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3 Little-Known Ways To Grab Attention Instantly With Your Content

How good are you at getting people’s attention online?

In this blog and video, I share how to get people’s attention fast and maintain it.

You can have an INCREDIBLE program or service, but without being able to grab attention, it’s like having a Porsche, but leaving it in your garage. You won’t get far.

If you want to attract more clients, you need to understand the power of attention.

So, what is it that gets people’s attention?

A Harvard study showed that 90%+ of our buying decisions are made subconsciously.

We all have an internal subconscious ‘gate-keeper’ that’s designed to filter what to pay attention to. It helps us decide which content posts, videos, and emails to keep consuming…and which ones to scroll on by.

Often we don’t even know what we’re looking for when we’re online. What we decide to keep reading or watching is predominately subconscious.

If you don’t know how to speak directly to the subconscious mind, you’re probably trying to get people’s attention logically… (which rarely works). Because attention goes in order of the brain stem.

But when you know how to arrange your words in a way that gets people’s attention, you get more engagement, interest, and most importantly, more people inspired to take action to work with you.

This is what I call compelling content. It’s something I’m super passionate about helping coaches and entrepreneurs to improve on because if you can get this right, your written and spoken content can attract clients for you consistently.

You can start applying these principles straight away and make money fast, it’s super exciting!

So to get someone’s attention, we need to understand the science of action. What makes someone take action?

To get this, we need to understand 3 parts of the brain and the order in which each part is engaged.

1. Instincts 

The first level is instincts. With all our content, it’s important to always speak to the hindbrain first. The hindbrain is the ‘survival mode’ part of our brain, also known as the lizard brain or reptilian brain.

When people are scrolling through social media or looking through their inbox, they are typically in ‘instinct’ mode.

The instinct acts like a ‘gatekeeper’ and makes decisions super quickly, it’s subconscious, it’s super quick. And what we’re asking at a subconscious level is “Is this going to move me up my hierarchy of values”.

That’s what’s happening under the surface. The hindbrain is analysing super fast “Is this going to waste my time, or is this going to give me a return on investment”… whether that’s through entertainment, learning something that we didn’t know, being inspired, or a story that warms our heart.

So, at a family party when my Uncle talks about motorbikes, that is lower in my values. And he couldn’t care less about hearing all about business and personal development, things that I’m into. So, this is happening at that level.

2. Imagination – Emotions

The second level is imagination. The next gatekeeper we’ve got to get through is the emotion, which is activated in the imagination.

We’ve got to move people and evoke their emotions.

We do this by getting them to imagine a scene playing out – to be aware that you understand their problem SO well that they think “oh my gosh, she gets me. I really feel the truth of what she’s saying”.

We do this by painting a picture using specific language.

3. Intelligence – Logic

Once you’ve gotten through the instinct, and the imagination, then you get to the intelligence.

This happens at the prefrontal cortex of the brain, which is the logic, the analysis, the order and structure part of the brain.

A lot of people try and reach people with logic, and they haven’t come through the gatekeepers of instant and imagination.

It always goes in this order. Always. This is the science of voluntary action.

In order to get someone to take action, we need to work our way UP the brainstem.

So how do we do this?

There are 3 things I teach that are super effective in grabbing attention:

1. Talk about a specific PROBLEM your ideal client has

ATTENTION is based on a hierarchy of values. Anyone on the planet will be receptive to your content if you shift them UP their hierarchy of values.

Certain things are more important to us than others.

Research shows that most people are thinking about their problems. So if we try and reach them with a solution too quickly, we don’t build trust with them.

Today I was in Macquarie shopping centre and the Flying Doctors tried to stop me. But because I was on a mission for something more important in that moment, I didn’t stop.

The day before I was approached by someone asking me to donate to dry July because she saw my post on my recent skin cancer scare. And that made me stop and pay attention because it was in my ‘attention field’.

When you have to make quick decisions, we do it based on our values.

Any time a human tries to pull you down the hierarchy of values, you will probably get annoyed.

One of the reasons communication breaks down is because one person talks about what is important to them, and not important to the other person. Then the other person starts talking about what is important to them.

Most issues we have with human beings are that we’re trying to pull their attention lower into things that are less important to that person.

The question to always have in mind when creating content is – Is what I’m about to talk about important?

When people are shifted up their values scale, they will be grateful.

If there is a problem preceding your information – the solution becomes important.

People scroll past if you shift them down their attention scale. They stop and consume your content when you shift them UP their attention scale.

This is why it’s so important to be clear about who you’re wanting to attract, so you know the language that shifts their attention UP their values hierarchy.

2. Share the CAUSE of the problem, revealing something contrarian

Once we’ve gained someone’s attention, we can unpack the cause of the problem, being contrarian – meaning, going against something.

Russell Brunson calls this ‘throwing rocks at your enemies’.

You don’t throw rocks at the person or business, but more like a concept.

So let’s say you’re a nutrition coach, and you help people with losing weight, and you do it through a keto diet. You might throw rocks at a calorie-counting diet.

If you teach people how to run marathons, you might be contrarian to CrossFit, or high intensity interval training.

If you’re a parenting coach, and you’re all about hands-on parenting; that’s a method that you teach, you might go against people who are very hands-off parenting.

If you’re a mindset coach you may focus on self-care as a healing modality, vs. a coach who focuses on contribution and service as the priority for healing.

In my business, I teach that that doing a blog once a week, or joining a clubhouse room or starting a podcast is not the fastest way to get clients.

The fastest way is by having a profitable presentation.

Think about the opposite of what you want to share. What do you stand for and against?

Use this when you’re unpacking the cause of the problem your ideal clients have.

