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January 18, 2024 by katmillar Leave a Comment

How To Get More Clients From Your Social Media

If you’re a business owner, the main purpose of sharing content on social media is to attract people who not only engage with your content, but are excited to sign up for your services.

Investing time and effort into crafting content, without getting clients from it can feel discouraging.

Believe me, I get it.

But with the right strategy, you can get clients consistently from social media.

And you don’t need to…

➡️ Be constantly hanging out in Facebook groups

➡️ Post every day

➡️ Have a huge audience

➡️ Get loads of likes and comments on every post

➡️ Be on every social media platform

The truth is, you can create a successful coaching business WITHOUT any of these things. ❤️

What you need instead is a compelling content strategy that accelerates the connection and trust with your audience.

That’s how you become a Coach that people want to work with.

If you don’t know how to turn your social media followers into coaching clients…

1. You waste so much time creating content that doesn’t get any results

2. You feel like you’re a failure when you’re not

3. You don’t reach the right people who need your services – so you don’t more clients and grow your business

The online business world is changing so fast with more and more people becoming coaches and heading online to do business.

That means, that we as coaches need to level up the way we engage with our audience, communicate our value, and create our online content.

To get more clients from your social media, your content needs to be compelling. It needs to repel the wrong people, and compel the right people.

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If you get this right…

1. Your audience will grow with raving fans that love you

2. More people will reach out to you in your DM’s and emails who are interested in what you do

3. You’ll attract more soul mate clients fast and consistently

So how do we do this?

Here are 5 powerful ways you can create more compelling content so you can get more clients from your social media.

1. Speak more about outcomes than methods

A big mistake that people make on social media is speaking too much about the methods or the processes of what they do in their marketing.

Marketing should focus more on the outcome. Sell the dream.

For example – if you’re a health coach, sharing too many details about the specific foods to eat or avoid.

Or the specific exercises to do.

Rather than focusing on how good someone will feel to have a flat stomach.

Giving away your method and process secrets makes it too obvious and makes you come across less valuable.

It’s also very important to share – WHY your value is important for them to know 

It’s more that tips and tricks.

You can still share valuable content – but focus on inspiring someone to want to change – rather than telling them what to do.

For example –

If you’re a business coach that teaches how to run Facebook ads, in your free marketing, don’t share too much about the technicalities of what to specifically do in Facebook ads.

Share content that shifts someone’s incorrect belief about ads to why ads are so powerful.

They need to pay for the steps on how to personally make it work for them in their business.

2. Build trust with evidence, education, and experience

Anyone can open up an IG account now – it doesn’t make you an expert. We can’t assume that people know that they can trust us. We need to prove it.

It’s not a reliable strategy to just know that you’re trustworthy.

Drop a y for yes if you think of yourself as a trustworthy person?

Most people do, right?

But it’s not enough. You have to take it an extra step.

You have to be intentional SHOW you’re trustworthy in the marketplace.

This is a completely different thing.

It’s only if we are PERCEIVED as trustworthy that people want to work with us.

We can show we’re trustworthy to the marketplace by positioning ourselves as an expert in their minds.

I recommend you do this by sharing 3 E’s consistently:

Experience
Evidence
Education

We can’t just say ‘Do this, do that’

We need to back it up and support what we’re saying.

That’s how you build trust.

3. Use your content to shift beliefs

If you want to turn your followers into coaching clients, you need to shift beliefs using your content.

You might be wondering – how do I do that?

Belief-Shifting Content shifts someone’s specific belief about your topic – their perception, their way of thinking.

It could be the true cause of their problem…

…what they’re currently doing to solve their problem…

or what they need to do to solve their problem.

For example – A lot of coaches believe – “If I just keep doing what I’m doing, eventually it will work”

Whereas I want to show them a better way.

Or they might believe they need to create MORE content. When the truth is, the best results come from changing the way you create content – what you say and how you say it.

A lot of people have the misconception that valuable content is giving tips.

Value is so much more than tips. Value is when someone sees something differently.

It’s when they get a new perspective on something.

We show them that we have what it takes to fill the gap between where they are and where they want to be.

The coaches who take the time to do this and don’t just post for posting sake…

…but are strategic in their social media are the ones who get clients.

This is about taking the time to craft well-thought out, well-worded content.

A lot of people aren’t doing that.

They don’t want to spend the time on it, or they don’t know how to do it.

When you understand the driving forces of your ideal clients – their frustrations, fears, dreams and desires – your content needs to reflect that.

If people aren’t taking action on your content, there’s one thing you can do that will change that. ​It’s to shift beliefs.​

​If people need what you offer and have the resources to buy it, there’s typically only one reason they’re not responding to your content or reaching out to work with you.​

​It’s because they don’t yet believe they can get the result that you offer. ​

​That’s why we need to shift beliefs using our content.​

4. Be opinionated

Sharing your opinion can really help you show the difference between you and others. 

