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December 7, 2022 by katmillar Leave a Comment

How To Know If You’re Giving Too Much Value Away For Free

I’ve been asked this question a lot lately…

How do we know how much to share… without giving too much away?

We’re all told – give value, value, value!

What does giving value actually mean?

And how do you know if you’re giving away too much value for free?

How do we help people, without them feeling they don’t need to buy from us?

How do we share in a way that people think, “I need more from her?”

If we give people a sense that we’re giving them everything in our free content, people won’t buy from us.

Here are 3 powerful keys to knowing if you’re giving too much away…

1. You’re not highlighting the gap

I like to say ‘Show the gaps, don’t fill the gaps”

Our content needs to show people what they need and what’s missing.

This is super important.

When people are deciding what content they want to share, a lot of times think “What can I teach that’s valuable?”

Then they post it hoping it will lead to people wanting to work with them.

They hope that people will enjoy it and want MORE.

Rather than showing them what is missing.

And this leads to people consuming your content for free and not wanting to work with you.

2. You’re giving a banquet, not a taste

It’s so important that we show people what they DON’T know.

The way to overcome this is giving what I call value-voids.

Share value, leave a void.

content that converts is designed to BOTH relieve tension AND create tension.

False sense of solution I’m going to give you everything I know.

One of the pillars of my content formula is curiosity. If we give people a sense of resolution, we rob them of curiosity

3. You’re not using influence strategically

You need to learn how to use influence so that your content works.

When you learn the layers of how to do it – you can be so much more certain that your content will work.

It will do its job.

Infusing Influence into your content is thinking:

  • What do you want your content to do?
  • What do you want your topic to do?
  • What’s the purpose of the content?

In this video I share:

How to know if you’re giving away too much for free – and what to do about it.

You can check out the video here…

There’s a strategic way of adding value.

There’s an influential way to structure.

How to use headlines – there’s an approach. In my event, I go deeper.

Always work with contrast. This is what they do without thinking.

Value is not the thing…

…Not ONLY value – too much value…

“Value is not, here’s everything I know.”

Often – particularly as women we feel we need to prove our worth by giving so much value that we confuse teaching with value.

If you give everything away and they don’t act on it. Then you’re devaluing it and it’s not value.

You only know if something is good if you can compare them.

If you’re missing this one thing (tension)

What IS value?

Every time we teach something new there’s a responsibility to help someone apply. Otherwise, it fizzles out – and they don’t do it.

People think “oh cool I get this.”

Yet are you teaching them how to implement – and getting them excited to implement – and getting rid of the beliefs holding them back from implementation?

WHEN YOU GET THIS RIGHT

  1. People aren’t reaching out to you or responding to your emails or messages
  2. People tell you how valuable your content is, but don’t sign up for your program or offer

1. Show People

So, what are you actually selling then?

When you package your knowledge for sale, you’re actually offering 3 valuable components that are massively more valuable than just content.

I call these The 3 Essential C’s

  • Curriculum – The complete A to Z curriculum
  • Coaching – The coaching and guidance from you as an expert
  • Community – The support from a group of like-minded people doing the same journey

1. Curriculum – we know there’s a ton of information out there on the internet.

Having an A to Z journey is completely different. This enables you to trust the credibility

2. Offering all the content in one place with a logical, sequential approach that gives a specific outcome so people can’t get distracted or lost is extremely valuable.

People pay for a path.

3. Coaching – Let’s face it. There are so many questions like “Which headline is better.” Being able to ask an expert with experience and wisdom is priceless.

4. Community – No one wants to do it alone. When you create a thriving community – that’s what people want.

Influence is a craft you can learn.

If there’s one key point I want you to take away, it’s this:

When you know how to use elegant influence to create compelling content, your marketing becomes easier, faster, and more enjoyable, and you show up with more confidence.

You connect better with your ideal clients and attract more right clients into your business that you can help.

The good news is, it’s a skill that anyone can develop.

