people that they are going to get more back from investing in you and your service. We typically fear change because our brain doesn’t want to suffer a loss.

So you need to show people that they are going to get a great return for their investment.

Give evidence-based case studies and examples to support your claims.

5 –  Fear of Negative Emotions

Fear of negative emotions can range from disappointment, that people may not get a result.

The negative emotion could be guilt. Guilt could come from people paying and feeling guilty because they’ve wasted your time.

Someone may have issues of not wanting to invest money if they’ve got a partner and feel guilty for investing in themselves.

Any kind of worry, doubt, any type of fear, guilt, or shame can stop people from wanting to buy. You can overcome these doubts and fears through stories and FAQs.

For my Accelerator program, on my website, I have commonly asked questions, so people that are asking ‘What if…’ or “Can I put this as a tax write off?’ I give them answers to their questions through the content on my landing page.

6 – Fear of Failure

Fear of failure can be a massive one with people. It’s similar to the fear of negative emotions but it can stand alone, especially if they’ve tried a whole lot of things before and you have perceived themselves as failing.

Taking another thing on could be a challenge for them.

If you’re a weight loss coach, for example, and your ideal client says they trust you and they trust themselves, but what if it fails? What if they fail?

You need to call these things out in your content by saying something like “You might be wondering…”

7 – Fear of Success

Fear of success is fearing that something will actually work! This can be tricky, but people do have fear of success.

What happens if I do get that result? What might that mean? What if I lost my relationship due to the success? What if I lost my job?

This is where you call it out in your content. So in your Facebook Live videos, in your content and your blogs, you just say, “Some people ask; “What if it works, and then because of this success I have other problems?”

And then you overcome the questions in your content, by using a story of one of your clients who had the same fears.

One of their fears may have been increased responsibility. It might mean that they may have a team of people relying on them and that brought with it a fear of success.

I’m personally getting to that stage where I need to hire more people in my business, and there is a real fear of responsibility that I’m wrestling with. I don’t want to let people down, so I’m struggling with a bit of discomfort of going to the next level.

Subconscious marketing or neuro-marketing is where we really focus on the psychology of people who are consuming our content.

Giving them answers to their questions within your content helps build trust and overcome their objections.

Many times people don’t attract the right clients because their content is not connecting with them.

By content I mean anywhere we you show up online, such as Facebook live videos, social media posts, blog posts, emails, landing pages, in your Facebook group – and anywhere else you show up online and give value.

Content is not only King… content is the Kingdom. If you don’t get your content right you will not attract the right clients.

There are people who are out there that think that clients are just going to come to them by posting on social media, without understanding that content has to be written in a certain way to overcome all these objections.

Would you like to know exactly how to put these types of strategies into your content?

I have a workshop coming up THIS  weekend, it’s going to be a value-packed workshop where you’ll walk away with your content game-plan DONE!

‪Join us at the ‘Create Content That Connects’ Online Weekend Workshop THIS weekend Sat and Sun 6-7 June 9.30am – 3pm

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‪You can check it out here

Hope to see you there!

Kat

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5 Keys To Writing Compelling Content

Writing compelling content is so important for growing your business.

Too many business owners don’t nail their content wording, which ultimately impacts their sales.

Having engaging content that speaks directly to your ideal client is more important than having lavish design.

80% of the time when your content isn’t engaging and attracting new leads, it’s because of the wording.

Content is anywhere you post online – such as blog posts, Facebook live videos, social media posts and articles.

There are 3 things you need to make sure your content is effective.

* The Market

Before you dive into creating content, it’s important that you know your market, that you know exactly who you want to attract and that’s all about nailing your niche, which is a separate topic.

It’s really important to make sure that you know exactly who you’re creating content for.

I always survey people before I offer anything because I want to make sure that what I’m offering is matching and meeting their pain-point.

* The Method

If your method of delivery doesn’t hit the mark – for example if you’re writing a blog and people want to see you on video, or if you have an in-person workshop and people want something online, then you are not providing what your ideal client needs or wants.

Or if you are running a six-month program and people want an intense six-week program, it’s not going to work.