3. Share the exact SOLUTION of that problem

The third thing we share is the solution of the problem. We show people clearly exactly what they need to do.

This is all about POSITIONING.

If someone’s knowledge is organised, they change position in your brain and value goes up.

Every time you open your mouth you are constantly positioning yourself. Are you subconsciously lowering or raising your positioning?

The best way to position yourself is to teach people something they didn’t know – or teach in a different way.

When you organise the knowledge in a way that has a pathway, that’s what people pay for.

They pay you to take them through a process that speeds up their results. A roadmap or game-plan that accelerates the process for them.

This system is what I personally use to get clients consistently and make 6-figures per year in my business and what I teach my clients.

I typically get at least 3 discovery calls booked into my calendar every week by applying these principles.

I use them in my written and spoken content. You can do this in ads and organic content, in your social media captions, emails – everywhere you show up online.

This strategy is so powerful because you understand how to do it, you can get clients very fast.

So I’ve decided to teach a small group of people how to do this. I’m creating a new 30-day compelling content mastermind, where I’ll be leading people through this powerful process to create the right language to call in truly ideal, quality clients.

This will be available only for people who are already in business, you’ve already had clients, and you’re pretty settled on a particular ideal client.

I’ll help you craft your content in a way that attracts and converts, so the right people can immediately see what you’re all about and that it’s for them and want to take action to work with you.

It will be a very exclusive small group so that everyone gets personal coaching with me about how to use your content to attract the right clients.

If you’re interested, reach out and we’ll have a quick chat to see if you’re a good candidate for the mastermind.

So just send me a DM on social media or email me: info@katmillar.com if you want to be considered to be part of it to make sure you get results.

See you soon!

Kat

 

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The most IMPORTANT thing you can do this week to level up your business

If you want to scale up your business, you’re probably doing a lot of things in your business right now.

Posting, emails, research, hanging out in Facebook Groups, writing blogs. There’s a lot of activity as a business owner.

The question is, is it getting you new clients consistently? And if it’s not, what do you need to do differently to get different results?

Level up means different things to different people. What does level up your business mean to you?

For some people, it means upskilling in their sales, in marketing and presenting, their copywriting…

Level up for others means leaving their job and going full time in their business.

For some people, levelling up means that they are bringing on a new team member or creating a new funnel or system.

It might mean achieving your freedom figure – the amount of money that you want to earn every single month so you have freedom and don’t have to work in a job…

…then you can have that impact that you really want to make in the world.

What’s the next thing you want to achieve in your business?

Think about this… there are things that you need to do in your business, right now, that you don’t know how to do that someone else knows how to do.

We can all waste so much time trying to figure out things on our own.

I’ve come up against some things recently that I have been really stuck on. I couldn’t believe that I was really struggling with a Facebook ad and I couldn’t get it to get accepted. It would keep going back into the ad and it kept getting rejected.

For some reason, I didn’t reach out to a business group that I’ve paid for a membership for. I just didn’t even think to reach out to them. And then I finally did. I said I really need help on this. I’ve been trying everything trying to figure it out on my own. And they came straight back to me with the answer.

It was interesting how much I tried to figure that out on my own when I could actually reach out and ask for help and receive it.

Also, another yearly membership to a business group I’m part of came up for renewal at the start of this month.

I’m already part of two other programs plus have a coach, so I was thinking about whether I wanted to stay in it or not.

As it got closer to the expiry date, I felt fear pop up that I would miss out on their specific skills.

When I noticed that emotion I thought “What is it worth to have that extra certainty that I can get more help when I’m stuck?”

I remembered something important.

When I wanted to win bodybuilding contests, I worked with people who had won trophies.⠀

When I wanted to earn $10K+ months consistently, I worked with people who had already achieved that income.

If we don’t keep investing in people who have done what we want to do, we won’t keep growing.

What usually happens is that when we don’t know how to do something, we stop doing it. We go and do something else. And there are things that have been holding us back from a lot for a long time because we’ve got stuck.

Whether it’s somewhere in our funnel or somewhere in our sales process. Or maybe it’s something to do with our website or Facebook ad.

I’ve had three people reach out to me this week, and say that they needed feedback. I help people make-over their content and web pages.

One lady needed a website overhaul and a social media strategy and we got that done in 2x 90 minutes sessions.

Another lady reached out to me and said, “I don’t know why I’m not getting clients.” I looked at her branding and it was impeccable. It all looks amazing. But as I started to go through it, I realised that her messaging was not clear. She was trying to reach too many people … and she’s missing them all. I could see exactly what her problem was.

She could have kept churning out content and it wouldn’t have gotten results because she hasn’t stepped back and crafted exactly who her ideal client is and their specific pain points. She was being super vague.

Sometimes because we don’t look beyond ourselves and what we know, we can miss opportunities to grow.

Changing your business and changing your life, it’s always going to be preceded by awareness of something you haven’t seen in yourself up to that point.

You might know what to do, but you haven’t seen how to actually apply it in your business.

A lot of people say to me, “I know what I should be doing. I know that I need to be doing more content… improving my copywriting skills… doing more videos.” But they don’t have the clear steps of exactly what to do, a formula.

YOU OVERCOME FEAR WITH A FORMULA

You overcome fear with a formula when you’ve got the steps and you know how to apply those big picture principles like send emails, or the things that you know that you should be doing in business, but you’re not taking action on. Often, it’s because you haven’t seen exactly what to do and how to apply it to your own personal business.

A lot of us want to transform things in our business but before the transformation, there needs to come a recognition that something’s broken.

And because we can’t see ourselves, we don’t know what we look like to others.

