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March 4, 2021 by katmillar Leave a Comment

What’s Most Important To Me In Business And Why

 

A few people have been asking me recently about what’s important to me in business.

Understanding your business values is one of the most powerful ways to prioritise and make great choices, and reduce decision-fatigue.

If you’re trying to roll out something in your business and you’re wondering why it’s not working, it may be because what you’re doing is not aligned with your values and doesn’t have the right energy and passion behind it.

When you outwork your values in your day-to-day life, you feel aligned. You’re not going in different directions – where part of you is really happy and satisfied about what you’re doing, and another part is frustrated.

The way you know you’re not aligned, is that you get tension in your body.

When you really stop and think about what’s most important to you in business and you strip away all the external things, like the incessant need to impress other people or the need to look good… you tap into the true source of inspiration inside you.

This is the FUEL that’s going to motivate you to keep going when business gets tough.

Business gets tough. It can be a roller coaster. It’s hills and valleys – it’s rarely smooth sailing. This is why we need to make sure we’re clear on our business values, because they keep us going and focused on the right things.

When we really tap into our ‘why’, and understand and honour what drives us at the deepest level, we feel aligned, relaxed, calm, and in flow. We feel motivated, energised and inspired to KEEP GOING, no matter what.

So I decided to unpack my business values with you, to get you thinking about what’s most important to you in your business, so you can plan and prioritise your actions that are aligned with your values.

I will take you on a journey to help you reflect on your business values, who you’re becoming, how happy you are with where you’re at right now, and how fast you’re evolving.

I’ll share my top five values in business and how I outwork these business values in my day-to-day life. I’ll share how you can determine your business values, how they’re different from your personal values, and how you can outwork them.

Answering powerful check-in questions at the beginning of a day, week, month, or quarter is one of the best ways to get alignment.

The more you ask yourself and answer powerful questions, the more you get powerful answers.

I ask myself who, how, what, where, and why questions regularly. These are valuable questions that help keep you aligned.

Here are the questions…

1 – Who Do I Want To Become More Of?

The first question to ask yourself is “Who do I want to become more of?”

Who are you becoming? Take time to think of your future you – your future identity, and future vision. This activity is SO powerful.

I learned this in a coaching course and I now do it with my clients.

Future Vision Activity

Imagine you’re 75 years old and someone’s coming to your house and interviewing you. And they ask you what’s it like being such a successful…(You fill in the blank.)  When I did this, I said speaker, spiritual mother, philanthropist, author, and advisor.

When I’m 75, I don’t want to be retired. I still want to be writing, speaking, and taking more of an advisory role in my business. I want to be on the board of advisors for my company, and have a CEO looking after the day-to-day operations.

When I think about who I’m becoming, I’m thinking about that ultimate future. Who am I, becoming right now? Who do I want to become more of? If I keep taking the actions that I’m taking now, what trajectory is that leading me on?

If I want to become a successful speaker, I need to be doing things in my day-to-day life and putting things in my calendar, potentially every day, if not every week that grow me to become a successful speaker. These will eventually lead me to become that successful speaker and world-class coach.

You can also place characteristics around your ‘who’.  So think about the character of who you want to be. For example, I want to be more kick-ass. I don’t mean intimidating, but to me, kick-ass people, are relentlessly dedicated to creating results.

I want to be that person who is kicking goals, in order to inspire other people,  because inspiring people taps into my personal value of contribution.

Perhaps in your character, you want to be more patient. That’s one of my characteristics I want to develop this year, is being more patient. Maybe you want to become more kind, inclusive, or resilient.

If you want to be braver, you need to prove this to yourself by doing things that scare you. You prove it to yourself by doing things like Facebook Live videos or running a webinar even if you’re scared of tech and don’t feel like a good speaker.

2 – How Quickly Am I Evolving?

Ask yourself how. How quickly are you evolving? How are you evolving in business, or in your personal development? How quickly are you dedicated to catching what the issue is where you need to improve and working on it straight away instead of delaying it?

In order for me to grow quickly so I can help people who are struggling and suffering, I need to ask myself these ‘how’ questions, and so do you.  We need to stop being doormen and start taking the fast lane instead of the footpath.

I was sharing in my Inner Circle group today about putting the accelerator on and choosing to stop cruising. How much time are you spending in the fast lane really accelerating your growth by facing the stuff that scares you?

How long do you spend facing those things that are in the next level of your comfort zone? If you think about your comfort zone as a boundary that’s around you, that boundary is made up of your fear, because you don’t want to go over that boundary into your next level.

Your next level life outside of your comfort zone is your growth zone, so your fear is keeping you in that boundary. f you want to grow quickly, you need to step out and face your fears. It’s here that you quickly evolve for the sake of the people watching your life and for the sake of those who you will help in the future.

3 – What Can I Do Today To Live From My Values?

Ask yourself, what can you do today to live from your own values?  I really love asking myself this question. Sometimes I just go for a walk without my phone. And I just take one question with me. So just get the question in my mind and I walk until I get the answer for it.

What can I do today to live from my values? This question forces your mind to come up with your answer because you’re not asking ‘am I’, you are asking actually what can you do today to make living in your values a reality?

This is a powerful question because your mind is so resourceful and creative, and it will come up with the answers for you. And then you want to take action on them and actually do them.

4 – Where Do I Need To Improve?

Be honest with yourself, and ask yourself, Where do I need to improve? Where is it that I’m sucking or really failing at right now? Maybe you can fake it with other people,  but don’t fake it to yourself.

If you’re eating a bag of chips every night, yet trying to lose weight, or if you’re scrolling on your phone for an hour every morning when you wake up,  instead of doing something else that will progress your business or life, then you’re not being honest with yourself.