* The Message

If you have the wrong message, meaning you’re the things you’re saying aren’t landing with people, or you’re saying the right things to the wrong people, your message is not going to match the market.

Imagine these 3 things like the legs on a stool – you need all 3 for it to stand up and be solid.

Writing compelling content is so important, especially because we’ve got such low attention spans these days.

If we don’t grab people fast, people will scroll past. We need to be able to not only capture attention but engage, connect with and help inspire people to want to take action.

Here are 5 keys to writing compelling content…

1 – Be Emotive

Being emotive means that we evoke emotion in the person who’s reading our writing. And so that means we need to be evoking curiosity. We need our readers to be thinking they want more.

Another thing to do is to open loops inside your readers’ minds. You know when you’re watching a program and there are ads that come on and they announce what’s coming up next? These are teasers and we’ve got to be doing this with our writing.

Next time you write a piece of content whether it’s a blog post, social media posts or an article think about if you’re opening up curiosity and bringing sizzle. We want to make sure people feel moved. And the way that we move someone is enabling them to imagine something.

Making people use big picture descriptions and these are abstract and hard for people to grasp. Asking people if they want to reach their potential or have success in their lives can be hard for people to visualise.

We need to use what I call visual verbs. Visual verbs help you actually picture something in your mind. An example is, if you’re a coach who helps people to find their purpose, get on track and change their career, don’t say, ‘Do you want to fulfil your purpose?’ or ‘Do you want to find your passion?’

A visual way of wording this, is to say, ‘Do you want to wake up in the morning eager to set your feet on the floor, because you know there are people waiting for you to make a significant difference to their family and community?’

People want things to be simple. They want things to be fun and don’t always want things to be formal. Make sure the words you use are emotional and are also everyday language. Formality is not always helpful.

2 – Speak Your Ideal Client’s Language

Speaking your ideal client’s language means using their key words when you describe their problems. How do they describe their problem? How do they describe the result and benefit that they want?

Your ideal client may word things differently to you. What is their industry language? Learn your ideal client’s language. How do they describe their problems? Speak to them how they will hear and connect with it.

If you’re getting stuck for content ideas, something that can be really helpful is to write down five of the most common questions you get asked about your topic.

I always get asked how I run a webinar, how to set up Facebook ads, how to get more engagement on my social media.  I write the questions down and then start creating resources for them.

I’ve got hundreds of resources now, but they’re all based on having real-life conversations with my clients, and with potential clients. These conversations form my content.

I remember a client years ago saying to me they wanted a resource that was like a social media plan and map so they could see the types of posts they should be doing. I created one for them that I now use with other clients.

Think about the questions people ask you socially about what you do. Create a resource out of the answers to the questions. Then put that on your social media and blog and link to the resource on your website. This way you are also building your email list.

3 – Use the word ‘You’ 

This one is simple, but I look back on my early blogs from 2007 when I was a personal trainer and my content was terrible.  I didn’t know what I was doing. It’s taken me years to hone the skill of copywriting.

Copywriting is basically writing to influence in any kind of sales or marketing content. You don’t want to write content for content sake. You want your content to influence people to take action.

Make sure that in your content, you use the word ‘you’ as much as possible especially at the start. Write ‘Do you feel like this?’ Would you like this?’ ‘Would you like to feel…?’ Use ‘you’ instead of saying, ‘I’ve created this freebie’, or ‘I’ve discovered…’

A good thing to do is to go through all of your content with a fine-tooth comb before you post. It does not have to be perfect, but take out the word ‘I’ and flip it to ‘you’. Insert the word ‘you’ as much as you can. People will never get sick of hearing the word of you, I promise you!

4 – Use Benefit-Rich Language

Benefit-rich language is always talking about the outcome and not the features of your program. Far too many people talk about their coaching program, their method, their modality or intervention methods.

What’s most important to the person reading is what’s in it for them.

It’s good to start with some credibility initially.

You could say something like…

“Over the last six years over working as an NLP practitioner, I’ve discovered that the patterns formed in your brain in childhood can still affect you as an adult. I help people uncover these patterns, and clean them up so they can move forward. What this means for you is you’re not only improving your relationships, but you can become a master communicator.”