Kat xo


P.S Whenever you’re ready… here are 3 other ways I can help you grow your business:


1. Grab a free copy of my ‘Client Attraction Checklist‘

It’s a powerful roadmap to attracting leads, signing clients, and scaling your coaching business. — Grab It Here

2. Join the community and connect with like-minded Coaches & Experts

It’s our Facebook community where ambitious entrepreneurs learn how to increase their income, influence, and impact. — Join Us Here

3. Work with me to get more clients

If you’d like to work directly with me to get more clients… just send me a Facebook Message with the word “Clients”… tell me a little about your business and what you’d like to work on together, and I’ll get you all the details — Message Here

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Amplify Your Influence, Content creation, Content That Connects, Influence skills

August 9, 2022 by katmillar Leave a Comment

3 Little-Known Things That Kill Your Presentations

Most uccessful coaches, experts, and entrepreneurs use events to attract and sign up clients because it is the quickest way to build trust with your ideal audience.

By mastering the art of presenting and inspiring people to take action, you can position yourself as an expert and authority figure.

This leads to deeper relationships with potential clients as they get to know you better through video or Zoom, ultimately choosing you over other options.

Effective presenting is a craft that can transform your life both professionally and personally. By honing your presentation skills, you can work from home, achieve financial success, and boost your confidence.

You don’t need to be a super polished or charismatic speaker to learn this craft – anyone can do it.

Developing the ability to communicate your thoughts and ideas in a compelling way will also improve your communication skills in all areas of life.

Presenting is more than just a skill, it’s a game-changer that can elevate your personal and professional life.

However, there are some common mistakes presenters make that can be fatal and prevent people from watching, engaging, or even signing up to work with you.

It’s crucial to identify and avoid these mistakes to maximise the impact of your presentations.

In this video I share 3 little-known mistakes that kill your presentations.

You can watch the video here:

The 3 Little-Known Things That Kill Your Presentations.

1. Winging it, not crafting it

When you don’t take the time to craft your presentation properly when you’re just winging it, rather than crafting it without any type of structure that you’re following.

You can miss so much of your audience.

Because we all think in different ways.

There’s been so much research done on psychology and human behaviour and the way we process information that if we don’t follow the way the human brain naturally goes, we lose people.

The purpose of the presentation is for the audience, not for you. You are not there to process and download and work things out as you go.

You want to make sure that you have a framework that you’re following.

Always start with why then go into the what followed by the how to.

2. Focusing on yourself, not on the audience

If your nerves are making you so self-conscious, you’re thinking about yourself and not your audience.

It ends up that you’re not able to be really present and allow the flow to come through you, because you’re so busy thinking about yourself.

The more you think about your audience, the less nervous you’ll be.

3. Under sharing, or over sharing

A lot of people say to me, “How do I know what’s over-sharing and giving too much?” “How do I know what’s not giving enough?

Under sharing is being stingy and holding back from giving.

It’s so important, if we want to build trust, that we give plenty of free value, I find that the more give, the more clients I get.

We always have to provide great value whether that’s free or not. It’s not just oh, I’m going to hold back all of my awesome value only for my paying clients.

We’ve got to give substance content that has real-life application, even if it’s for free.

Now on the flip side is oversharing.

I used to do this all the time. Whenever I ran an event, I’d give so much away like this massive banquet and people would leave really full.

But it can be a disservice to people if they feel that they can go and do it on their own.

You want your presentations to give lots of value but you don’t want to give too much.

You always want to leave people satisfied and hungry for more.

There is a sweet spot in the middle between being generous and not giving away everything you have all at once.

There are many factors depending on where people are at in their journey, how much they’ve absorbed from you, or really how well they know you.

I’m going to be unpacking these factors in the upcoming workshop as well as so much more.

I’m sharing the formula that I’ve created “The clients from workshops formula” that I’ve used for the last 15 years.

To help you get clients from events, whether that’s workshops, webinars, master classes, or anytime that you show up to present.

I’m sharing how to create a really effective presentation where you craft it in a way that overcomes or dissolves any objections that they have if it’s the right person for you.

It positions you as the expert and the authority…

…and it really creates that desire for what you want.

How to deliver it with value getting that sweet spot. Making sure that it attracts and signs up the right people.