Really face yourself and don’t fake to yourself. Instead of thinking ‘one day’, take steps today to improve yourself.  Let’s face it, we don’t know if tomorrow will come, so taking steps today is what is important.

5 – Why Is It Important For Me To Go To The Next Level?

Why is it important for you to go the next level?  Why is it actually important for you to step out of that boundary where you’ve kept myself safe and small because of fear?

We’ve all got a next level to go to.

For some of us, it’s going to the next level in finances or to the next level in running events or writing a book.

Whatever it is, we’ve all got a next level and we’ve all probably been putting the next level off.

I feel like that’s the most common theme that I see with my clients. I see they want to do something and they procrastinate. We don’t procrastinate typically because we’re lazy, we procrastinate because we’re not clear on the benefits and the reasons why we should be doing something.

I often ask myself why it’s important for me and don’t just give a few answers. I will write at least 50 answers – usually 80-100.

I ask myself, for example, why is it important to do Facebook Lives each week, or why is it important to learn to do Insta stories or to write a blog each week?

My Personal Values

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1- Freedom

My number one value in life and business is freedom. That’s why I left my full-time job in 2003 and I haven’t been a full-time employee since.

Freedom for me is about setting my own rules, being my own boss, and being free from the rat race I was in. Freedom is a higher value for me than security.  It’s more important to me than a safe income. 

2 – Growth

Look at how you spend your time and you will know your values. Look at your calendar. Is it filled with gym sessions, business events, etc. or is it filled with a whole lot of space where you sit and watch Netflix?

Look at what is on your walls and what kind of books you read. If you look at your audible account, what kind of books are in there?

You can see what your values are by looking at where you spend your time, energy, and resources. This will show you what you value.

3 –  Health

Health and energy are really important to me. Having enough energy and making sure that I’m exercising regularly and nourishing my body, soul, and spirit.

Looking after my health and energy is about eating well,  getting enough sleep, getting enough exercise, taking breaks, and going on holidays. These are all part of my health values.

4 – Connection

Spending time connecting with people and building relationships is one of my highest values. It’s part of the way I feed my soul. Connection is a value that I build into my business.

5 – Creation

It’s so important to me to create my own content, legacy items, and intellectual property and package it all up and share it.

My Business Values

With your personal values, you look at your life in every area.

With your business values, you want to think more specifically about what is most important to you in business. Think about how you’re serving people and what’s important to you in terms of your lifestyle. For example, to have integrity, to be honest, reliable, and give great customer service.

These are quite obvious, but there are some deeper things like what makes you unique and it becomes your manifesto. I like to set up business values that I’m aiming towards as guidelines and goals, rather than values I’ve necessarily arrived at.

1 – Radical Resilience

Radical resilience is doing what I know is the right thing to do, whether I feel like it or not. That encompasses discipline and encompasses consistency. It’s turning up with I feel like it or not – because I’ve made a commitment.

Radical resilience is also bouncing back. If I do an event and it doesn’t work as well as I wanted it to,  I don’t wallow with it, I just keep going. I keep going until it works. It’s having an ‘until’ mindset.

When  I look at my to-do list, I’ve got hundreds of action items on there. I’m going to just keep going through until they’re done, or I delegate them to someone. But I know that I’ll never give up. I just will not ever give up. Going back and giving up is just not an option for me. It never ever enters my mind.

2 – Authentic Expression

With authentic expression, I don’t always get it right. Sometimes I feel like I’m not fully expressing who I am. Sometimes I question who I am. I’m not really sure.  I’m such a by-product of all my mentors that I’ve studied.

Am I really using my own authentic voice? This is something I keep working on and evolving towards.  If you think of innovation,  it’s often the combination of different ideas, plus someone else’s creativity added to it. So that’s something that I’m evolving to become.

3 – Extreme Ownership

Extreme Ownership is another of my high values. There’s a great book called Extreme Ownership. I recommend you read it. Extreme ownership is taking ownership of everything in your business and being responsible for it.

I’m 100% responsible for my reaction to what happens. I can’t control coronavirus, the economy, or all these other external things,  but I can change my response to it and pivot to make my business better.

4 – Productive Organisation

Productive organisation and consistency are something I’m working towards. It doesn’t come naturally to me.

It’s something I have to train myself in as it’s not a natural gift or talent, despite people thinking that I’m very organised.

I strive to be organised. It’s like striving for excellence. Sometimes I have to launch things at 80% or 90% because the ROI of me getting that thing to perfection is just wasting time. And so I’ve got to just be consistent and be organised and just do my absolute best. But I have to let go of perfectionism.

5 –  People-Focused Growth And Contribution

It’s not enough for me to just amass money, or just to build an empire. For me, it’s about how can I serve others or support them? How can I give back? How can I invest money into charities and causes that I care about?

I invite you to come up with your top five values if you haven’t already. It’s about growing every day towards your values.

P.S. Would you like to know exactly how to define your business values and outwork them, so you can accelerate your business faster?

I offer a free discovery session (first-time sessions) for people who want help to take their business to the next level.

I’ll map out a clear business roadmap for you to follow straight away, so you can get more clients and hit your freedom figure asap!

Apply for your free session here

See you soon,

Kat

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February 18, 2021 by katmillar Leave a Comment

Content That Gets You Likes Vs Content That Gets You Clients

There is a big difference between content that gets you likes, and content that gets you clients.

And it’s not just the dollars that come with gaining clients. I have discovered 3 simple tricks that will make your content 100% more compelling.

Content that gets you likes may be interesting and entertaining. It might be a little educational.

But there are depths and layers that we can add to our content, which inspires people to actually take action as a result of reading your content, and this is our ability to influence through our content.

Influence is the ability to inspire someone to take action to get more of what they want. To influence someone, you have to go deeper into their subconscious mind.

Lots of people are producing content, creating videos and getting themselves out there online now, but not many people have a solid, consistent, client database and income.