There’s three little one-syllable words that I use all the time in my content. And they are three words that work! Want to know what they are? ‘So you can’.

You want to use the words ‘so you can’ a lot in your copywriting.

An example is,

‘Are you ready to learn the best content creation strategies, so you can attract your ideal clients and get fully booked up as a coach?’

‘So you can’ is like a bridge where you talk about your method, your offer or your topic and you bridge it ‘so you can’ to show what it means for them.

5 –  Focus On One Outcome

You always have to have in the back of your mind the purpose, before you create any piece of content.

I see people get muddled in their posts. They’re giving lots of value, great tips and advice, but they’re talking about too many things.

We want to have one main idea per piece of content.

You might give 3 tips or 5 tips, but it’s all around ONE compelling outcome.

Don’t underestimate the importance of this.

Keep it simple and organised.

My one outcome for you reading this is for you to be able to write more compelling content. I give 5 keys, but there’s one outcome.

The purpose of your content is to get someone to take action, not to just give them more information or to inspire people.

Whenever you write a piece of content, you always want to be thinking about the action that you want someone to take at the end of reading it.

Some people wonder whether they should include more than one call to action in a piece of content.

My recommendation is to focus on one clear call to action per piece of content.

When you have too many outcomes people get confused, so keep your focus on one outcome per piece of content.

Again, keep it simple.

Now you may be wondering, surely it can’t be that simple?

With the amount of information coming at us on a daily basis, keeping it simple is actually one of the most important things to remember in your content.

No one likes feeling overwhelmed when they consume content. They want to be educated, informed and inspired.

If you’re wondering whether you will ever have what it takes to write compelling content, let me encourage you.

No one is born with this skill. It’s developed through consistent practice.

With the use of technology like grammarly and spell check, you can create super compelling and engaging content, no matter how inexperienced a write you feel you are.

So to recap these 5 keys to writing compelling content…

1 – Be Emotive

2 – Speak Your Ideal Client’s Language

3 – Use the word ‘You’

4 – Use Benefit-Rich Language

5 –  Focus On One Outcome

 

Want some help writing compelling content?

Click here to book a 15-minute call to help you make your content pop!

Kat

 

 

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3 Powerful Ways To Make Your Content More Influential

Do you want to help people improve their quality of life, take more action and have a more amazing experience on this planet?

This requires the skill of influence, which is about getting under the surface to the deep layers to help people take action.

Why is influence so important?  There are lots of areas in business where influence is key.

The four main areas I help people increase their influence in are sales, marketing, presenting and copywriting.

What is influence?

According to Oxford dictionary it is:

‘The capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behaviour of someone or something’

Influence is not manipulating, it’s not convincing. It’s not trying to persuade or twist someone’s arm. It’s helping someone to get more of what they want.

Influence that is positive, ethical and authentic is helping someone improve their quality of life, helping them have a better experience in their day-to-day and helping them solve problems and get the solutions they want.

I love researching influence and practising my influencing skills so I can help more people.

Like all skills, they are learnable and improve the more you practice them. You can learn to turn up your influence like a volume switch – to amplify your ability to help people.

When you know how to influence people, you become free. You don’t ever have to rely on anyone ever again to make money, because when you understand the power of influence and apply it, you will always have plenty of money in your bank account.

When you’re effectively using the skill of influence, you will be impacting people’s lives, really making a difference and doing what you’re here on the planet to do.

You will be making a difference, contributing, serving, having the joy and fun and ultimately having a life of freedom and flexibility.

In this training, I share how to become more influential when creating your content.

Influential content includes webinars, live events like workshops, videos and marketing copy.

Sales includes one-to-one and one-to-many. It could be selling on a video, selling live or it could be a face-to-face sales conversation with someone.

Our ability to influence (or not influence) comes through in our language patterns, our tonality, the way we say things and our body language.

When you learn the art of true influence, your improved communication skills can result in more success in your sales, marketing, communication, and presenting.

So here are 3 powerful ways to make your content more influential…

1) Paint a Clear, Specific, Vivid Experience for Your Client

Number One is to paint – Paint a clear, specific, vivid experience of what the person (your client or future client) is currently going through and what they are experiencing.