It was interesting when I was doing this website make-over. I was looking at her LinkedIn, Facebook and Instagram, I could see so many things that she was doing, I could see the holes – it’s one of my genius zones or whatever you want to call it. One thing I can say is I can quickly pick up where people are going wrong.

Think about it like this. You eat a salad at one o’clock for lunch at a cafe with some friends. Then you go and get your nails done. Then you have some meetings and go shopping. You get home, let’s say 6pm, you look in the mirror and there’s like a big piece of kale in your teeth.

So between one o’clock and six o’clock you’ve talked to maybe 12 people and you think, “Why did not someone tell me?” You couldn’t see it.

And this is the thing I really want you to get – you cannot change what you cannot see.

I heard about a really influential leader who said, “I want to ask a question of the people that I lead. What’s it like to be on the other side of me?” And that’s a good question.

Have you ever thought about what it’s like to be on the other side of you?

We all have blind spots because we don’t know what it’s like to be on the other side of ourselves. We don’t know what it’s like to deal with us. We don’t know what it’s like to have a conversation with us.

We’ve watched ourselves on video, maybe we see ourselves in the mirror, but we actually don’t know what it’s like to be our friend or our coach.

One of my Inner Circle clients is a Parenting Coach. She helps parents with big picture parenting and her and I were chatting about the fact that a lot of parents don’t have a plan for their parenting.

And so they might say, “Oh well, I’m a great parent.” But how do they know? They’ve never parented yourself.

Or, they might say, “My marriage is good”, but how do they know? They’ve not been married to themselves.

So if you’re going to transform your business you need to see things differently from how you see them now. How you see yourself now is not how other people see yourself.

Think about this: every moment of every day, our brain gets bombarded with information which we process, and this becomes our perception and our experience.

I remember learning in my NLP training that we have coming into our system, approximately 11 million bits of information per second. I just couldn’t get my head around that. I don’t know if you can even try and fathom 11 million bits of information. But as a processing unit our brain can only process around 126 bits of information.

So, we’ve got 11 million bits coming in. Our brain can only process 126. So how do we decide which bits to pick?

Imagine a big pile of  11 million matches. I can’t even fathom that, but imagine there is a big field full of 11 million matches, and your brain, in a second or millisecond pulls out just 126. Think about how many are left … 10,999,874 bits of information are left that your brain didn’t pull out.

If I pulled out my 126 matches, they’re going to be different bits of information based on our beliefs and experiences, our upbringing, our filters our perception of reality, what’s important to us, etc. That’s why when you buy a nice top, you begin to see that top everywhere in the shops.

So the odds are you’re going to pick up different bits of information to someone else.

So when you think about how much you’re missing out, how much you’re not seeing and how much you’re not experiencing, it’s crucial as business owners, that you know the task to pull out that you could be doing in business, which are going to have the greatest impact.

We need to know the tasks that are going to have the greatest impact and we can’t usually see that the challenges ourselves. We need someone else from the outside to actually show them to us.

How do we differentiate the test of high impact and low impact? Well, the first thing we need to do is we need to decide what impact means. You may want to base your impact on your monthly or quarterly income goal.

So, determine which tasks in your business, of the hundreds of things that you could be doing, are going to bring the most in income.

Some people think it’s either increasing their income or it’s helping people. They actually go together. You can’t increase your income without helping people.

And if you’re charging what you’re worth, you can’t help people without increasing your income. They go together too, because business is about providing value. If what you do genuinely improves the quality of someone’s life, then the more impact you make, the more income you receive because they really do go together.

So there’s nothing wrong with having income as a priority, because that’s a direct reflection of how many people you’re serving, and helping.

It’s also important that if income is a priority, that marketing and sales are the most important activities you can be doing.

And by marketing, I don’t mean making your brand colours pretty. I don’t mean fluffing about on Canva, lining up every photo. I don’t mean writing a blog for three hours so only your Mum and your best friend read it ,but not actually driving any traffic to it. Those are not impact-driven activities.

We can all get stuck in those things because the brain loves the path of least resistance.

So often those 126 bits of information that are picked from the 11 million bits are the easy things, the safe things, the comfortable things. But if you’re not good at sales and marketing, the priority is skill acquisition on those two things – improving your marketing and sales skills has to become a top priority until you’re getting a return on your investment of the time that you’re putting in.

The lady that I was working with before was sharing that she is getting a lot of leads coming in so that she actually had to turn her ads off. The problem is she’s not converting them. So I said to her that her priority has to be sales right now as well as sales conversations. She can’t keep pulling people in if she doesn’t know how to convert.

So she needs to stop the marketing and focus on sales.

If you’re not getting any sales, if you look at your calendar right now and you looked at the next week or two, how many sales conversations have you got booked in? If you don’t have enough sales calls booked in in order to meet your monthly income target, then that’s got to be your priority – marketing, client attraction. lead generation.

These have got to be your priority and not the things that are just passive things, but the things that are directly going to lead to people booking into your calendar.

So often, we don’t see this ourselves. We don’t see what we don’t see.

So my question to you is: whose eyes are currently on your business, showing you the most important things to do?

Because if you’re not experienced in business, or you haven’t hit 10k months consistently, for example, do you want the opinion of friends around your business? Or do you want people who have successfully done what you want to do looking at your business.

I’m sure you’ve done business courses before. But if your business is not where you want it to be, it’s not just that you’re not applying what you’ve learned.

Here’s the distinction.

People think I learned all this stuff, I’m just not doing it. That’s not it. The reason you’re not where you want to be is you don’t know exactly how to apply it to your business right now. You don’t know the next steps, because otherwise you’d be doing them. So there is something missing.

And if you’re not levelling up, you don’t know the exact steps to take that are going to make the most impact and that are going to give you the results that you want.