Success is not about just people liking and commenting on your posts. The most successful people actually aren’t spending all this time on social media checking likes and checking comments.

The most successful people are too busy servicing their clients to worry about that.

Once you know how to create influential content that is compelling, your whole world expands and opportunities open for you.

It doesn’t mean you’re better, it just means that people position you and see you differently. More people contact you to speak on their podcast or in their Facebook group. That’s what happened when I shifted my live events online.

When I was started shifting all my events online, I had many invites to speak to various groups and on podcasts. This was because I was consistently showing up.  I was willing to consistently show up with content that influenced.

I challenged myself to not just create ‘How To’ content or ‘Step by Step’ content, but to go deeper into people’s subconscious mind, because that’s how you influence. When you understand the drivers below the surface logic, then you can get more people booked into your calendar for strategy sessions and discovery calls.

Influential content is crafting your words in a way that makes people want to take action, and take that next step towards actually working with you.

Whenever I put out a new blog or a new video, or send a new email,  I’ve really crafted it and thought about the how to make it compelling and influential. Typically people reach out to me and book into my calendar or webinars, or they contact me privately.

Crafting influential content works. You don’t have to have 1000’s of people on your mailing list, you just need to know how to influence people.

When you have developed the skill of influence, people will reach out to you for PR opportunities and for joint venture opportunities.

You will find the whole world opens up to you and it’s not by chance. It’s because you know how to arrange your words in a way that speaks at the subconscious mind.

It’s about knowing how to awaken desires within people, to make them want to learn more, and motivate people to move away from their pain.

Credibility doesn’t come from just having knowledge. They say knowledge is power, but it’s actually only potential power. Credibility comes from getting people results.

When people want to succeed, they seek advice from people who get results and who are further along in the journey than themselves. It’s not just about teaching something to people, it’s about your ability to communicate your value so that someone wants to follow you because you get results.

1 – Influential Content Is Conversational And Natural

Influential content needs to be conversational and natural. People want simplicity and they want something they can understand easily.

People are influenced when they trust you. Who do we trust the most? We trust the people closest to us. We trust certain family members, our friends, our partner, our close peers.

If we’re not being our natural selves, our content can sound formal, when we wouldn’t speak that way with our friends or family if we were chatting over a coffee.

When you create content, you need to speak to your clients as though you are speaking to a trusted family member or friend.

We also do this when we get on video. I look back at my first Facebook Live and I cringe! I was so unnatural. It’s not easy to be yourself when you get a camera in front of you.

When things are not natural and they are hard to read, or when you sound like a robot, your readers lose interest quickly and they scroll on by. So you want to write like you’re just sharing to a friend and write in a conversational tone.

That is what makes it influential. We are more influenced by our friends than we are by a marketer online, or by a business person online.  We’re influenced by the people that we trust and the people that are closest to us.

Forget what you learned in English, in terms of things having to be in perfect grammar. When you write as you speak, your writing is going to be more influential and you’re going to be ahead of most people,  so keep it casual.

2 – Influential Content  Speaks To The Subconscious Mind

There was a study done by Harvard, that shows that over 90% of our buying decisions are made by our subconscious mind. When you think about buying, it’s all about influence.

When you buy something, it’s because you’re influenced in some way by the colour, shape, the words or the sound. Something influenced us to buy it. So if you want to influence people,  the most essential business skill you can have is to be able to speak to the unconscious mind.

We do this by understanding the real drivers of human behavior. It’s not logic. It’s connecting with the pain, desires, values, shadow values, beliefs, and things that go beyond our logic.

For example, status is one of the 7 desires that I spoke about in the last training. The need to increase our status by something we buy is a strong driver. People are asking themselves if what they are buying will increase their status.

Other drivers could be the appearance of intelligence, looking smart, appearing powerful, being wealthy, or it could be something altruistic, like doing kind deeds. If you want to influence people, you need to understand these subconscious drivers of human behavior.

When we purchase something, we often aren’t thinking logically. It’s like doing a bungee jump. You don’t think through it as though you are going to get different benefits of it. You don’t think through the pros and cons of doing a bungee jump.

When I decided to do a bungee jump, I wanted to feel the thrill and the freedom of throwing myself off a bridge. I wanted to feel brave and courageous.

It wasn’t a logical decision. It made zero sense to throw myself off a bridge. My Mum was absolutely mortified and said she wouldn’t throw herself off a bridge if someone paid her $500 million!

But yet, I chose to jump, even though it made no logical sense because it actually is not logical.  It was so scary. There were not many benefits. But I was driven to do it.

Influential content speaks to the side of someone that’s driving them, the side where they’ll find the money, they’ll find the way, they’ll find the resources that they need to make it happen.

If I think about the programs that I’ve invested in to teach me with my business, the most expensive one was $17,000.

I had no money at the time and I had 3 credit cards full of debt. I think now that it was such an illogical decision to put myself in another $17,000 worth of debt, but I didn’t think of it like that. I thought of it like an investment into my future.

I’m so glad I wasn’t logical because that was one of the most powerful things I’ve ever invested into. It gave me an NLP certification which absolutely changed my life and the way I think about myself and the world. It gave me a life coaching certification, speaker training certification, and a business certification.

I have seen a massive return on investment because I’ve made way more than $17,000 back from that investment. It was illogical, but it felt right, because the person who sold it to me influenced me, because he pushed on those values. He helped open my future vision of myself to be a successful business owner.

So too,  you can deliver content that goes straight to those core needs. And remember, it’s about emotion, not logic. When you learn to speak to the subconscious, it transforms your content completely.

3 –  Influential Content Speaks Directly To A Person’s Pain And Desires

Influential content speaks directly to a person’s pain and desires and this is how we wake up the emotions. You really need to know your ideal client and speak directly to them.