For example, you might start talking about what they’re currently seeing in their life as a result of this problem, that you can help them solve.

You need to be descriptive. What are they seeing? What are they hearing? What are they hearing their partner saying?  What are they telling themselves internally?

Now describe what they are feeling. Are they feeling fear? Is their heart racing? Do they have a knot in the pit of their stomach? Do they feel they have the world on their shoulders?

When you paint a clear experience for your client, you are bringing their experience to life. You are painting them a visual picture through their senses. You are helping them hear, see, smell, taste and feel the experience you are describing.

Becoming descriptive in your content brings your content to life. Rather than saying, ‘Are you struggling with fear?’ or ‘Are you struggling with anxiety?’ You are painting a clear, sharp picture of how this feels.

You would say, ‘Do you find your heart starts racing and your palms start sweating when thinking about how you are going to pay your bills?’ You are describing their experience. You are putting your client inside that experience.

First of all, paint the experience of what they are currently going through. This is what is going to stop them from scrolling right past you. It’s going to engage them, attract them, get their attention and hook them in.

Remember to use your ultimate client’s language when describing their pain-point.

Next, start painting a word picture of where they want to be. Start painting a word picture for your future client that describes the experience of what life would be like if they were where they wanted to be.

You don’t have to say, ‘Do you want to be slim?’ or ‘Do you want to be happy?’ Use nouns that bring your content to life.

Bring the future experience of your client’s breakthrough to life through your words. What will they see, hear, feel, when they have your specific solution? Describe visually, audibly and kinaesthetically what your client will feel when they implement your solution.

People learn and receive differently.  Some people are visual, some are analytical, some are feelers.

We need to harness all of our senses and receptors if we want to create influential content. Describe your future client’s problem and then describe their solution by tapping into their sensed experience.

2) Pepper Your Content with Personal Stories

Number Two is pepper. If you go to a restaurant, you will find they have large pepper grinders. What is pepper used for? It’s used for seasoning food!

In a similar way, we need to add seasoning to our content also, to enhance our customer’s experience with our content.

To pepper your content, use relevant stories and examples from your own life. Currently, everyone is posting ‘How To’ content. I do this also. It’s because this appeals to our brain.

But people connect also through the power of personal story on a heart level. Connection on a heart level can supersede the brain connection. Peppering your content with personal stories brings your content to life.  It actually helps activate the right side of the brain.

We have a left side of our brain that takes in logic and data, so it’s more analytical and methodical. Some people are more predominantly left-brained. The right side of our brain deals with intuition, perception, emotions and feelings. Right-sided brain dominant people are usually classified as creative.

Bring your content to life through stories and examples. Pepper your content with personal stories to back up your point and increase the heart connection with your clients.

I use a technique called window wiping. I create content that triggers the left side of the brain and then the right side, and back and forth.

3) Position Yourself as an Expert Authority

Number Three is positioning. Position yourself as an expert in your area and an authority to be taken seriously.

This makes entrepreneurs nervous. To position yourself as an authority puts a responsibility on your shoulders.

We suffer from tall poppy syndrome. We don’t want to big-note ourselves. So to place ourselves as an expert in an area is daunting.

Placing ourself an authority over a particular solution or niche is necessary, however! I train people to identify their niche and become an authority in that specific field.

You want to show people that you are credible in your area, so talk about your experience, your knowledge and your skills.

You can do this in a humble,  grounded way that doesn’t come across as big-noting yourself. Present yourself as humble, genuine and authentic.  And that’s when you will influence people and cause them to actually listen to you.

I talk openly about the experiences that I’ve had in business for the last 17 years. I’ve had various businesses and have had to attract my own clients.

I’ve had to really learn the art of influence. I’ve invested over $100,000 to develop my skills from some of the best teachers in the world. This is my lived experience.

My lived experience makes me an authority in the area of influence because I’ve made it my business to learn about influence. I’ve done this firstly for myself and now, I can impart my learnings to others.

I include what I’ve learned into my content, into my sales process, into my marketing and communications.

Ben Harvey is one of my favourite teachers in the world. He states that when you talk about yourself, go low with humble energy. Then raise your energy to say, ‘I’ve been so blessed to have done this and learned this…’ You start speaking louder with excitement when talking about what you’ve learned.