There’s a quote that I love that says, “We can’t see the picture when we’re inside the frame.”

We can’t see that kale in our teeth when we’re looking at someone else.

So the most important thing you can do this week to level up your business is to get an expert perspective, to get someone’s eyes on your business. It’s the fastest thing if you think about it. Businesses scale up fast because they have strapped themselves to a fast moving vehicle.

Someone who knows what they’re doing or a company that knows what they’re doing. They’re not reinventing the wheel and trying to figure it all out themselves. And that’s how you grow your business and scale your business fast!

So if you’re stuck in your business, right now, the way to speed it up is to reach out to someone who can help you with that thing that you’re stuck on, the most impactful thing related to your most impactful goal. And whether that’s an income goal, or an impact goal, or both.

What’s essential for leveling up is to get someone’s eyes on your business that has done what you need to do. It’s called ‘Standing on the Shoulders of Giants’.

I had a cassette series when I was a teenager called ‘Standing on the Shoulders of Giants’. Did you have that? It was of Les Brown and some other motivational speakers. I remember that concept just clicking with me. This made me think if someone else has done it, then I can do it too.

But I need help. I can’t just try and figure it out myself. So I’ve invested around $145,000 now on education, and that is the single most thing that’s given me success. There’s no way that I’d be full-time, earning six figures a year in my business if I hadn’t have reached out and got expert help directly on my business.

So if you want to level up your business to $10K a month or more, not just as a one-off, but consistently, there’s a strategy to that. But you can’t learn that strategy if no one’s ever showing you exactly what to do.

It requires a willingness to get an expert’s perspective on your business, because your business is unique. And once you know the strategy, you stop wondering where your clients are going to come from, and you start getting predictable results, which is what we need in business. We don’t want to just be trialing things all the time and of course, there are going to be things that don’t work.

There are always risks in business of things that don’t work, but why not get a strategy that you know someone else has used over and over with many people and it works.

When you have a strategy that works, and it’s reliable, and you can trust in it, it becomes a repeatable system and you don’t have to keep trying all these different things.

If you’re not in Sydney and you want to get expert eyes on your business this week to move past your business problems, email me and we’ll arrange a time to chat.

And if you are in Sydney, and if you want to level up your business, I’ve gotten together with one of my business masterminds, (which we call ourselves the ‘Success Inner Circle’) and we’ve decided to create an event teaching the strategy.

Check out the Level Up event here

Together we’ve delivered over 8,500 coaching sessions between us and we’ve run over 300 events between us. So we know how to attract clients consistently based on our experience. We’ve designed an exact action plan that you can use to scale your business systematically.

We’re running an event on the 19th of June sharing how you can sign up your ideal clients consistently with a proven, reliable system.

Click the link here to find out more.

We’re going to be showing you how to get the right clients into your business using the right language – making sure that your messaging is correct, making sure that you’re speaking to the subconscious mind, which is the most powerful way that people make decisions.

We’re going to guide you through a step-by-step process that you can use straight away so you will know exactly what to do after the event.

We’re also not selling anything. It’s no fluff, there’s no hype. We’re just sharing pure, valuable content all day.

Check out the upcoming event in Sydney here, seats are filling up fast!

I’d love to see you there!

Kat

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Content That Gets You Likes Vs Content That Gets You Clients

There is a big difference between content that gets you likes, and content that gets you clients.

And it’s not just the dollars that come with gaining clients. I have discovered 3 simple tricks that will make your content 100% more compelling.

Content that gets you likes may be interesting and entertaining. It might be a little educational.

But there are depths and layers that we can add to our content, which inspires people to actually take action as a result of reading your content, and this is our ability to influence through our content.

Influence is the ability to inspire someone to take action to get more of what they want. To influence someone, you have to go deeper into their subconscious mind.

Lots of people are producing content, creating videos and getting themselves out there online now, but not many people have a solid, consistent, client database and income.

Success is not about just people liking and commenting on your posts. The most successful people actually aren’t spending all this time on social media checking likes and checking comments.

The most successful people are too busy servicing their clients to worry about that.

Once you know how to create influential content that is compelling, your whole world expands and opportunities open for you.

It doesn’t mean you’re better, it just means that people position you and see you differently. More people contact you to speak on their podcast or in their Facebook group. That’s what happened when I shifted my live events online.

When I was started shifting all my events online, I had many invites to speak to various groups and on podcasts. This was because I was consistently showing up.  I was willing to consistently show up with content that influenced.

I challenged myself to not just create ‘How To’ content or ‘Step by Step’ content, but to go deeper into people’s subconscious mind, because that’s how you influence. When you understand the drivers below the surface logic, then you can get more people booked into your calendar for strategy sessions and discovery calls.

Influential content is crafting your words in a way that makes people want to take action, and take that next step towards actually working with you.

Whenever I put out a new blog or a new video, or send a new email,  I’ve really crafted it and thought about the how to make it compelling and influential. Typically people reach out to me and book into my calendar or webinars, or they contact me privately.

Crafting influential content works. You don’t have to have 1000’s of people on your mailing list, you just need to know how to influence people.

When you have developed the skill of influence, people will reach out to you for PR opportunities and for joint venture opportunities.

You will find the whole world opens up to you and it’s not by chance. It’s because you know how to arrange your words in a way that speaks at the subconscious mind.

It’s about knowing how to awaken desires within people, to make them want to learn more, and motivate people to move away from their pain.

Credibility doesn’t come from just having knowledge. They say knowledge is power, but it’s actually only potential power. Credibility comes from getting people results.

When people want to succeed, they seek advice from people who get results and who are further along in the journey than themselves. It’s not just about teaching something to people, it’s about your ability to communicate your value so that someone wants to follow you because you get results.