You can’t expect people to be influenced by your content if you don’t understand them. And you’ve got to speak their language and know specifically what pain areas they have.

What are their fears, frustrations, and struggles in their life right now? Then you need to articulate their pain to them exactly in a way they would say it.

We used to get taught paraphrasing. When you’re having a conversation you do open listening and you paraphrase back to the person what you heard and you repeat it back exactly how they said it. So if someone said they want to get rid of a muffin top, you wouldn’t say, “Oh, so you want to get toned obliques?”

You would repeat back using their exact language.

You’ve got to use your ideal client’s exact language. And to do that, you have to get to know your target market. And you do this by having lots of conversations with your ideal clients. I’ve done hundreds of free sessions with people who are ideal clients so I could learn their language, their pain points, and their desires.

So there you have it, the difference between content that gets you likes, and content that gets you clients.

Want help to grow your business?

Business is too hard to do alone.

If you need help to get more right-fit clients, free up more time and create a profitable, lifestyle-friendly business that you LOVE, I’m offering a free 45-minute next-level business strategy session, where you’ll get clarity and a clear action plan.

I’ll walk you through a roadmap to show you exactly what you need to do and personalise it to suit you. 

Apply now for your free next-level strategy session

 

 

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February 11, 2021 by katmillar Leave a Comment

How To Share Your Value Online, Without Feeling Like You’re Bragging

When it comes to sharing your value online, do you worry that people will perceive you as big-noting yourself or bragging?

We’re aware that it’s not really acceptable to brag about ourselves!

But we’re also mindful that we need to be sharing our expertise and credibility to promote our business.

So how do we share our experiences and value, without coming across as though we are being boastful?

In this video, I share 3 ways:

1 – Show, Don’t Tell

As an entrepreneur your job is to express your worth by organising your knowledge and offering it to the world. This may be uncomfortable for you, because it involves showing people how you can help them and being confident in it.

It means not being afraid to be seen and heard, not being afraid of having a voice and having an opinion. You are  far more valuable than you realise. You’re probably earning way less than you deserve.

No one is going to come along and demand that you realise your worth. That’s up to you. And you won’t last in business long if you don’t! 

If you want to help more people you’ve got to be clear on your value and you’ve got to let people know about it.

I love what renowned marketing expert Frank Kern says: “The best way to show someone that you can help them is by actually helping them:.

If you want to share your value – ask yourself how much value you are ACTUALLY giving to your people?

Not just intermittent value, but consistent value where you are showing up regularly to help your followers.

Does your audience feel they can really trust you to keep showing up?

Can they rely on you not being here today and then gone tomorrow?

Are you just re-posting other people’s content, or are you deliberately crafting something from scratch that will genuinely be helpful for people?

A lot of people don’t want to give all their secrets away and you don’t have to either.

However, you can give away so much of your knowledge and valuable content and people can still want to pay you. They need more than just information.

Even though I give a lot of free knowledge away, people still need a personalised roadmap to help them through their business journey, and there is only so much you can get out of my free posts, blogs and videos.

Eventually you need to get eyes on your business and have someone help you create a clear roadmap that will guide your business into being all that you planned it to be.

Putting yourself out there requires courage, effort and consistency. It requires you to be loyal to your followers and to the people who are watching your life. It means sharing your opinions and sharing your unique feelings, even though your opinions might ruffle some feathers.

Marketing is about targeting the right people and being willing to not attract everyone. Leaders and influencers are not afraid to repel some people, when the right people are drawn to them.

You see this on YouTube all the time. As the likes go up, the dislikes also go up.

If you are going to attract some people, you are also going to repel others. It’s the nature of online business.

If you’re struggling to get clients right now, it’s probably because you haven’t shared enough value, or communicated your value well to your audience. You have a genius zone that other people need and don’t have.

The more you know your value, the more you’ll be able to communicate your value. So some of it actually comes down to valuing yourself and your self worth. It’s really about backing yourself.

You need to back your work ethic, back your ability to help people and back your program. Put your program on a pedestal, not yourself. And this is how you can share your expertise and your brilliance, by really talking about your program. Your program is not just something you’ve created, it’s a part of your core being that you’ve poured yourself into.

Most Mothers wouldn’t reject their child or put them down if someone complimented her child and called them pretty. She probably wouldn’t say, “No she’s not”. She created that child, so she would hopefully accept the compliment and respond with a thank you.

It’s the same for a program you’ve created.  You don’t have to say you personally are great, but you can say that your program is excellent because of how you have invested what you’ve learned, your experience and your soul into it.

You can share how you’ve spent a long time creating the program and within it you share your knowledge in an easy to follow, step-by-step process. Instead of elevating yourself, you elevate your signature system that you’ve created.

2 – Have A Balance Of Strength And Warmth

There’s an amazing book called ‘Compelling People’ by John Neffinger and Matthew Kohut.  They did some research on compelling people who have a very large audience.

What they found is that compelling people have two important traits – strength and warmth. Compelling people have a balance of strength and warmth, where they have found a sweet spot of balance between these two traits.

Showing Strength

Strength is that directness and confidence that holds conviction behind it.  When you are in the presence of someone who is very powerful and very strong, you feel an energy exuding from them. It makes you trust them.

Strength is such an important part of showing your value. You’ve got to be strong and confident in your conviction and certain of who you are and what you offer. Strength is also about competence.

When you are confident in your competencies, you know that you have expertise and can deliver results. Strength is shown in your certainty, confidence and competence in what you are offering.

Showing Warmth

If you have strength but you don’t have warmth, you come across as too direct and hard. It’s the opposite end of the spectrum. If you’re too far on the strength end of the spectrum and don’t have warmth mixed in, you come across as direct, hard, unlikable, not relatable and intimidating.