When you think about your next piece of content, consider how you can paint it with clear, specific, visual, kinaesthetic and auditory experiences.

Think about how you can pepper your content with relevant stories and examples that make your content more compelling and relatable. Then incorporate this with your learned authority as an expert in your niche and solution.

Ultimately, it’s going to help your future clients take the next step towards you. It might be something free, that will then lead the reader or listener further through your funnel towards being a paid client.

So, there are 3 powerful ways to make your content more influential.

How will you apply these to your next piece of content?

Do you need help creating more influential content to get more clients?

THIS weekend, the 14th and 15th of March, I’m running a two-day content creation workshop ‘How to Create Content that Connects’.

In this workshop, we create your content together, I provide you templates and formulas and you’ll walk away with a whole heap of content DONE!

There are only a few spaces left so get in fast!

To learn more about the ‘Create Content That Connects’ workshop this weekend, click here.

If you would like help being more influential in business, so you can attract more clients, I offer a free 30-minute strategy session, to help you gain clarity on how to grow your business. 

You can book a 30-min clarity session with me here

(This is first-time sessions only and I don’t give you a sales pitch, only guidance and support).

 

Remember, the world is waiting for your brilliance!

Kat.

 

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5 Essentials of Influential Social Media Content

Creating consistent content is so important in growing your business.

But to attract your ideal clients, it’s not about just posting any content; it’s about posting influential content.

It’s SO important that your content on social media is influential. You can spend so much time in your content, and if it’s not influential, that time can be wasted.

You could have been investing and doing something more important in your business that was actually going to get you a result.

If you post influential content, you’ll be way more likely to help people to move along with the journey towards you, and have them take that step closer to becoming a paying client.

You want to think about what the purpose of your content is, (rather than just posting for posting sake).

You want to ensure your content is really helpful, relevant and influential, meaning you’re helping people to actually take action to change their life, not just to entertain them.

Recently one of my clients said to me; “Kat, I’m thinking I need to post more funny stuff on my Facebook business page, because the funny stuff gets the most likes.”

I’m not sure if you’ve fallen into that trap before, but likes are not the goal. Getting people to take the next step towards you is the goal – the step towards becoming a paid client.

Be careful not to just chase engagement – in terms of likes, but actually encourage a relationship with that person, inspire that person to become someone to change, and to take action for themselves.

Really the test is: Are people coming through your funnel? Are you getting people off social media and onto your website, onto your landing page and onto your online domain?

Ask yourself; ‘What is going to get people over the line?’ ‘What is actually going to make people want to sign up for you?’

People will sign up with you because you inspired them to want to take action. It’s because you educated them on the importance of taking action, of the cost if they don’t take action and why you’re different. Entertaining them is important. I’m not saying don’t post funny stuff. Use funny stuff as a break from your day, but it doesn’t lead to paid clients.

Paid clients purchase premium products that inform, inspire and educate. The purpose of social media is for potential clients to get to know, like and trust you, so they want to take the journey with you.

We need to make influential social media content that brings our clients across the line.

Here are 5 Essentials of Influential Social Media Content:

1) Design the Purpose of Your Post First

Decide prior to commencing your post what the purpose of your post is. Use strategy and intentionality when developing your social media posts. Think through what will lead to bringing money into your bank account.

Remember as a business owner if money is not going into your bank account consistently to cover your lifestyle and bills, you will always be stuck in a job, working for someone else.

If you really want to be an entrepreneur and get money into your bank account from working with people, you’ve got to think about the journey your potential clients will take to get there.

Usually, a future client’s journey starts with interacting with your social media post. That post leads them along the journey to become a paid client.

Be helpful, relevant and have a purpose and reason for your post. Building rapport, connection and trust with your future client is the beginning of their journey with you. A piece of content might be made to overcome a specific objection a client had. It might be to show a little bit more about your story, so they relate to you a little bit more.

It might be to showcase how you can help them by telling an example of a great story that you’ve had with a client, a case study or something that happened to you that week that was an excellent lesson. The lesson should help them to take more action towards you. Be strategic and ensure your posts all have a purpose.