Think about why people should listen to YOU over someone else who does what you do.

What do you always say to your friends or peers about your topic?

What messages do you want to repeat?

Share what you stand for and stand against.

This positions you as a leader 

It compels the right people and repels the wrong people. 

Share your values and beliefs and perspectives on things.

If you have factual data and evidence supporting what you’re saying, it will be much more powerful. Go all in.

Some people call this being contrarian.

The meaning of contrarian is – “a person who takes a contrary position, or a person who opposes or rejects popular opinion.”

Show why your approach is different and why it works better.

For example, I often share that if you’re a coach and you don’t have thousands of followers, right now you probably don’t need to be doing influencer-style marketing where you’re sharing about your life constantly.

We’ve got to be so careful with what we’re influenced by and weigh it up based on the stage we’re at in our business journey.

There are loads of strategies that gurus are recommending that can be very distracting and suck a lot of unnecessary time based on where you’re at in your business journey right now.

For example:

Posting Instagram stories 3-5x a day
Sending Cold DM’s
Hiring an appointment setter to book calls for you
Getting PR or media exposure
Sharing a Reel every day
Advertising on other people’s websites
Having other people’s advertising on your website
Writing a book
Trying to go viral
Creating a podcast
Sharing on Pinterest

There – that was an example of being opinionated.

Think about how you can show more contrast in your business.

What are you teaching NOT to do? What are you standing against?

5. Move people along the client journey

We want to encourage people not to just be passive consumers, but action-takers as a result of what they read or watch from us.

If our content doesn’t inspire people to take action, then it’s not influencing them to move along the client journey.

There should always be a next step.

A lot of opportunities are missed by not inviting an action step at the end of your content.

I love what Denise Duffield Thomas says in her book ‘Chillpreneur’ – “Be consistent. Share what you know and make offers.”

Simple.

Most of your pieces of content should inspire action.

Otherwise, they could just be nice thoughts or interesting information, which can add to the noise.

Every content piece should be chipping away at the limiting beliefs or the resistance or the blocks people have to taking action.

Your content strategy is a series of pieces of content that do that.

It’s about building trust, nurturing, and supporting people.

When you know how to create content that people want to consume…

* You impact more lives

* More people reach out who want to work with you

* Your content turns your followers into your clients

So how do you create a system that gets you amazing clients on repeat – predictably and reliably?

I’m sharing the exact formula that I use and teach to my private clients in my upcoming FREE live workshop:

‘How To Get Coaching Clients With Easy Marketing’

This online workshop is designed specifically for female coaches who want to consistently attract more high-quality clients.

I’m sharing the most valuable lessons from my 20 years of client attraction experience, all laid out in a simple, actionable formula that ANYONE can follow.

It’s helped hundreds of my clients to attract amazing clients consistently and I’m excited to share it with you!

You’ll walk away with…

* The Compelling Content Formula

I’ll be sharing the exact steps to create an effective compelling content strategy, structure your content using brain-based influence principles, and develop the essential marketing skills for a thriving coaching business.

* The 24/7 Marketing Machine

How to effortlessly automate your lead generation with a simple 4-step marketing funnel that brings leads in consistently and predictably, even while you’re on holiday or sleeping

* The Elegant Conversion Event

A proven plan to launch a profitable online event
…so you can reliably FILL your events & calendar with qualified clients.

You’ll walk away with a proven formula you can continue to use for years to come…

…PLUS you will take action on the day & start building out your client attraction plan.

Learn more and secure your FREE ticket to the Workshop

I’m excited to
I’m excited to see you there!

Kat xo

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December 21, 2021 by katmillar Leave a Comment

How To Create A High-Converting Content Strategy

Want a simple and effective content strategy that shows you exactly what to do? A content strategy needs to be easy to execute, without you needing to spend hours a day creating content. You want your content to have an actual real impact on your business.

Effective content has people asking to work with you. You are not left wondering if your content will work, you know it will. An effective content strategy gives you results, so you can continue to get paid in your business and put food on the table!

You don’t just produce content for the sake of it. If you are, then you’re missing opportunities and clients.  I often see people posting content with no purpose. It’s kind of hanging there and there is no flow or journey they are taking potential clients on.

When I first started out, I had no plan with my content. I would just show up and throw up. I learned something, then taught it, but I didn’t have a content strategy.

Over the years, I realised that without having a client journey set out in my content plan and implementing that in my content, then I was wasting my time posting content that did not have an end goal.

It’s really nice to have some spontaneous content, and that’s what I love using stories and lifestyle posts for. You also want to make sure that you have solid content that is doing its job of attracting clients to you.