I’m also sharing how to market your workshops so that the right people come not just any people.

I’m doing it all without any complex tech. Without you having to do any sales calls. Or any of that kind of hustling tactics.

…It’s very elegant…

This powerful 1-day online workshop takes the best of what I’ve learned from running 300+ events and lays it all out in a simple system.

I think you’re going to absolutely LOVE How To Get Clients With Online Workshops

It’s limited to 30 seats only 

How To Get More Clients With Online Workshops
Why this event is different from other events you’ve attended…
  • It’s PACKED with Valuable, Tangible Tools & Strategies You Can Apply Straight Away to create FAST and lasting changes. It is NOT a pitch-fest. It offers tried-and-tested techniques that WORK and ENDS the confusion.

  • ​​It’s About Action: It’s not about just sitting and listening. Throughout the day, you’ll start implementing what you’re learning. You’ll be guided through the clear steps you need to create your own workshop plan, and walk away with key takeaways and clear actionable steps.

  • ​​It’s Designed Specifically For Women: As women, most of us process and absorb information differently to most men. We typically need more time to express and connect over what we’re hearing to bring it to life for us. This workshop includes plenty of time to connect, ask questions, and discuss what you’re learning, so you retain it better.

  • ​​Access To A Wealth Of Experience: It’s Being Presented By ‘Amplify Your Influence’ Expert Kat Millar, who has 18 years of experience in business and has helped completely transform the businesses and lives of thousands of individuals.

  • ​​It’s A Personal & Intimate Environment: This workshop is limited to just 30 people to create a more personal and intimate space. This more effectively maximises your learning experience and allows for a tailored approach, and more of your specific questions to be answered. 

Check out How To Get Clients With Online Workshops

Until next time, keep showing up and sharing your message because the world needs it.

Big love, see you soon

Kat xo

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Business, Business workshop, Communication, Communication skills, Content That Connects, Entrepreneur, Mindset, Presenting skills

November 4, 2021 by katmillar Leave a Comment

3 Sneaky Content Mistakes That Could Be Tripping You Up


Ever feel like you hit the content jackpot with a killer post so you share it, and it only get a few likes from your old faithfuls (aka, your best friends)?

Yeah, that sux. 

Content is a powerful tool that can spark emotion. It can build connection. It can inspire new ways of thinking and invite action. Content creation is an important part of a trust-building marketing strategy.

So why is it so hard to get your content to consistently engage people?

It usually comes down to some sneaky content mistakes that a lot of people don’t realise they’re making. ⠀

And it’s really hurting their brand. In a lot of ways, it’s having the opposite effect they want and actually putting people off.  

If you don’t have an effective content strategy and you’re posting randomly, it can actually add to people’s overwhelm and confusion.

We want to speak directly to our dream, soul-connected clients and elegantly communicate our value to them.

There are people out there haaaaanging for the help you provide, but without a great content strategy, most of them currently can’t find you.

People, with problems you can solve, are wading through Facebook right now… and if you’re not jumping out to them with your content, it’s probably because your words aren’t crafted to be as compelling as they could be.

It’s not because you’re not awesome, it’s because your content isn’t grabbing and keeping their attention. 

Your word choice has the ability to produce a flick of the finger or a pause and consume.

Tiny tweaks make big leaps.


If you want to attract new clients fast, learning how to create compelling content is a priority. If you’re using online events as a lead generation strategy, which is what I recommend for most coaches and experts, it’s really hard to get people to those events without compelling content that invites them to it.

Compelling content strategically grows your audience, it attracts your ideal clients and inspires the right people to buy from you and you can do it in a way that FEELS good to you.

So here are the 3 biggest mistakes that could be tripping you up.


1. You don’t have a well-thought-out content strategy

A lot of people are fumbling around in the dark, posting all sorts of things on social media without a content strategy. And it’s really hurting their brand and in a lot of ways, putting people off.

If you don’t have a strategy, it can actually add to people’s overwhelm and confusion. It can be a disservice to your followers. When you have a strategy, it’s like having a map that shows you the journey that people go on.