2) Speak Directly to Your Ideal Clients’ Desires and Challenges

A lot of people don’t have goals, but they know what they want. A lot of people have dreams, but they might not even think that they can achieve their dreams. Many people may have goals, but how many are actually realising them?

If you were to ask a person, ‘What do you want?’,  most people know what they want. Ask a person, ‘What are you struggling with?’ and they will be able to articulate their struggles to you.

Speak directly to your ideal client, not broadly as thought talking to friends or family. Speak directly to the person that you want to work with, to your target market or avatar. Speak to their desires. Speak to their challenges. The deeper you go, the better for your potential future client.

It’s not all about demographics. It’s about psychographics. What are their thoughts, their feelings and beliefs? What are they thinking about themselves? What are they thinking about you?

Go deeper. WHY do they need to change? WHY do they want that goal? WHY do they need help with it? Start talking about that. Be really specific about their desires and their challenges.

3) Help Them Overcome Barriers to Action

‘How To’ videos are abounding on the internet. It’s the most searched term on Google. But we’ve got to remember, that it’s not just about people learning, it’s about people doing. It’s about people taking action on what you’re teaching them.

When you’re thinking about your content for your social media, ask yourself; ‘How can I help them overcome their resistance to changing?’ ‘How can I have them overcome their biggest objections to investing in themselves?’

You can address these questions through your social media content. So when you’re thinking about money in your bank account and your potential client becoming your paid client, you must work your way back to this regarding content. What is going to stop them from getting to this point?

And it’s not just about getting a paid client. It’s about transforming someone’s life. It’s about helping them become who they want to be. It’s about helping them out of their pain and helping them get relief.

You’re helping them to avoid, become or create something in their life and to be the person they want to be.

4) Show Them How Else You Can Help Them

Build into your pre-planned strategy, a way to incorporate further development for your future client. Show them how else you can help them. It might look like: Giving them one thing that they could go away and do. One small result so that you’re showing them that you actually have seven. ‘This is one part of my ‘7-step strategy’.

Or it’s one recipe that you’ve got, out of your 50 recipes. Or it’s one technique to overcome a limiting belief, out of all the 50 interventions that you do with people.

You’re not just giving them enough that they feel satisfied. You’re giving them a little taste, so they go, ‘Oh it tastes good’ and they want more. You’re showing them how else you can help them.

You’re not just giving them this false illusion that their problem is solved. We know that no one is going to change their life from one piece of social media content. It’s a layered journey. So build that layering within your strategy document.

People often know what to do but they don’t know how to apply it to them and that’s where you can come in and help. It’s about planting seeds in their mind so they think, ‘Ah, when I need to work on that, I will go to the go-to person’. Planning your strategy is key.

5) Have a Call To Action or Engagement

Your call to action is your next connection and interaction with a future client. It could be, ‘Jump onto the call with me’ or ‘Come to my free webinar’ or ‘Join my five-day challenge’. It could be, ‘Download my freebie’, or ‘Drop a comment or put a yes in the comment box’.

Your call to action is asking your potential client to do something with you and it also works to build engagement. The reason that asking for ‘comments’, ‘likes’ or ‘shares’ works on Facebook, is that Facebook sees these actions, and then pushes your content out to more people in the community.

To recap my 5 tips;
  1. Decide the purpose of your post first
  2. Speak directly to your ideal clients’ desires and challenges
  3. Help them to overcome barriers to action
  4. Show them how else you can help them
  5. Have a call to action or engagement

Applying these 5 tips will help you lead your potential client on a journey towards being a paid client.

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3 Tips For Growing An Entrepreneurial Mindset

 

Would you like to know how successful entrepreneurs think?

In this video and article, I share with you three ways to grow an entrepreneurial mindset. 

You might be wondering, what is an entrepreneurial mindset?

If you Google it you get all sorts of things that people say are an entrepreneurial mindset.

If you compare it with the 9-5 mindset, you’ll see that there are some crossovers. 

Being a high performer, working hard, having excellence in your job, being great at what you do. These are some of the crossovers between whether you’re working for someone else or you’re working for yourself. 

But there are some unique things that entrepreneurs have in their mindset if they’re going to be successful. 