One of the biggest downfalls that I see is people frustrated because they don’t have a strategy and they are not influencing people with their content. Their content is not shifting people’s perspectives. They’re not actually using their content to get qualified leads.

Successful content needs to be of value to your target audience. It answers the questions that your potential clients have at a particular stage in their client journey. This increases the chances of the right people wanting to work with you.

An effective content strategy has a number of essential ingredients and if you miss them, you can miss out on turning your followers into buyers. To get your content strategy doing its job, there are principles you can follow that work consistently. ⠀

Over the last 10+ years creating online content in my business, I’ve discovered there are 5 essential elements that an effective content strategy has, so I’m going to share them with you today.

1. Build Your Content Backwards From Your Signature Offer

I like what Steven Covey says, “Start with the end in mind.” It’s one of his Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.

The endpoint of your client’s journey is to buy your big premium package offer. So, this is where you have to start from. If you don’t have a premium offer, then that’s something I help people to create.

Your offer has to be irresistible and contain all the components of a great offer. Your offer needs to have things like community, an element of coaching or consulting, and some element of a curriculum. When you’ve built out your offer, then you can start reverse-engineering it.

Successful content answers the questions your potential clients’ have during their client journey.


To reverse engineer your offer, you need to think through the following:

  • What do people need to know before they will buy your offer?
  • What do people need to know to take them through from Point A to Point B into transformation?
  • What do they need to believe? (A lot of times people aren’t buying your offer because they’ve got beliefs that we actually need to shift through our content.)
  • What do they need to think about you?
  • What do they need to think about the solution you offer?

Your content needs to answer the questions potential clients have at a subconscious level. When most people are surfing the internet or scrolling through their social media feeds, they are often not looking at a logical level. They are looking at a subconscious level.

Everyone has multiple problems and they often sit at an unconscious level. If someone comes across a piece of your content that solves one of their problems, they will probably be interested in what you have to offer.

Your content needs to overcome people’s objections and limiting beliefs. You can’t overcome every objection in one post. You need to aim to overcome one objection in one piece of content.

For example, if you have a three-month health coaching package. People consuming your content may think that they don’t need a coaching package because they can just go on a diet they found in a magazine.  

One of your pieces of content might aim to tackle this objection, so you would talk about how magazine diets are written by people who don’t know anything about you. They are created by a random stranger, who does not know your individual lifestyle or unique nutritional needs. You would do one post on that topic only.

People who read your content often don’t know that they need a coach, and they don’t know that they need your specific program. Your content needs to show them how you’re going to solve their problem, so they will be interested.

2. Make Sure Every Piece Of Content Has A Purpose

A common mistake I see is people posting without a purpose. A lot of people post content without really thinking about why.  I’ve definitely done this before, and I’ve looked back and asked myself why did I present it? What was the point?

Think about the purpose of your last 3 posts. Was the purpose to:

  • Get more engagement?
  • Attract more people?
  • Overcome a belief?
  • Sell something?
  • Build connection?

There are so many things you will need to share with someone before they will invest money in you. That’s why you need a strategy to make sure that you’re covering all the points. And you can’t try and change all the areas of someone’s beliefs in one post, or one blog. You can’t tell all your stories in one post.

There are so many things you will need to share with a potential client before they will invest money in you.

What I recommend is that you have one idea, and with that, you may share 3 tips. It’s like an umbrella that the tips hang under. Ask yourself what your point is and if you’ve evoked emotion or invoked curiosity.

If your content does not have a purpose, it won’t draw potential clients to you, so they actually sign up with you. If you haven’t got a purpose and intentional plan about where each piece of content fits in your over-arching strategy, it can’t achieve the goal of attracting clients.

3. Create A Consistent Content Schedule

If you don’t have a schedule, you’ll probably find that you get to the end of the week and haven’t posted much. Or you have posted, but it’s about your walk, your food, or your time in the sun. You’ve not posted purposeful content that actually gets results.

A couple of years ago I decided I was going to commit to every single week doing one main big piece of content. I decided to do one video, and then I was going to leverage that piece of content.

This content is my Facebook Live video.  I upload it on my YouTube channel so it’s building my channel, and I’m putting it into a blog every week. My YouTube is growing and my website content is being updated each week.

I actually was interviewed on a podcast and that person found me because I was posting consistently on YouTube.  I don’t have a massive reach or a really big following, but people still constantly find me on Google because I’m always updating my website and content.

When you have a consistent content schedule, you know when you’re going to create and when you’re going to post. Wednesday is what I call my cave day. On my cave day I turn my phone off, go out in nature and think through my content. I map things out on paper. I don’t have any clients on a Wednesday. Wednesday is my content creation day.