People will think you are powerful, but they won’t want to get in close proximity with you. You become scary to people. So your strength needs warmth to balance it out.

Warmth is having empathy, understanding and having the ability to listen. It’s all about the connection. It’s conveying your humanity, being relatable and vulnerable. People often think that vulnerability lowers your value, but it actually increases it.

If you want to have compelling copywriting, you want to have a good balance of strength and warmth. Take the time to assess yourself and ask yourself where you sit on the strength and warmth spectrum. Even ask some people close to you for how they experience you to be.

If you’re really strong, think about how you can turn up the warmth a little. It could be smiling more, telling stories or sharing your experiences and bringing vulnerability into your personal stories when you’re sharing your value.

If you’re more on the warmth side of things and you’re really good at relating with people, building connection and showing empathy, then maybe you need to push your strength side a little. You may need to be more assertive and tell people how you can help them, and share about the consequences of them not changing.

3 – Evoke Emotion

The language and words we use in our content can evoke either fear or desire and you want both of these within your content to create compelling content. Compelling content evokes the pain that people are in and it pushes on their pain points.

There are 7 pain points that people try to avoid, and I go deeper into these in my upcoming webinar.  Your clients are feeling pain in some of these areas and there are words and language that we can use to help them avoid their pain and remove them from the trajectory they are on.

There are also 7 main desires that humans have, that are solved by service-based businesses like coaching and consulting.

With both pain and desire, you’ve got to be thinking how you can express your value and also move people emotionally, because it’s not just about sharing content. There’s so much information out there, we can Google anything, anytime on our phones. It’s not just about sharing information.

It’s inspiring people to act. That is what valuable content is. Valuable content is not ‘3 tips’ or ‘3 secrets’ or ‘3 methods’.

It’s about using story and emotion to push on pain points that invoke emotion and desire that inspires someone to act.

When you are creating your content, really think through the language and the words that are going to bring the pain or desire feelings to your readers.

When you inspire someone to take an action, even a really small action, they attribute that to you, and they’re like, ‘Wow he moved me. He didn’t just entertain me, he educated me and helped my belief to shift so I see things differently now’.

And that is what valuable content does. Valuable content is about showing and not telling. It’s about having a balance of strength and warmth and it’s about showing value and evoking emotion.

If you would like to know how to do this, I’m unpacking it all in my upcoming, free webinar, on Thursday, 18th February.

I recently ran a 1-day event, where I delved deeply into the art of creating compelling copy.

I shared my ‘Compelling Copy Formula’, and unpacked the psychology of influence, which enables you to understand at a deep level how to inspire people to take action.

I received so much great feedback about it that I decided to run a FREE LIVE online ‘best-of’ evening event with the highlights that people loved MOST!

If you want to avoid being drowned out in the sea of noise with the masses online, and you want to understand how to create compelling content and get my actual step-by-step formulas, then this webinar is for you.

I’ll be unpacking how to write influential copy and how to utilise power words and phrases that move people towards you.

I’m sharing how to communicate your value in a way that people get to know, like and trust you, so you can attract new clients FAST!

Learning how to write influential content has the potential to change EVERYTHING for you.⠀

Want help to grow your business? 

Business is too hard to do alone.

Do you need help to get more right-fit clients, free up more time and create a profitable, lifestyle-friendly business that you LOVE?

I offer a free 45-minute business strategy session, where you’ll get personalised guidance, direction, clarity, and a clear action plan.

I’ll walk you through a proven business growth roadmap and personalise it to show you exactly what you need to do to hit your financial and freedom goals. 

This is only for people who are ready and committed to change.

Apply now for your free strategy session with Kat 

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February 4, 2021 by katmillar Leave a Comment

3 Instant Tweaks To Make Your Content More Compelling

If you want your content to connect and resonate with your audience, there are some key elements it needs to have.⠀

The COOL thing is, creating compelling copy is a learnable skill. And it’s actually really simple when you know how to do it.

In fact when you learn the predictable patterns, it almost seems like magic!

But it’s not magic. It’s simply knowing the proven formula.

It’s knowing the right things that you can tweak and change, so that your copy becomes compelling, engaging and attracts the right people.

If you want to make your copy more ‘poppy’, it’s about taking bland, boring content and making it stand out.

It’s doing a copy makeover to make it influential – so that people take action, and are inspired to work with you.

Creating compelling copy closes the gap from where your ideal client currently are, to where they want to be.

So here are three hacks to instantly make your copy more compelling.

1 – Push On Pain

In order to move people to action, we want to push on people’s pain points. I know that sounds a little bit horrible and harsh  but pain motivation is twice as strong as pleasure motivation.

People are twice as motivated to avoid pain as they are to move towards pleasure.

We can’t ignore this truth.

To move people to action, remind them of their pain, and the painful consequences that will occur if they don’t change.

The trajectory that we are on in some areas of life is often leading to MORE pain, but we try to ignore it.

Think about someone who smokes a pack a day. In order to keep up that habit, they have to shut the door on the little voice that tells them they need to change or else suffer the consequences.

Reminding people of the trajectory that they’re currently on is not causing more pain; you’re revealing the truth.

7 painful triggers that motivate people to act include:

Avoidance of…

  • Danger
  • Fear – e.g. emotional fear like fear of rejection, loss, failure, fear of not being good enough.
  • Doubt
  • Complication
  • Uncertainty
  • Boredom
  • Loss

These 7 things are triggers that people will take action to avoid.

So if you think about your offer and your content, how can you start to use these things in your content?

How can you push on your ideal clients’ pain points in your content?

When it comes to buying products or services, people are constantly asking themselves is going to increase their status or decrease it.

How can you show someone that if they don’t take action, their status is going to be decreased?  It’s super powerful, but it takes a little bit of thinking through.

When you take the time to really craft your copy and content, make sure that your content is engaging and compelling.