When I’ve been asking this question to people, I ask them – what do you think is the actual mindset that’s different?

Based on my research and my own observations, I’ve come up with the 3 that I think are the most important.

1. Be Committed

If you want to grow an entrepreneurial mindset, you must be committed.

Committment covers a lot – resilience, the ability to figure things out the ability to go through, failure – the ability to just keep going and not give up…

If you’re committed to figuring things out, no matter what it takes – you’re going to figure it out, then that means that you’re going to have a mindset of growth, right? 

You go all-in on it, rather than just dipping your toe in the water and saying “I’m just going to stay safe. But if it doesn’t work out, then I’ll go back to another job”. 

If you’re committed to being the identity of an entrepreneur, then it’s amazing how the resources flow to you – how the people flow to you how the money flows to you.

When you’re committed, you say “This is what I’m doing. This is who I am. And no matter what it takes, I’ll figure it out:. 

I’ve been doing a lot of reading on the entrepreneurial mindset and watching a lot of videos of people talking and TED talks about the success entrepreneurial mindset, and people are saying – it’s not that I’m any smarter, it’s not that I’ve got a super personality. 

Which is good news!

It’s an even, equal playing field when it comes to entrepreneurship.

In fact, a lot of entrepreneurs, say that they don’t feel smart and that they haven’t got a traditional education or had great marks at school or anything like that. Any of us can choose to be an entrepreneur because everything can be learned. 

With technology the way it is, with courses, with the amount of information that we have access to, any of us can choose this, as a venture or a vocation is something that we get paid for. But we’ve got to be committed, we’ve got to be committed to no matter what happens because it is going to be tough.

Be committed to what you want. Be committed to that vision that you have, of your future best self, have your dream life, of your vision. 

When you know yourself when you know your vision, your goals, when you have a plan, and you’re working towards it every day and you’re committed to it.

It doesn’t matter how you feel. It doesn’t matter whether you wake up in the morning and you say, I kind of can’t be bothered today. 

Because you’re committed, you’re all in and you’re saying, I’m going to set deadlines and I’m going to stick to them because I don’t have a boss telling me what to do.

When you’re the entrepreneur, you are the leader, you’re the CEO. And you’re also the person doing the grunt work until you have a team. You must come from that mindset of I have to show up no matter what, I must be committed. 

There’s some research that shows that when we set a deadline It doubles the likelihood that we’re going to achieve it if we have a deadline.

If we set a goal that’s specific and not ambiguous like…

I’m going to make 10 phone calls every single day for a month. That’s a clear goal.

Or I’m going to get five clients by the end of this month.

Or I’m going to run three meetup events for webinars in this quarter.

Those goals that are very specific they have a deadline.

With a deadline, you double the likelihood of achieving it than saying my goal is to have a great business.

Ambiguous goals don’t work. Goals without deadlines don’t work.

2. Be Curious

Number two is to be curious.

When you’re curious, you will ask yourself a lot of questions. You will also ask other people a lot of questions.

I get quite surprised sometimes when I ask people questions, and they don’t know the answer to it, and I know that they haven’t been asking themselves that question. 

For example, I’ll ask someone to tell me about their dreams. Often people fumble over the answer and they don’t really have their dreams articulated or they don’t have any goals.

I’ve always set goals and it’s always really helped me; it doesn’t mean I achieved them all. But the pursuit of a goal is what makes you stronger.

When I was working nine to five it was; you learn your job, you get good at it. And then you just rinse and repeat every day. 

I wasn’t having to bring creativity or innovation or growth to it. I was having to just turn up, do my job and go home. And for me, that was hard. Because I’m a very curious person. I like learning why I like figuring out how to do things better.

I was working for this insurance company, and we would have to post people a claims form. I remember saying to my manager at the time, why don’t we scan it in? Or why don’t we go paperless?

And she was very opposed to the idea – she said no, this is the way we’ve always done it. This is the way we do it.

I wasn’t trying to rock the boat; I was trying to bring in some new ideas and I was curious about how to do things better. But that kind of thing got shut down. It was more this industrial mindset of just churn out the factory linework and just get it done. 