To create a content schedule, you need to decide on and map out:

  1. What you’re going to post
  2. When you’re going to post
  3. What platforms you’re going to post on

4. Rotate Between Different Types Of Content

Rotating between different types of content is important so you don’t just do the same type of content all the time. There are 5 types of content that I personally rotate between and each has a different purpose. You can have more or less than these.

My 5 content types are:

1. Attraction
2. Educational
3. Belief-shifting
4. Inspirational
5. Promotional

An example of what I do with one of my content types is my belief-shifting content pieces. With these pieces, I think about what someone’s current belief is. Then I think about what I want them to believe instead, to help them overcome their limiting beliefs. This is so they can transform and actually get what they want in life.

People often are giving so much value in their content, yet they never invite people to work with them or make an offer. Then there are other people who are always promoting constantly but never giving much value.

There’s a balance that you have to achieve where you give valuable content but also make an offer.


There’s a balance that you have to achieve where you are giving valuable content, but also making an offer. The scales need to be balanced.

When you’re giving so much value but never inviting people to work with you, you will end up broke. It’s not just about you staying in business and making money, but also about helping people to get transformation.  

5. Create A Clear Content Journey

A content journey leads your audience from one step (say a social media post) to the next (maybe giving you their email address). However, many posts on social media, emails or blog posts, exist as a disconnected function rather than an active part of a marketing funnel.

When a connection is formed, you need to nurture those people with more relevant content. If you don’t have a next step planned out, there’s no incentive for those consuming your content to do anything after they’ve consumed it. There’s nowhere for the person to go after they have read your post or watched your video.

Instead, you always want to have an action item for the person at the end of your content which is part of your marketing funnel. For example, with your blog posts or Facebook Live videos, ideally, you want to offer a downloadable freebie or cheat sheet at the end or you may invite them to a Zoom event that you are holding.

The concept of a marketing funnel is you get lots of people coming in at the top of your funnel. This might be from an invite to download a free PDF in which you give some value. The person gives you their email address in exchange for your downloadable.

Email addresses are gold. People who opt-in are a lot warmer because they have said yes to you already. I get hundreds of people open my emails and I’d never be able to get that reach organically just using email.

People who opt-in are a lot warmer because they have already said yes to you.


In the next funnel step, you may offer a strategy session with you, which you can put on the downloadable offer thank you page of your funnel landing page.  So the journey is, the person comes in from your social media post, blog, or however they found you, then they take the steps through your marketing funnel.

You cross-pollinate all the way through. It’s like you’ve got all these fishing rods out in the water. It may be on LinkedIn, Instagram or Facebook posts. Each has different lead generation avenues of drawing traffic. People come in at a high level and they are filtered down to become paid clients right at the bottom.  

You want to think of your content pieces as part of your whole over-arching strategy. If you’re finding that you’re not getting the results you want from your content, it’s probably time to rethink your content strategy.

P.S Whenever you’re ready… here are 3 other ways I can help you grow your business:

1. Grab a free copy of my ‘Client Attraction Checklist‘

It’s a powerful roadmap to attracting leads, signing clients, and scaling your coaching business. — Grab It Here

2. Join the community and connect with like-minded Coaches & Experts

It’s our Facebook community where ambitious entrepreneurs learn how to increase their income, influence, and impact. — Join Us Here

3. Work with me privately

If you’d like to work directly with me … just send me a Facebook Message with the word “Private”… tell me a little about your business and what you’d like to work on together, and I’ll get you all the details! — Message Here

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Amplify Your Influence, Business, Business coach, Coach, Content, content strategy, Entrepreneur, entrepreneur coach, Funnels, Kat Millar, marketing, Marketing Funnel

December 10, 2021 by katmillar Leave a Comment

How To Attract More Clients Using Facebook Live Videos


Want to know the fastest way to build more trust, offer more value, and attract more leads online?

Going live on video is one of the best ways to grow your audience, connect with your community, and powerfully position yourself as an expert.

If you’re like most people that I speak to, you might find going live on a video pretty scary.

When I first got introduced to the idea of Facebook Live videos, I was terrified.

But I realised I needed to get over that because Facebook Live videos are so effective. They build trust and rapport a lot faster than written posts.

Research also shows that people who use videos in their marketing on average get a 27% higher click-through rate and 34% higher conversion than those who don’t.

Videos can open a lot of doors of opportunity for you.

A lot of people find that when they consistently go live on video, they are much more likely to get asked to speak in other people’s Facebook groups, speak in online summits, and be seen as an authority on your topic.

In this video, I share…

  • A simple, yet powerful 5-step process that you can use to show up more confidently in your Facebook live videos
  • How to guarantee your Facebook Live videos get more engagement
  • How to build more trust and rapport with your audience
  • How to use live videos to have people regularly reaching out to you, so you never again how to worry where your clients are coming from



Here are some highlights from the video…

1. ATTENTION

We all have an internal subconscious ‘gate-keeper’ that helps us decide which videos to watch…and which ones to scroll past.