1 – Influential Content Is Conversational And Natural

Influential content needs to be conversational and natural. People want simplicity and they want something they can understand easily.

People are influenced when they trust you. Who do we trust the most? We trust the people closest to us. We trust certain family members, our friends, our partner, our close peers.

If we’re not being our natural selves, our content can sound formal, when we wouldn’t speak that way with our friends or family if we were chatting over a coffee.

When you create content, you need to speak to your clients as though you are speaking to a trusted family member or friend.

We also do this when we get on video. I look back at my first Facebook Live and I cringe! I was so unnatural. It’s not easy to be yourself when you get a camera in front of you.

When things are not natural and they are hard to read, or when you sound like a robot, your readers lose interest quickly and they scroll on by. So you want to write like you’re just sharing to a friend and write in a conversational tone.

That is what makes it influential. We are more influenced by our friends than we are by a marketer online, or by a business person online.  We’re influenced by the people that we trust and the people that are closest to us.

Forget what you learned in English, in terms of things having to be in perfect grammar. When you write as you speak, your writing is going to be more influential and you’re going to be ahead of most people,  so keep it casual.

2 – Influential Content  Speaks To The Subconscious Mind

There was a study done by Harvard, that shows that over 90% of our buying decisions are made by our subconscious mind. When you think about buying, it’s all about influence.

When you buy something, it’s because you’re influenced in some way by the colour, shape, the words or the sound. Something influenced us to buy it. So if you want to influence people,  the most essential business skill you can have is to be able to speak to the unconscious mind.

We do this by understanding the real drivers of human behavior. It’s not logic. It’s connecting with the pain, desires, values, shadow values, beliefs, and things that go beyond our logic.

For example, status is one of the 7 desires that I spoke about in the last training. The need to increase our status by something we buy is a strong driver. People are asking themselves if what they are buying will increase their status.

Other drivers could be the appearance of intelligence, looking smart, appearing powerful, being wealthy, or it could be something altruistic, like doing kind deeds. If you want to influence people, you need to understand these subconscious drivers of human behavior.

When we purchase something, we often aren’t thinking logically. It’s like doing a bungee jump. You don’t think through it as though you are going to get different benefits of it. You don’t think through the pros and cons of doing a bungee jump.

When I decided to do a bungee jump, I wanted to feel the thrill and the freedom of throwing myself off a bridge. I wanted to feel brave and courageous.

It wasn’t a logical decision. It made zero sense to throw myself off a bridge. My Mum was absolutely mortified and said she wouldn’t throw herself off a bridge if someone paid her $500 million!

But yet, I chose to jump, even though it made no logical sense because it actually is not logical.  It was so scary. There were not many benefits. But I was driven to do it.

Influential content speaks to the side of someone that’s driving them, the side where they’ll find the money, they’ll find the way, they’ll find the resources that they need to make it happen.

If I think about the programs that I’ve invested in to teach me with my business, the most expensive one was $17,000.

I had no money at the time and I had 3 credit cards full of debt. I think now that it was such an illogical decision to put myself in another $17,000 worth of debt, but I didn’t think of it like that. I thought of it like an investment into my future.

I’m so glad I wasn’t logical because that was one of the most powerful things I’ve ever invested into. It gave me an NLP certification which absolutely changed my life and the way I think about myself and the world. It gave me a life coaching certification, speaker training certification, and a business certification.

I have seen a massive return on investment because I’ve made way more than $17,000 back from that investment. It was illogical, but it felt right, because the person who sold it to me influenced me, because he pushed on those values. He helped open my future vision of myself to be a successful business owner.

So too,  you can deliver content that goes straight to those core needs. And remember, it’s about emotion, not logic. When you learn to speak to the subconscious, it transforms your content completely.

3 –  Influential Content Speaks Directly To A Person’s Pain And Desires

Influential content speaks directly to a person’s pain and desires and this is how we wake up the emotions. You really need to know your ideal client and speak directly to them.

You can’t expect people to be influenced by your content if you don’t understand them. And you’ve got to speak their language and know specifically what pain areas they have.

What are their fears, frustrations, and struggles in their life right now? Then you need to articulate their pain to them exactly in a way they would say it.

We used to get taught paraphrasing. When you’re having a conversation you do open listening and you paraphrase back to the person what you heard and you repeat it back exactly how they said it. So if someone said they want to get rid of a muffin top, you wouldn’t say, “Oh, so you want to get toned obliques?”

You would repeat back using their exact language.

You’ve got to use your ideal client’s exact language. And to do that, you have to get to know your target market. And you do this by having lots of conversations with your ideal clients. I’ve done hundreds of free sessions with people who are ideal clients so I could learn their language, their pain points, and their desires.

So there you have it, the difference between content that gets you likes, and content that gets you clients.

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If you need help to get more right-fit clients, free up more time and create a profitable, lifestyle-friendly business that you LOVE, I’m offering a free 45-minute next-level business strategy session, where you’ll get clarity and a clear action plan.

I’ll walk you through a roadmap to show you exactly what you need to do and personalise it to suit you. 

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How To Share Your Value Online, Without Feeling Like You’re Bragging

When it comes to sharing your value online, do you worry that people will perceive you as big-noting yourself or bragging?

We’re aware that it’s not really acceptable to brag about ourselves!

But we’re also mindful that we need to be sharing our expertise and credibility to promote our business.

So how do we share our experiences and value, without coming across as though we are being boastful?

In this video, I share 3 ways:

1 – Show, Don’t Tell

As an entrepreneur your job is to express your worth by organising your knowledge and offering it to the world. This may be uncomfortable for you, because it involves showing people how you can help them and being confident in it.