Here is an example. 

Carl likes to go for a walk around his block every day. He does the exact same journey – turns left out of his block, then right until the next street, then left, etc. He remains safe and within close distance to his home.

Sally, on the other hand, is spontaneous. Sally loves stepping out of her house with no plan, no direction, and just follows her nose. She loves finding new places and often gets lost but, she loves the thrill of it.  

Neither of these are right or wrong. 

So, are you more of a Cautious Carl or Spontaneous Sally?

If you’re like Cautious Carl in your content, you’re probably staying safe and predictable. You probably aren’t ever rocking the boat. You’re probably not trying new things and are sticking to just one type of content… it could be becoming a bit boring and you’re probably blending in. 

If you are a Carl type, the more you continuously walk around the block, the more you can become blind to the things around you. The walk can become monotonous and you’re no longer as bright-eyed and alert. Instead, it can become boring and repetitive.

If you’re a Sally type you may lack some structure. You want to discover new places but without any sense of direction, you might not reach your desired destination. 

If you’re like Spontaneous Sally in your content, you’re probably trying different types of content and sharing lots of different topics. You might be using the latest trends eg. TikTok, reels, Clubhouse, or Instagram Stories.

You probably post when you’re inspired but have gaps in content consistency. You might be fun to watch but your audience can’t fully rely on you to deliver consistent and reliable value.

You don’t want your content marketing strategy to become monotonous (like Carl) and, if you have no strategy in place like Sally, you’ll probably be overwhelmed and frustrated without direction. 

But what if Carl and Sally each used a map? A map allows you to see where you are, where you want to go, and the best way to get there.

A map allows you to see where you are, where you want to go, and the best way to get there.


And, that’s why you need a solid content strategy.


2. You’re Not Creating Enough Curiosity

I say this all the time because a lot of people miss it, and it will never stop being true…

The main job of your marketing content is to create curiosity. If you’re not creating a feeling of curiosity for your reader or viewer, they will scroll away.

Giving away valuable content for free is the name of the game, but you can’t “give away the farm” and leave nothing to be desired.

So what do we do instead? We need to give value, AND open a void – a door that shows them what else they need to know.

I call it the ‘Void-Value Dance’. 

This is where you highlight a void – you tell them all about a problem they have, showing them that you understand that problem completely and intimately – because you used to have the same problem. Then you give them value to solve it. 

But there’s a second important step. You then open up a NEW void. 

Give value, open a void –-> Give value, open a void –-> Give value, open a void

It’s like opening a new door to a new problem. It’s also known as ‘tension-relief’.

Most people don’t know how to give value, but not give away too much. If you give people a false sense of their problem being solved, you’re actually doing them a disservice. 

I give a lot of value away for free but there’s so much I DON’T share for free. There’s a whole roadmap people get when we work together.

People pay for a path.

People need to work closely with you in order to have a transformation. We very rarely transform just from information. 


3. You’re Not Inspiring Action

A lot of people struggle to inspire their followers to take action.

I used to find this really hard too. I loved sharing helpful advice, but I rarely asked people to take the next step. 

When I realised this was hurting my business, I got more strategic.

It’s not about selling, it’s about inviting people to take the next best action towards you. That’s how you can best help them solve their problem!

Maybe it’s sharing about a free resource or event, or inviting them to have a strategy session with you. Make sure you add the benefits of taking the action. 

I call this being ‘elegantly influential’. 

A lot of people don’t add the right kind of CTA – ‘Call To Action’. 

The CTA is where the magic happens. However, your CTA’s won’t work if you don’t understand the right type and placement that’s needed, according to your client journey. 

You need the right kind of CTA –
‘Call To Action’. 


An effective CTA provides your reader or viewer with the next best logical step. 

A lot of people try to rush the process from cold to hot (getting someone from a Facebook ad into a call with them) and they don’t think about where someone is in their client journey. They make a high-commitment ask and they haven’t developed enough trust yet. 

You also want to avoid using the passive voice (e.g. “Let us know”, “If you want”) in your CTAs. Use verbs that compel people to take action — “Click here”, “Read now”, etc.