A Harvard study showed that over 90% of our decisions are made subconsciously.

So with our videos, if we don’t speak directly to the subconscious mind, it rarely gets attention.  To get someone’s attention, we need to understand the values of our ideal clients.


2. WHY

To maintain attention, it’s important to talk about ‘why’ the topic is important before you go into teaching anything.

People switch off if they don’t realise the importance of what you’re sharing.


3. CREDIBILITY

This is where you want to share why you’re qualified to speak on the topic.

Before you teach anyone anything, I recommend you always pre-frame it by sharing why they can trust you and why you’re the person to listen to.


4. TEACH

When you teach, you want to make sure you have organised your knowledge clearly, so you don’t waffle on.

When you’re thinking about what content to teach – think of the coolest possible things you’ve learned about the topic.


5. CALL TO ACTION

The whole purpose of your video is for the people watching it to take a new action. 

So make sure you always have a call to action at the end of your live videos.

The action could be a new behaviour, join your course, jump on a discovery call with you, come to your event – whatever the next best step is.

So that’s the 5-step formula for attracting clients using live video.

Hope this is helpful.

This is one small piece out of my entire client attraction formula. It’s one piece of what I call the client attraction bridge. 

It’s one thing to do a video, it’s another thing to be able to convert that video to leads and to paying clients, which is a whole different skill. 

So if you haven’t had your client attraction strategy session with me, I’d like to invite you into one of these free sessions.

If you’d like to have a personalised marketing strategy send me a DM on Facebook and we’ll chat over Messenger to make sure it’s a great fit for you.

Literally thousands of people have been through one of these strategy sessions, and realised they were wasting an incredible amount of time. After the session, they shifted what they’re doing and moved forward rapidly.

By applying the strategy of an expert, rather than trying to piece together everything by themselves, they were able to double, triple, and in some cases 5x their results in half the time.

If it is, I’ll give you all the details to get you started. It will be a very exclusive small group so that everyone gets personal coaching with me about how to use your content to attract the right clients.

In the strategy, I’ll be able to identify and show you the exact reason you’re not attracting more clients consistently, and exactly what to change to be able to attract clients 3-5x faster.

So if you haven’t had your strategy session with me yet, send me a DM on Facebook now.

Until next time…

Keep shining, keep sharing. The world is waiting for your words.

Kat

P.S. Whenever you’re ready… here are 3 other ways I can help you grow your coaching business:

1. Grab a free copy of my ‘Client Attraction Checklist‘

It’s a powerful roadmap to attracting leads, signing clients, and scaling your coaching business. — Grab It Here

2. Join the community and connect with Coaches who are also growing their business

It’s our Facebook community where ambitious Coaches learn to get more income, influence, and impact. — Join Us Here

3. Work with me privately

If you’d like to work directly with me … just send me a Facebook Message with the word “Private”… tell me a little about your business and what you’d like to work on together, and I’ll get you all the details! — Message Here



Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Amplify Your Influence, Business, Business coach, Business growth, business strategy, Coach, Coaching, Entrepreneur, Entrepreneurship, Kat Millar, marketing

November 4, 2021 by katmillar Leave a Comment

3 Sneaky Content Mistakes That Could Be Tripping You Up


Ever feel like you hit the content jackpot with a killer post so you share it, and it only get a few likes from your old faithfuls (aka, your best friends)?

Yeah, that sux. 

Content is a powerful tool that can spark emotion. It can build connection. It can inspire new ways of thinking and invite action. Content creation is an important part of a trust-building marketing strategy.

So why is it so hard to get your content to consistently engage people?

It usually comes down to some sneaky content mistakes that a lot of people don’t realise they’re making. ⠀

And it’s really hurting their brand. In a lot of ways, it’s having the opposite effect they want and actually putting people off.  

If you don’t have an effective content strategy and you’re posting randomly, it can actually add to people’s overwhelm and confusion.

We want to speak directly to our dream, soul-connected clients and elegantly communicate our value to them.

There are people out there haaaaanging for the help you provide, but without a great content strategy, most of them currently can’t find you.

People, with problems you can solve, are wading through Facebook right now… and if you’re not jumping out to them with your content, it’s probably because your words aren’t crafted to be as compelling as they could be.

It’s not because you’re not awesome, it’s because your content isn’t grabbing and keeping their attention. 

Your word choice has the ability to produce a flick of the finger or a pause and consume.

Tiny tweaks make big leaps.


If you want to attract new clients fast, learning how to create compelling content is a priority. If you’re using online events as a lead generation strategy, which is what I recommend for most coaches and experts, it’s really hard to get people to those events without compelling content that invites them to it.