Making your content engaging and compelling drives people to take action and move towards you faster, so you can close the gap quicker than you can think.

If you write a content post that has these pain elements in it, you will find people wanting to book into your calendar straight away, get on a discovery call with you, and potentially sign up to your signature program offer. So this stuff matters.

I know this sounds like hard work, and it does take time to craft your words so they will move people to take action, but it’s so worth it. It’s a skill that anyone can learn and it’s actually quite simple, when you know the tweaks and formula, but there is some work involved.

A really compelling post can make you a lot of money.

This is why copywriting is one of the highest paid professions.

Over the last 10+ years I’ve been crafting marketing wording to attract clients. I’ve tested and proven the copywriting formulas that work. And I know from experience, when you craft your words correctly, your income will increase!

2 – Develop The Desire

Here are 7 desires that motivate humans:

  • Desire for love
  • Desire for freedom
  • Desire for increase
  • Desire for speed
  • Desire for ease
  • Desire for status
  • Desire for pleasure

If you think about all the services and products in the world, most fall somewhere under these 7 desires. The desire for freedom is desiring freedom from pain, freedom from emotional turmoil.

People want things faster, better and easier.

We can incorporate these desires into our content to make it more enticing and more appealing.

And you don’t need to be a master copywriter to do this.

You just need to know these things so you can start thinking through how you can take a piece of content and make it pop. Here’s a piece of content for a fictional company that I’ve made up.

This will give you an example of adding different elements that focus on desire:

Original copy:

‘Functional Fitness is one of Australia’s leading gyms, with a wide range of fitness classes.. We are proud of our instructors and state of the art equipment. We’re passionate about our revolutionary approach, and take great pride in our classes that are second to none.’

This has some fancy language and it’s a typical features based piece of copywriting.

The problem with this basic copy is that it’s not talking about what’s in it for the reader and it doesn’t include all these desires.  So, I’ve added some desires of added status, speed increase and ease.

Tweaked copy:

‘When you join Functional Fitness, you’ll find the most cutting edge classes that you’ll love coming back to. The instructors you will meet are super supportive, they will be there for you every step of the way, to help you achieve your goals. You’ll find our spaces fresh, vibrant and fun, so you can start feeling fitter, faster.’

You’ll also notice in this tweaked piece of copy, I used the word you, your or you’ll 9 times. The first piece of copy had no usage of these words, which is common with people’s copywriting. People want to hear what’s in it for them, not what you are doing for them.

In the tweaked copy, I push on status, so I say the classes are ‘cutting edge’. I also push on speed, so I mention people can get ‘fit faster’. I want to focus on ease so I mention the spaces are ‘fresh, vibrant’ and ‘fun’.

3 – Elevate The Emotion

We all have triggers for our emotions. We buy based on emotion, we justify our emotional decision and back it up with logic. There are some power words you can use that trigger an emotional response.

In my workshop this Saturday, I’ll be going through a full list of power words, but today I’ll share a few to get you started.

The first example is a headline:

BEFORE – ‘3 Ideas For Healthy Lunches’. You might make some content like this is you are a health coach. It does the job, but is pretty boring and bland.

I’ve changed this copy to add a little bit more of the pop…

AFTER – ‘3 Nearly Instant Cures For Boring Healthy Lunches.’

In this one statement, I’ve made it less boring, because no one wants boring. I’ve added speed by saying ‘nearly instant’. I’ve changed the word ‘ideas’ to the word ‘cures’,  because everyone wants a cure to something.

This is a simple example that shows you just how easily you can take some words and just make a headline pop. Did you know your headline is 80% of the value of your content? If you get your headline right, you will get people clicking through.

The second example:

BEFORE – ‘How To Be More Effective At Copywriting.’  This is fine. It does the job. But just adding a fine tweak we can make it pop.

AFTER – ‘Surprising Ways To Be Uber Effective With Your Copywriting’.

People love surprise. They love novelty, actually the brain loves novelty. The brain also loves curiosity, so using the word ‘surprise’ hooks people in.

The third example:

BEFORE – ‘I’ll show you how to set goals, and make sure they happen.’

AFTER – ‘You’ll pick up my unique goal setting formula (and then you name your formula), so you can finally achieve the results that you want.’

When you name things and make them a formula, a roadmap, a blueprint, a method or pillars, you’re organising your knowledge and you’re putting a framework around it.

This adds curiosity and people want organised, structured knowledge.

When you structure and name your packages well, it’s no longer just tips, it’s an actual, tangible thing. The internet is full of tips, people don’t need more tips.

When you create a formula or a roadmap and name it, you tap into emotion.

Here’s an example for a baby sleep coach:

BEFORE –

‘I’ll show you how to create a successful bedtime routine’, you can use: ‘Learn my proven strategies for a successful bedtime routine, so you can finally enjoy a tear-free story time every night.’

AFTER –

Here we are evoking emotions, which is avoiding the tears every night.

Using the words ‘every night’ is pushing on the desire for increase.

So you can see, it’s just little tweaks, but when you understand the formula to writing compelling copy, it makes a huge difference. In this example, I’ve pushed on pain, developed the desire and elevated the emotions.

Another thing that I’ve done here, is add specificity. I’ve made it more tangible so you can visualise it.

3 Copywriting Traps People Fall Into…

1 – Not Having A Formula

A formula helps you put all the pieces together and joins the dots. When you have a formula, your business can change, really fast and people will start reaching out to you and wanting to work with you.

2 – Not Having A Strategy

You need a clear content strategy or you will waste hours labouring over words.

3 – Not Having Certainty

Not knowing certainty or understanding the best methods and layers that come into the psychology of influence and how to move people towards you, can leave you and your business behind.