It means not being afraid to be seen and heard, not being afraid of having a voice and having an opinion. You are  far more valuable than you realise. You’re probably earning way less than you deserve.

No one is going to come along and demand that you realise your worth. That’s up to you. And you won’t last in business long if you don’t! 

If you want to help more people you’ve got to be clear on your value and you’ve got to let people know about it.

I love what renowned marketing expert Frank Kern says: “The best way to show someone that you can help them is by actually helping them:.

If you want to share your value – ask yourself how much value you are ACTUALLY giving to your people?

Not just intermittent value, but consistent value where you are showing up regularly to help your followers.

Does your audience feel they can really trust you to keep showing up?

Can they rely on you not being here today and then gone tomorrow?

Are you just re-posting other people’s content, or are you deliberately crafting something from scratch that will genuinely be helpful for people?

A lot of people don’t want to give all their secrets away and you don’t have to either.

However, you can give away so much of your knowledge and valuable content and people can still want to pay you. They need more than just information.

Even though I give a lot of free knowledge away, people still need a personalised roadmap to help them through their business journey, and there is only so much you can get out of my free posts, blogs and videos.

Eventually you need to get eyes on your business and have someone help you create a clear roadmap that will guide your business into being all that you planned it to be.

Putting yourself out there requires courage, effort and consistency. It requires you to be loyal to your followers and to the people who are watching your life. It means sharing your opinions and sharing your unique feelings, even though your opinions might ruffle some feathers.

Marketing is about targeting the right people and being willing to not attract everyone. Leaders and influencers are not afraid to repel some people, when the right people are drawn to them.

You see this on YouTube all the time. As the likes go up, the dislikes also go up.

If you are going to attract some people, you are also going to repel others. It’s the nature of online business.

If you’re struggling to get clients right now, it’s probably because you haven’t shared enough value, or communicated your value well to your audience. You have a genius zone that other people need and don’t have.

The more you know your value, the more you’ll be able to communicate your value. So some of it actually comes down to valuing yourself and your self worth. It’s really about backing yourself.

You need to back your work ethic, back your ability to help people and back your program. Put your program on a pedestal, not yourself. And this is how you can share your expertise and your brilliance, by really talking about your program. Your program is not just something you’ve created, it’s a part of your core being that you’ve poured yourself into.

Most Mothers wouldn’t reject their child or put them down if someone complimented her child and called them pretty. She probably wouldn’t say, “No she’s not”. She created that child, so she would hopefully accept the compliment and respond with a thank you.

It’s the same for a program you’ve created.  You don’t have to say you personally are great, but you can say that your program is excellent because of how you have invested what you’ve learned, your experience and your soul into it.

You can share how you’ve spent a long time creating the program and within it you share your knowledge in an easy to follow, step-by-step process. Instead of elevating yourself, you elevate your signature system that you’ve created.

2 – Have A Balance Of Strength And Warmth

There’s an amazing book called ‘Compelling People’ by John Neffinger and Matthew Kohut.  They did some research on compelling people who have a very large audience.

What they found is that compelling people have two important traits – strength and warmth. Compelling people have a balance of strength and warmth, where they have found a sweet spot of balance between these two traits.

Showing Strength

Strength is that directness and confidence that holds conviction behind it.  When you are in the presence of someone who is very powerful and very strong, you feel an energy exuding from them. It makes you trust them.

Strength is such an important part of showing your value. You’ve got to be strong and confident in your conviction and certain of who you are and what you offer. Strength is also about competence.

When you are confident in your competencies, you know that you have expertise and can deliver results. Strength is shown in your certainty, confidence and competence in what you are offering.

Showing Warmth

If you have strength but you don’t have warmth, you come across as too direct and hard. It’s the opposite end of the spectrum. If you’re too far on the strength end of the spectrum and don’t have warmth mixed in, you come across as direct, hard, unlikable, not relatable and intimidating.

People will think you are powerful, but they won’t want to get in close proximity with you. You become scary to people. So your strength needs warmth to balance it out.

Warmth is having empathy, understanding and having the ability to listen. It’s all about the connection. It’s conveying your humanity, being relatable and vulnerable. People often think that vulnerability lowers your value, but it actually increases it.

If you want to have compelling copywriting, you want to have a good balance of strength and warmth. Take the time to assess yourself and ask yourself where you sit on the strength and warmth spectrum. Even ask some people close to you for how they experience you to be.

If you’re really strong, think about how you can turn up the warmth a little. It could be smiling more, telling stories or sharing your experiences and bringing vulnerability into your personal stories when you’re sharing your value.

If you’re more on the warmth side of things and you’re really good at relating with people, building connection and showing empathy, then maybe you need to push your strength side a little. You may need to be more assertive and tell people how you can help them, and share about the consequences of them not changing.

3 – Evoke Emotion

The language and words we use in our content can evoke either fear or desire and you want both of these within your content to create compelling content. Compelling content evokes the pain that people are in and it pushes on their pain points.

There are 7 pain points that people try to avoid, and I go deeper into these in my upcoming webinar.  Your clients are feeling pain in some of these areas and there are words and language that we can use to help them avoid their pain and remove them from the trajectory they are on.

There are also 7 main desires that humans have, that are solved by service-based businesses like coaching and consulting.

With both pain and desire, you’ve got to be thinking how you can express your value and also move people emotionally, because it’s not just about sharing content. There’s so much information out there, we can Google anything, anytime on our phones. It’s not just about sharing information.

It’s inspiring people to act. That is what valuable content is. Valuable content is not ‘3 tips’ or ‘3 secrets’ or ‘3 methods’.

It’s about using story and emotion to push on pain points that invoke emotion and desire that inspires someone to act.