Compelling content strategically grows your audience, it attracts your ideal clients and inspires the right people to buy from you and you can do it in a way that FEELS good to you.

So here are the 3 biggest mistakes that could be tripping you up.


1. You don’t have a well-thought-out content strategy

A lot of people are fumbling around in the dark, posting all sorts of things on social media without a content strategy. And it’s really hurting their brand and in a lot of ways, putting people off.

If you don’t have a strategy, it can actually add to people’s overwhelm and confusion. It can be a disservice to your followers. When you have a strategy, it’s like having a map that shows you the journey that people go on.

Here is an example. 

Carl likes to go for a walk around his block every day. He does the exact same journey – turns left out of his block, then right until the next street, then left, etc. He remains safe and within close distance to his home.

Sally, on the other hand, is spontaneous. Sally loves stepping out of her house with no plan, no direction, and just follows her nose. She loves finding new places and often gets lost but, she loves the thrill of it.  

Neither of these are right or wrong. 

So, are you more of a Cautious Carl or Spontaneous Sally?

If you’re like Cautious Carl in your content, you’re probably staying safe and predictable. You probably aren’t ever rocking the boat. You’re probably not trying new things and are sticking to just one type of content… it could be becoming a bit boring and you’re probably blending in. 

If you are a Carl type, the more you continuously walk around the block, the more you can become blind to the things around you. The walk can become monotonous and you’re no longer as bright-eyed and alert. Instead, it can become boring and repetitive.

If you’re a Sally type you may lack some structure. You want to discover new places but without any sense of direction, you might not reach your desired destination. 

If you’re like Spontaneous Sally in your content, you’re probably trying different types of content and sharing lots of different topics. You might be using the latest trends eg. TikTok, reels, Clubhouse, or Instagram Stories.

You probably post when you’re inspired but have gaps in content consistency. You might be fun to watch but your audience can’t fully rely on you to deliver consistent and reliable value.

You don’t want your content marketing strategy to become monotonous (like Carl) and, if you have no strategy in place like Sally, you’ll probably be overwhelmed and frustrated without direction. 

But what if Carl and Sally each used a map? A map allows you to see where you are, where you want to go, and the best way to get there.

A map allows you to see where you are, where you want to go, and the best way to get there.


And, that’s why you need a solid content strategy.


2. You’re Not Creating Enough Curiosity

I say this all the time because a lot of people miss it, and it will never stop being true…

The main job of your marketing content is to create curiosity. If you’re not creating a feeling of curiosity for your reader or viewer, they will scroll away.

Giving away valuable content for free is the name of the game, but you can’t “give away the farm” and leave nothing to be desired.

So what do we do instead? We need to give value, AND open a void – a door that shows them what else they need to know.

I call it the ‘Void-Value Dance’. 

This is where you highlight a void – you tell them all about a problem they have, showing them that you understand that problem completely and intimately – because you used to have the same problem. Then you give them value to solve it. 

But there’s a second important step. You then open up a NEW void. 

Give value, open a void –-> Give value, open a void –-> Give value, open a void

It’s like opening a new door to a new problem. It’s also known as ‘tension-relief’.

Most people don’t know how to give value, but not give away too much. If you give people a false sense of their problem being solved, you’re actually doing them a disservice. 

I give a lot of value away for free but there’s so much I DON’T share for free. There’s a whole roadmap people get when we work together.

People pay for a path.

People need to work closely with you in order to have a transformation. We very rarely transform just from information. 


3. You’re Not Inspiring Action

A lot of people struggle to inspire their followers to take action.

I used to find this really hard too. I loved sharing helpful advice, but I rarely asked people to take the next step. 

When I realised this was hurting my business, I got more strategic.

It’s not about selling, it’s about inviting people to take the next best action towards you. That’s how you can best help them solve their problem!

Maybe it’s sharing about a free resource or event, or inviting them to have a strategy session with you. Make sure you add the benefits of taking the action. 

I call this being ‘elegantly influential’. 

A lot of people don’t add the right kind of CTA – ‘Call To Action’. 

The CTA is where the magic happens. However, your CTA’s won’t work if you don’t understand the right type and placement that’s needed, according to your client journey. 

You need the right kind of CTA –
‘Call To Action’. 


An effective CTA provides your reader or viewer with the next best logical step. 

A lot of people try to rush the process from cold to hot (getting someone from a Facebook ad into a call with them) and they don’t think about where someone is in their client journey. They make a high-commitment ask and they haven’t developed enough trust yet. 

You also want to avoid using the passive voice (e.g. “Let us know”, “If you want”) in your CTAs. Use verbs that compel people to take action — “Click here”, “Read now”, etc.

So let’s do a review.