As a business owner, the most useful but underrated skill that you can learn is the skill of writing compelling copy if you want to get more clients and grow your business. And the coolest thing is copywriting is a skill that can be learned.

For the last 10+ years I have been crafting copy and have developed a formula that has been proven to work. I use this formula with my clients, and they get fantastic results fast.

Want help to grow your business? 

Business is too hard to do alone.

Do you need help to get more right-fit clients, free up more time and create a profitable, lifestyle-friendly business that you LOVE?

I offer a free 45-minute business strategy session, where you’ll get personalised guidance, direction, clarity, and a clear action plan.

I’ll walk you through a proven business growth roadmap and personalise it to show you exactly what you need to do to hit your financial and freedom goals. 

This is only for people who are ready and committed to change.

Apply now for your free strategy session with Kat

 

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January 6, 2021 by katmillar Leave a Comment

3 Things To Master To Hit Your First 100K

Is this your year to hit your first $100,000 in income?

Want to know the fastest way to do it?

Are you over watching everyone else succeed and you’re wondering when it’s your turn?

There are 2 numbers that you must know in your business and keep an eye on all the time. If you’re trying to build out your business, and get more clients, the first figure is what I call your freedom figure.

Your freedom figure is the figure that you need to make every single month to know that you’re free and you don’t have to work for anyone else ever again unless you want to.

Your freedom figure is the amount where you’re going to have enough to cover all your bills, expenses, your lifestyle and your savings goals and not have to stress about money. It could be $10,000 or $20,000 a month for example.

It’s the figure that will give you a lifestyle so you’re not burning yourself out, so you can take regular holidays and rest times, so you don’t have to be a slave to your laptop.

Your first 100K is usually the hardest, especially if you don’t have expert support and guidance, because it feels like there’s a million things to do.

In business, there is always so much we could be doing. Maybe you’ve got a lot of ideas, but you’re not really sure which one to focus on, and you need laser focus and clarity, so you’re not wasting time.

The second number that you need to know is how many clients you need in order to hit your freedom figure.

Let’s say your freedom figure is $100,000 per year.

You can decide your hourly rate based on your desired working hours, or you can decide your working hours based on your desired hourly rate.

If your goal is 100K, you need to make $2,000 every week for 50 weeks. You then have to divide that figure by how many hours you want to work and that’s your hourly rate.

Here’s an example calculation to work from based on desired working hours per week:

Yearly goal – $100,000

Monthly income goal – $8,333

Weekly income goal (50 weeks) – $2,000

Hours working per week goal – 10

Divide weekly amount by hours working per week – $2,000 divided by 10

= Your hourly rate – $200

Or, you might choose your hourly rate then decide that you will work as many hours as you need to hit your freedom figure.

Here’s an example calculation to work from based on desired hourly rate:

Yearly goal – $100,000

Monthly income goal – $8,333

Weekly income goal (50 weeks) – $2,000

Hourly rate goal – $150

Hours you need to work – 14

These figures give you clear goals to work from.

A lot of people don’t know their figures. They’re not clear and focused on achieving set targets. They just have an idea that they want to be happy and make something.

But successful people know where they’re heading and what they’re aiming towards, as it gives us motivation, drive and clear targets to aim for.

Once you’ve set your 2 numbers goals, it’s time to look at how we get there.

So here are 3 things you need to do well to earn your first $100,000 per year:

1 – Craft Your Signature Offer

The first thing you need to do is craft your irresistible signature offer.

This is something that a  lot of people get wrong.  You need to take the time to build an amazing and irresistible offer that’s a no-brainer for people.

People often price their offer incorrectly by charging too little or making it too expensive. They don’t have great bonuses, they don’t have great structure or a mapped out delivery method. In order to do this, you have to be really clear on your ideal client and on your message.

The way that you craft a beautiful offer that people want to buy, is by really understanding your ideal clients and what they want. You don’t want to craft a beautiful offer, full of value that no-one wants.

In order to create an amazing offer, you really need to research and get to know your ideal client so you know what they need. I didn’t know this in my first 100K in business. So I figured it out as I went along.

I had lots and lots of conversations with people and I hung out in groups at networking events. I coached a lot of people for free. I spent a lot of time with business owners and started to hear all the different problems that they had struggled with, things like copywriting, technology and sales.

These were the things that formed my offer. You don’t want your offer to only be coaching. No one wants just coaching. They want a signature system, a roadmap, a blueprint that they can follow that’s going to get them from their problem to their solution.

It’s your job to map that out and get your offer really clear, and then you need to get your messaging clear. Your messaging is the language that you’re going to use to basically show people the transformation journey. It’s the beliefs that you have that you need to communicate to your ideal clients.

You do this by educating them on the gaps so that they will also be able to get the kind of results that you’ve got. So I recommend that you spend some time creating your offer.

The way you get to know what your ideal clients want is by doing one-on-one coaching as much as you can. You will see the most transformation with people when they do one-on-one coaching.

When I first started out, I would create something for them and send it to them each time. If they said they didn’t know what to post on social media, then I would create a guide to teach them and then email it to them.

This is what started me creating my online course. I had created so many tools and resources for people, so I included them in my course.

Along with your coaching, you want to have videos and resources. There are tangible things like checklists and guides that can help people. You could create step-by-step videos for people to watch in-between coaching.

You want to have bonuses that relate to all the things that your ideal client is struggling with. One of the recent bonuses I’ve offered is my Client Attraction Accelerator program. Another was a copywriting makeover.

I’ve offered a technology session, where I get behind the scenes and share my screen with people and actually help them build out a funnel or an email nurture sequence or a Facebook advert.

The bonuses that I’ve put into my offer directly relate to the biggest problems that my ideal clients have.  The added bonuses I offer is what gets them over the line with a sale.