When you are creating your content, really think through the language and the words that are going to bring the pain or desire feelings to your readers.

When you inspire someone to take an action, even a really small action, they attribute that to you, and they’re like, ‘Wow he moved me. He didn’t just entertain me, he educated me and helped my belief to shift so I see things differently now’.

And that is what valuable content does. Valuable content is about showing and not telling. It’s about having a balance of strength and warmth and it’s about showing value and evoking emotion.

If you would like to know how to do this, I’m unpacking it all in my upcoming, free webinar, on Thursday, 18th February.

I recently ran a 1-day event, where I delved deeply into the art of creating compelling copy.

I shared my ‘Compelling Copy Formula’, and unpacked the psychology of influence, which enables you to understand at a deep level how to inspire people to take action.

I received so much great feedback about it that I decided to run a FREE LIVE online ‘best-of’ evening event with the highlights that people loved MOST!

If you want to avoid being drowned out in the sea of noise with the masses online, and you want to understand how to create compelling content and get my actual step-by-step formulas, then this webinar is for you.

I’ll be unpacking how to write influential copy and how to utilise power words and phrases that move people towards you.

I’m sharing how to communicate your value in a way that people get to know, like and trust you, so you can attract new clients FAST!

Learning how to write influential content has the potential to change EVERYTHING for you.⠀

Want help to grow your business? 

Business is too hard to do alone.

Do you need help to get more right-fit clients, free up more time and create a profitable, lifestyle-friendly business that you LOVE?

I offer a free 45-minute business strategy session, where you’ll get personalised guidance, direction, clarity, and a clear action plan.

I’ll walk you through a proven business growth roadmap and personalise it to show you exactly what you need to do to hit your financial and freedom goals. 

This is only for people who are ready and committed to change.

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The Old Way Of Writing Copy Is Over

The old way of writing copy is over. There is a new way of writing copy (marketing words) that focuses on:

– People over product
– Connecting with your right-fit people
– Adding genuine value

The aim of good copywriting is to have an impact and effect on people that inspires them to take action.

If you’re a coach or consultant, or you have a service or program that you want to sell to more people, it’s super important that you know how to inspire people to take action.

Some people say to me “What exactly IS copy?!”

Copy is a funny word, isn’t it? Some people don’t like the word, as it can feel kind of intimidating.

All of us – if we have something to sell that’s going to help people solve their problem – need to know how to use our words to link people to our product or service.

There’s a gap between your service or product, and the person who needs what you’re offering.

That’s what copy does – it closes the gap.

Different pieces of your copywriting have different goals.

For example, your social media posts on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram and your emails usually have the goal to bring people a step closer towards you, until you eventually make an offer to what I call your ‘right-fit person’.

If you think about social media posts for example, they are not generally designed to completely close the gap. Social media is meant to be social. It’s about building relationships and connections with people. So they’re meant to be more educational and conversational.

Other copy includes all the words on a landing page or your website, where people come to read about your product or service. This is usually a sales page with an order form that has a button that people click to buy your product or service.

The ‘buy here’ button closes the gap all the way up.

Compelling copy focuses on connecting you with your ‘right-fit people’.

There are people who are the right fit for you. And there are people that are definitely not the right fit for you.

The job of your copy is to attract the right people – the people are those who align with your energy and with what you have to offer.

The Old Way: Professional
The New Way: Conversational

The old way of writing copy was super professional and cheesy. Cheesy doesn’t work anymore. People don’t want that now. People want authentic, friendly and conversational copy.

Ineffective copy is often what’s letting people down in their business. Learning to write copy is a skill. And all skills are learnable.

You can learn it and get better at it and you can start to see a difference really quickly. You don’t need to do a two year degree in copywriting to actually make an impact. It’s the little tweaks that can make a big impact.

You don’t have to completely change your writing style. You just need to follow proven formulas and structures that work. And then you infuse your personality into writing your copy.

The challenge is: People assume that they’re good copywriters because they are good at their subject matter. Being a subject matter expert doesn’t mean you have specifically leaned the skill of copywriting.

There is a lot of freedom and creativity that you can infuse within the copywriting formula, but there is a structure and guidelines to writing content also.

You don’t start to play any game without having the right guidelines or without knowing the rules.

You wouldn’t play a game of soccer or even play a game of chess without knowing the rules, so it’s important to learn the guidelines.

When you’re learning an instrument, there’s certain notes that work well together, like C,E and G, that make a nice sounding chord.

Certain notes don’t work well together, like playing C and D, because their sound together does not work well.

It’s the same with copywriting. There’s a big difference between writing about how great your product is, and writing to influence or inspire someone to buy.

Breaking Old Copywriting Myths

There are copywriting myths relating to the old way of writing copy that we need to lay down in order to pick up the new way of copywriting.

Imagine being in an English class and handing in an essay that was written similar to how we write a social media post or email today. It would get an immediate fail!

The new way is different to the traditional way we write. One of the reasons how we write has changed, is because we are so bombarded with information now. We don’t like reading big, long sentences and long paragraphs.

People don’t want to hear old-school, colloquial and traditional language now. No one wants to read posts with long, hard words that you have to get your brain around.

We’ve trained ourselves to follow the path of least resistance, so we need to be able to make our copy simpler.

Big, fancy words is the old way of writing. The new way is conversational.

It’s more conversational, creative and friendly. It’s fun and playful, showing your personality.

There’s been a real shift away from typical, perfect grammar.  It’s now about actually understanding how the human brain learns and absorbs – the ”buttons to press’ through your copy and what inspires people to take action.

The New Way Of Copywriting

The new way of writing copy is understanding how to make people feel something and be moved.