If we did an audit on your business…

1. Do you have a well-thought-out content strategy that’s predictable and profitable? 

2. Is your content creating enough curiosity?

3. Are you inspiring people to take action?

Without your content leading to action that involves taking the next step towards you, it’s very hard to build a profitable business that helps people. 

Want to know the fastest way to attract clients online? Discover how at…

“How To Attract Clients With Compelling Content”

P.S. Whenever you’re ready… here are 3 other ways I can help you grow your coaching business:

1. Grab a free copy of my ‘Client Attraction Checklist‘

It’s a powerful roadmap to attracting leads, signing clients, and scaling your coaching business. — Grab It Here

2. Join the community and connect with Coaches who are also growing their business

It’s our Facebook community where ambitious Coaches learn to get more income, influence, and impact. — Join Us Here

3. Work with me privately

If you’d like to work directly with me … just send me a Facebook Message with the word “Private”… tell me a little about your business and what you’d like to work on together, and I’ll get you all the details! — Message Here

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Amplify Your Influence, Business, Business coach, Business growth, business strategy, Coach, Coaching, Content, Content That Connects, Entrepreneur, Entrepreneurship, Kat Millar, marketing

October 28, 2021 by katmillar Leave a Comment

How To Get More Clients Using The Art Of Elegant Influence


In a world where trust is harder to find, and our ability to tune out messages is greater than ever…

…it’s important we have a more effective way to stand out, cut through the noise, and be noticed, for the right reasons.

There’s a lot of distrust online with fake news, pushiness, saturation, and interruptions. The amount of information that is being thrown at you is huge and this can sometimes become overwhelming.

It’s also really hard to know what is true and what isn’t – the genuine from the fake.

As a child, I used to play the game “Masterpiece” with my family. It’s a game about art and you take a card, which is a painting, and you match it together with a price.

What you see is an elegant front, but it’s really about what’s underneath.


The cards are then shuffled, a player takes a card and then tries to sell it by persuading the others that it is worth a great deal of money. It could be worth millions or not much at all, depending on if it is genuine or a fake.

What I learned from this game is what we see is an elegant front, but it’s really about what’s underneath. The cards are revealed and what’s fake and what’s genuine becomes known.

A forgery looks beautiful but ultimately, it didn’t come from the original painter.

It’s the same with content. Anyone can paint a pretty picture. Anyone can put out a blog post with other people’s intellectual property and claim it as their own.

It can look and sound really beautiful but is there a solid foundation underneath? You can come across really elegant … but is it just style are you sharing solid substance too?

The strength of true value needs to be underneath all that you do. You’re not copying what other people do but are presenting your original content, your genuine, authentic self.

You can have conviction and be confident in what you are sharing when it is your own brilliance. Drawing people to your foundation of authenticity makes the biggest difference when it comes to influence.

So let’s look at what elegant influence is NOT.

  • It’s NOT trying to use persuasion tactics
  • It’s NOT the words that you say

It’s NOT just about learning business skills

Now let’s look at what elegant influence IS.

  • It IS how people feel when they are listening to you, watching your videos.
  • It IS about personal character.
  • It IS about who you’re being, who you are.
  • It IS about working on yourself and not just about working on acquiring outward skills.

Have you ever met someone who has amazing business skills but not great people skills? They can be really smart and have a profitable business but you don’t sense any warmth from them at all.

Working on yourself and your own mindset is incredibly important to step into elegant influence.

Jim Rohn talks about having an “until mindset”. You keep going UNTIL it works.

When you make the decision to never give up on your dream, you are able to push through the disappointments and hardships and keep going.

You are able to see the money that you are spending on your own education as an investment in yourself, even before you see any of the money coming back.

I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t have regular coaching. My coaches call me higher and push me further with direction and clarity.

They help me work on my mindset so that I can be more of my authentic self and show up with elegant influence for you.

So how exactly do we use influence elegantly to attract clients and accelerate our business growth?

Here are 5 of the most powerful ways:


1. Be original

Others will know that you are not being original and not working in elegant influence. 

So many people are copying other people.


They will know it’s not genuine because you may not be able to talk about it in a confident, certain, convicted way like you would if you came up with it yourself.

I’m not referring to ‘modeling’ – which is one of the fastest ways to grow your business. 

Modeling is watching other businesses that are similar to yours and taking ideas, not content, and implementing them with your own voice.

Use your own voice by coming up with your own way of saying things. 

Begin developing a method that is really unique to you. This is so incredibly powerful.

It does take a lot more work and it can be hard, but stepping out and doing the ‘hard things’ is an opportunity for big growth and productivity in your business.

When it comes to being original, I recommend having a “Cave Day” or a “Cave Hour”. What this looks like for me is walking in nature listening to audiobooks. As I get ideas, I write them down in my phone.

Being original means that you can use other people to inspire you and then come up with your own ways of expressing these ideas.