When you’re an entrepreneur, you can get curious – you think, how can I do things better? How can I plan better? How can I be this person, is this best version of myself?

Entrepreneurs constantly think, who’s the best version of myself that I’m working towards, and they start living that out on a daily basis.

For example, let’s say you want to be a great speaker.

Instead of saying, I’m going to do that in three years, you start turning up on a smaller scale, you start doing Facebook Lives now, you start getting in front of groups of people and practising and being that identity of a speaker in order to live that best future self now.

Rather than thinking – I’ve got this goal I want to achieve in the future, start living it now. Start acting as if you’re that now, because you’re not going to get better until you show up as that person and practice and get better.

Successful entrepreneurs, they don’t mind showing up and getting it wrong. They are not attached to perfectionism.

A friend recently told me; perfectionism is fear in high heels. It’s just doubt and fear and keeping us small and keeping us stuck. 

When you’re curious, you think, what’s an even bigger goal?

What’s an even cooler thing that I can aim towards instead of just staying stuck at that status quo?

Being curious is thinking – how can I update my skills? How can I get more knowledge? It’s being hungry to learn; it’s placing yourself in learning environments all the time.

If you have curiosity naturally, it’s an asset as an entrepreneur. If you don’t have it naturally, how can you start incorporating it into your life is just start asking yourself more questions – more quality questions and write them.

Questions like – How can I make this week better than last week? How can I make this event the best event that I’ve ever run? How can I be the best version of myself for people today? How can I show up differently?

Always be curious and ask questions and do your research.

3. Be Outstanding

Number three is to be outstanding.

When I first heard this concept of being outstanding, Tony Robbins was talking about it and when I was at his “Unleash the Power Within” event.

I thought that it was almost like better than excellence. I researched the word outstanding. The definition of it, it talks about being the best, you’re being almost a level above great, because good enough, is not good enough anymore with a competitive marketplace we have now.

We can’t just be great, and we can’t just be excellent. We’ve got to be outstanding.

When I heard that I thought, wow, I’m already working hard. I’m already trying to push excellence in working on improving. What else do I need to do?

But I realised it wasn’t about necessarily going up, but it was more going lateral.

How can I go laterally, to be different to stand out? If you’re not willing to stand out, which has an element of risk and has an element of fear. If you’re not willing to do that, you’re not going to make it as an entrepreneur.

Outstanding means you show up and you’d be visible consistently. Even if it’s not going to be perfect. Because you will never do a perfect Facebook Live video, I’ve never done one.

You’ll never do a perfect workshop; you’ll never do a perfect speech. It’s never finished. You never arrive. If you’re creative, if you are high-achiever, you never arrive.

But you can just keep showing up and standing out and be willing to have a voice, which is not always easy because you’re going to get judged. You’re going to get some doubters some haters.

The most successful people have the most people not liking them. If you see anyone that’s doing well, you’re going to see people that don’t like what they’re doing.

But if you want to be successful, you’ve got to be willing to be outstanding to stand out. And that means being truly authentically you.

You don’t have to go and change. You don’t have to go and do crazy stuff. You don’t have to do anything crazy. You just must just be yourself. Because if you’re being yourself, you’re being outstanding, but I mean truly being you.

That means showing up in your full authenticity, which can be tough. It’s vulnerable, especially in this world where we can Photoshop everything, where we can edit everything, to be willing to stand out by just being who you are.

It is one of the bravest things that you’ll ever do.

There was a study done of over 20,000 people who are extremely high performance. Through this study, they discovered that the most outstanding people are the ones who really understand who they are and perform out of their own authenticity.

A lot of people are trying to change themselves to be someone that they’re not.

You just must turn up. Be the best version of yourself. Meaning, you’re always curious, you’re always pushing the boundaries.

You’re committed. You’re always learning, you’re always trying your best.

And you’re willing to just keep showing up consistently.

Not easy, but it’s doable, and worth it.

Success Secrets of Successful Female Entrepreneurs

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If you haven’t registered, it’s nearly full. Make sure that you register your space because we’re just about full up. 

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I’d love to see you at one of the live events soon!

And remember – be curious, be committed and be outstanding.

Kat xo

 

 

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