Dale Carnegie says when you’re dealing with people, you need to remember that you’re not dealing with creatures of logic, you’re dealing with creatures of emotion.

It’s important that we think about the reasons that people take action and the reasons that people buy. People buy to fill emotional needs.

Some Reasons People Buy:

  • For popularity or status
  • To be recognised
  • To feel loved
  • To increase our time or increase our money
  • To save money, save energy and save effort
  • To be healthier – physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually

We buy for a whole lot of reasons and we need to understand what is driving human emotions. Napoleon Bonaparte says there are two motives to action: self-interest and fear. It ties in with pain and pleasure.

When you don’t understand this, you’re just writing traditional copy that is beautiful writing, but it’s not moving people to act. This does not work nowadays. It’s not going to close the gap and bring people closer to you.

It’s the professional versus the conversational. It’s about knowing formulas and structures, and knowing the rules of the game, but also being able to infuse the rules of the game with your personality.

Find Your Own Voice And Use It

Finding your own voice is a great way to call in your right-fit people.

You can do this by to find and use your voice to repeat your key messages over and over. Then repeat these messages throughout all your different social media channels, like your LinkedIn, Facebook and Instagram.

These are different platforms, but the way you speak should be the same, because you are the same.

Your voice should be the common thread through your emails, your website and your social media posts. Your voice needs to be cohesive through all your copy, because that’s when people trust you.

The only way really to find your voice is to write a lot. It doesn’t come by thinking about it. It doesn’t come by reading about it.

You can read so many other people’s posts, but you will not find your own voice by consuming other’s posts. You find your own voice by sharing content consistently.

I was talking to a client today and we were discussing a famous leadership author John Maxwell and the reason he can write so many books is because he sets a timer and writes for 20 minutes every day.

With copywriting, it’s about writing freely and not stopping and getting stuck in perfectionism.

It’s actually allowing yourself to just get good at the craft by getting out there and doing it, getting feedback and self-correcting.

The Old Way: Method
The New Way: Outcomes

The old way of copywriting was to focus on the method of change, so that was always method focused. The new way is outcome focused, so it’s method versus outcome.

I often find people are talking about their method of transformation. They are talking about the interventions they do, or their limiting belief busters script, or a particular diet or exercise plan.

This is their methodology. The problem with that is that people don’t buy the method, they want to buy because of an outcome.

An example I encountered once was where a guy asked me to help him to change his marketing, because he wasn’t getting anyone signing up for his event.

He was running an event on how to use the kettle bell. A kettle bell is something that you use at the gym.

He had a poster and the title he used was, ‘Respect The Bell’. He had a big picture of a kettle bell. What was his problem? He was selling the method, not the outcome.

No one sits at home and thinks that they need to learn how to respect the kettle bell. But many people do sit at home and think that they need to lose weight and get fit. They think that they want to drop a dress size.

I see this all the time where people talk about their features and their methodology, rather than speaking about the outcome. We need to connect what we do with what the client is looking for and then close the gap with your copy.

Don’t make the mistake of selling your method before you’ve really imparted the vision and painted a picture of how awesome someone’s future can be.  We’ve got to sell them on the outcome.

Your copy needs to create a scene where your ideal client can see themselves.

An example is: ‘It’s Monday morning, you open your laptop and you are fully booked with clients. You are living your dream. You know this because you have learned exactly how to write compelling copy…

…You’ve followed a formula and your right people are engaging with you and booking into your calendar. People are giving you great testimonials about how much you have helped them.’

This is the power of using someone’s imagination rather than just focusing on your method or focusing on your product.

The Old Way: Volume
The New Way: Finely-Crafted

In the old way of copywriting, volume mattered. The new way is to create finely crafted copy that hits the target.

When I was working in London I had a business coach, and I remember sitting in a cafe with him once and him asking me what my goals were for social media.

At the time I was working in a gym and I wasn’t really doing a lot of social media. He encouraged me saying I had to get out there on Facebook more. Facebook was relatively new at that point.

And his goal for me was to post 3x a day. But I was already so booked up with clients.

People often ask me how often they should post.

It comes down to the quality of the post and how much time you have to create effective content.

When you’re busy and successful, you just don’t have time to be doing volumes on social media.

For example, this week I’ve got 23 clients. I don’t have the luxury of being able to sit there and pump out social media content.

It’s not about pumping out volumes of posts to stay top of people’s minds. It’s choosing quality over quantity. You want to be top of someone’s mind because you’re actually giving value, not because you’re constantly in their feed with bland copy.

There is much greater value in crafting three great posts a week, over doing six sloppy, half thought through posts. When you take the time to think about your ideal client and what they’re going through and how you can help them, people will want to share it.

When I craft my content, people often private message me and say that I’ve really impacted them and they book into my calendar.

You could buy a really cheap bottle of wine and you’d get five or six big glasses out of this cheap bottle of wine.

Or you could just have this one really expensive, beautiful glass and you can just enjoy it and savor it.

You need to have this type of thinking around your copy and content. People will start to view you as genuinely giving value to people.

You’ll get a reputation of providing quality to people, whether they are a paid client or not.

Are you struggling to attract new clients with your content?

Would you like to know how to write more compelling copy that gets people taking action towards being a paid client?

I’m holding a free online workshop on Saturday 6th of February, called  ‘How To Attract New Clients With Compelling Copy’.

I’ll be sharing the words to use to influence your right-fit people, power words, the words to avoid, and the words trigger resistance in people.

I’ll also be sharing a proven compelling copy formula that can save you sooo much time and confusion, and so much more.

You’ll learn the formula and skills to watch your income and impact transform in 2021!

Find out more about the event here

See you there!

Kat

 

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