Some ideas for “Cave Time” are:

  • Putting ear phones in for 30 mins a day
  • Going to local cafe by yourself
  • Reading a book for 30 mins a day
  • Sitting in a quiet place for 30 mins a day and just allowing your mind to think and come up with creative ideas

The idea is to have a ‘blank piece of paper moment’ where you are pouring out all of your ideas onto the piece of paper, like a brainstorming session.

A great idea is to do this away from your laptop so you are not easily distracted. Ideally, be in a quiet place, without distractions, allows your mind to get creative and invites ideas to flow freely to you.

Often when something is hard, your competitors aren’t doing it.


2. Be Professional

Many people don’t set themselves up to win by not looking professional or speaking professionally.

It’s not about perfectionism – it’s about professionalism.

I don’t strive for perfectionism, I strive for excellence. I strive to be outstanding. I strive to be polished and do the best job I can at communicating my value.

This doesn’t mean that I haven’t made massive mistakes. If I wasn’t willing to fail, to show up and do things badly, and launch so many products and services, I wouldn’t keep showing up consistently now.

Showing up, no matter what is having an entrepreneurial mindset.

It’s so important to get out there BEFORE you feel ready. You can make the commitment to do the best that you possibly can

Some ways to do this are:

  • By having a great Zoom background
  • Always looking your best
  • Taking the time to craft a great post instead of rushing to get ‘something’ out there – quality is so important 

This is a gift to your community when you’re engaging with them and you’re not distracted by your surroundings or what you look like when you’re presenting.


3. Be Soulful

Being soulful is about connecting to things that are outside of status, power, and money. This means tapping into something that is bigger than yourself.

Think about why it is so important to you to get that message out to your community, beyond making money.

Create content from a place of wanting to serve, being influential, being a thought leader… to challenge the status quo and not just talk from a practical level.

When you can show up and speak from your heart, and not be self-conscious but share your soulful message, people will pick up on that and it’s very attractive.

It’s like the Masterpiece game – it’s not just a beautiful painting, it’s not style without substance … it’s soulful.


It’s being professional and being elegant, but it’s also about having that deeper mission, that deeper ‘why’.


4. Be Specific

I look at some content and at times it can be quite vague. Clarity is very important.

Clarity very rarely comes upfront. Clarity comes along the journey.

Great impact isn’t made when you’re not being really specific. There is such a saturation online now so if you want to gain and hold people’s attention, you have to be specific.

Think about your website, your social media profiles, your comments that you’re putting online.

Are you speaking very specifically and directly to your dream client? Or are you trying to be everything to everyone?

When your dream client comes to you, it’s so important that they know exactly what you do and know why you’re unique.

They want you to know that you ‘get them’ and you do this by speaking to them very specifically. This is how you gain connection and influence.

We’re all hungry for people who speak our language. To be an effective influencer, you want to be an interpreter of your dream client’s journey.

You have already been through the journey with its road bumps and obstacles, and you successfully navigated that terrain so now you’re their guide.

You’re there to interpret a very specific journey for other people.

5. Be Brave

It’s important to stand FOR something and stand AGAINST something if you want to be influential.

Influence is motivating and inspiring someone to take a new action to improve their life.


In order for them to move on that new action, they need to change their thinking, their perspective on their situation, and about themselves.

To help them create a new perspective, a new belief, you can inspire them and not be wishy-washy.

Your message needs to be bold and brave … and not everyone is going to like it. And that’s totally OK.

Marketing is about attracting some people and repelling others.

You are to be really firm in who you are, in what you believe and what you don’t believe, and then you get your dream people into your community … and life is super exciting.

These are the 5 things I recommend you focus on to get more clients using the art of elegant influence

They will help you to connect better with your ideal clients and you’ll be able to attract more of the right people into your business.

What this ultimately means for you is that you can help more people, make a bigger difference in the world, create the impact that you’re here to make, have a profitable business doing what you love …

… and have greater fulfillment in your life.

P.S Whenever you’re ready… here are 3 other ways I can help you grow your business:

1. Grab a free copy of my ‘Client Attraction Checklist‘

It’s a powerful roadmap to attracting leads, signing clients, and scaling your coaching business. — Grab It Here

2. Join the community and connect with like-minded Coaches & Experts

It’s our Facebook community where ambitious entrepreneurs learn how to increase their income, influence, and impact. — Join Us Here

3. Work with me privately

If you’d like to work directly with me … just send me a Facebook Message with the word “Private”… tell me a little about your business and what you’d like to work on together, and I’ll get you all the details! — Message Here

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Amplify Your Influence, Business, Business coach, Business growth, business strategy, Coach, Coaching, Content, Content That Connects, Entrepreneur, Entrepreneurship, Kat Millar, marketing

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