In your signature offer, you might throw in a VIP ticket to one of your workshops or a mastermind session. This is why it’s so important that you understand your ideal clients and what they are struggling with. This helps you understand the types of things that you can create for them.

In your offer, I recommend you have 3C’s:

  • Coaching
  • Content
  • Community

To fast-track their results, many people now recognise how crucial it is to have a coach. Whether you coach people 1:1 or in a group, people need coaching for perspective, expertise, feedback and support.

People also need content – a step-by-step roadmap to follow. This is where you need to map out your system and then teach it to people, ideally in a portal as an online course with videos and downloadable resources.

And finally, people want a community.

A lot of people freak out because they think they don’t have a big enough following or a community yet. Don’t let that stop you.

When I first started as a business coach,  one of the first workshops that I ran was in The Little Space at Bondi Junction. I ran a workshop there called ‘The Business Of Speaking’ where I talked about how to make money as a speaker.

The offer I was selling at that course was a 6-month course called Speak To Influence. It was $897 and only 2 people bought it. It was a very small workshop and I didn’t have many people attending.

It was such a valuable offer, but I just didn’t have enough people in the room. Every single week I showed up for 6 months – so 24 x 1-hour sessions of creating all new content for only 2 people.

Every week I would show up and often only one person would show, so they got one-on-one specialised sessions.  It was a great offer and I learned so much through the process, even though there were only 2 people.

Obviously, it’s good to have a bigger community, but you just start with what you’ve got. You’ve just got to start small and you run it and don’t pull back. You can gift it to friends or discount it to build the community when you’re just starting out.

Over time I grew the community and now consistently have great people in my inner circle who all support each other.

People want peers in their community, as they like going on a journey together and supporting each other.

Make sure you are clear in your offer of the benefits, the value and make sure you get the price point right for your offer.

2 – Create A Sales Mechanism

The second thing you have to master to hit your first 100K is to create a sales mechanism to go along with your irresistible offer.  Once you’ve created your offer, you have to figure out how you’re actually going to sell that offer and the sales process to get people to buy it.

Will you sell your offer on a discovery call or in some type of consult or strategy session? What are you going to sell it on? Will it be an order form, on a landing page in Click Funnels, or on your website?

If you are going to sell one-on-one coaching, (which is what I recommend), then you’ve got to have a way to get people to register for a free strategy call with you. This means you need a booking page that links into your calendar.

I use Calendly for example and I embed it into a landing page on Click Funnels so that people can book in easily online. Then they get sent reminders automatically. I have everything automated because you don’t want to be doing everything manually.

Doing business manually the old way is such a waste of time.  You just want people to book in online, and for it to all be automated. Your client gets an email with instructions on what to do, like a zoom link or maybe instructions of how you will give them a call.

Maybe you will write a written sales letter before they jump on a call, or maybe they need to watch a video or fill in one of your surveys. These are all the things you need to think about with your sales process.

If you’re going to do a webinar, then you need to plan to invite attendees into a call at the end of your webinar. Or you may need to create a downloadable freebie, to get people on a sales call with you.

Working out your whole sales process does take longer. But coming up to the Christmas holidays, you know you’ve got a bit of time spare and that’s when I personally do the things I need to do to catch up with my business.

Usually, over the summer holidays, there are fewer clients, so I sit at home and build out my processes.

If you want to hit your freedom figure, you’ve got to put in the work. You can’t just post on social media organically and expect clients to come to you. It doesn’t work that way. You’ve got to build a mechanism and a structure behind the scenes.

3 – Create Compelling Content

The third thing you need to master to hit your first 100K is to create compelling content. Your content needs to be compelling, so it draws people in, attracts their attention and engages them.

The best way to have compelling content is to really understand your ideal client, because then you’re going to use their language and you’re going to speak directly to their specific problems and needs.

Your content cannot be vague or big picture. You’ve got to be very specific with it.

Your content is the way that you get people to see your offer or see your invitation into a sales call. So really, your content is a marketing piece. You need to have a great offer and a way to sell it. You need a traffic source and lead generation strategies.

A couple of weeks ago I received an email with a freebie gift that contained 400 lead generation strategies. I think the guy was trying to be really valuable, but it was just overwhelming and potentially quite confusing for me.

You really need to pick one strategy and focus on it for a week or 30 days, instead of doing a few social media posts here and there. Using the less is more principle is powerful.

You want to get the most leads as quickly as possible. Don’t do all the lead generation strategies at once, just focus on what you will do for the next 7, 30 days or even 90 days, whether that’s paid traffic or free traffic you are aiming for.

Typically your business page on Facebook is only getting about 1% reach, so almost no one sees it. So you want to build up free traffic or a combination of free and paid traffic.

When you’re first starting out, you want to be able to validate your offer, and run it past as many people as possible. You want to help as many people as possible. This gives you fuel for your business.

Even if you have to, reduce your price and say you are going to do a partial scholarship for the first 5 people who take up your offer. You could say you are going to take $500 off or 50% off for the first 5 people who take up your offer. This is a great way to get testimonials and to get practice at getting people to your door.

You don’t want to discount by saying you are doing a beta test, or that you are discounting it, as this makes it sound a bit amateur. But if you say you are helping provide a partial scholarship or having founding members who get a reduced price it a really great strategy.

You can create something really awesome and get it set up in a week, and actually start making a lot of more money. It’s not obviously all about making money, but it is about helping people. We can’t help people if we’re broke and thinking about ourselves struggling.

If you would like some help crafting your offer, developing your sales strategies or creating compelling content, I recently ran a webinar called The Client Attraction Accelerator Masterclass.

If you missed this masterclass, you can access it here for a limited time.

Kat

P.S. Do you need some personalised support in hitting your business goals in 2021? I have opened up a few spaces in my calendar for strategy sessions, but they are filling fast and are by application only.

You can apply for your 1:1 session here.

 

 

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