So let’s do a review.

If we did an audit on your business…

1. Do you have a well-thought-out content strategy that’s predictable and profitable? 

2. Is your content creating enough curiosity?

3. Are you inspiring people to take action?

Without your content leading to action that involves taking the next step towards you, it’s very hard to build a profitable business that helps people. 

Want to know the fastest way to attract clients online? Discover how at…

“How To Attract Clients With Compelling Content”

P.S. Whenever you’re ready… here are 3 other ways I can help you grow your coaching business:

1. Grab a free copy of my ‘Client Attraction Checklist‘

It’s a powerful roadmap to attracting leads, signing clients, and scaling your coaching business. — Grab It Here

2. Join the community and connect with Coaches who are also growing their business

It’s our Facebook community where ambitious Coaches learn to get more income, influence, and impact. — Join Us Here

3. Work with me privately

If you’d like to work directly with me … just send me a Facebook Message with the word “Private”… tell me a little about your business and what you’d like to work on together, and I’ll get you all the details! — Message Here

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Amplify Your Influence, Business, Business coach, Business growth, business strategy, Coach, Coaching, Content, Content That Connects, Entrepreneur, Entrepreneurship, Kat Millar, marketing

October 28, 2021 by katmillar Leave a Comment

How To Get More Clients Using The Art Of Elegant Influence


In a world where trust is harder to find, and our ability to tune out messages is greater than ever…

…it’s important we have a more effective way to stand out, cut through the noise, and be noticed, for the right reasons.

There’s a lot of distrust online with fake news, pushiness, saturation, and interruptions. The amount of information that is being thrown at you is huge and this can sometimes become overwhelming.

It’s also really hard to know what is true and what isn’t – the genuine from the fake.

As a child, I used to play the game “Masterpiece” with my family. It’s a game about art and you take a card, which is a painting, and you match it together with a price.

What you see is an elegant front, but it’s really about what’s underneath.


The cards are then shuffled, a player takes a card and then tries to sell it by persuading the others that it is worth a great deal of money. It could be worth millions or not much at all, depending on if it is genuine or a fake.

What I learned from this game is what we see is an elegant front, but it’s really about what’s underneath. The cards are revealed and what’s fake and what’s genuine becomes known.

A forgery looks beautiful but ultimately, it didn’t come from the original painter.

It’s the same with content. Anyone can paint a pretty picture. Anyone can put out a blog post with other people’s intellectual property and claim it as their own.

It can look and sound really beautiful but is there a solid foundation underneath? You can come across really elegant … but is it just style are you sharing solid substance too?

The strength of true value needs to be underneath all that you do. You’re not copying what other people do but are presenting your original content, your genuine, authentic self.

You can have conviction and be confident in what you are sharing when it is your own brilliance. Drawing people to your foundation of authenticity makes the biggest difference when it comes to influence.

So let’s look at what elegant influence is NOT.

  • It’s NOT trying to use persuasion tactics
  • It’s NOT the words that you say

It’s NOT just about learning business skills

Now let’s look at what elegant influence IS.

  • It IS how people feel when they are listening to you, watching your videos.
  • It IS about personal character.
  • It IS about who you’re being, who you are.
  • It IS about working on yourself and not just about working on acquiring outward skills.

Have you ever met someone who has amazing business skills but not great people skills? They can be really smart and have a profitable business but you don’t sense any warmth from them at all.

Working on yourself and your own mindset is incredibly important to step into elegant influence.

Jim Rohn talks about having an “until mindset”. You keep going UNTIL it works.

When you make the decision to never give up on your dream, you are able to push through the disappointments and hardships and keep going.

You are able to see the money that you are spending on your own education as an investment in yourself, even before you see any of the money coming back.

I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t have regular coaching. My coaches call me higher and push me further with direction and clarity.

They help me work on my mindset so that I can be more of my authentic self and show up with elegant influence for you.

So how exactly do we use influence elegantly to attract clients and accelerate our business growth?

Here are 5 of the most powerful ways:


1. Be original

Others will know that you are not being original and not working in elegant influence. 

So many people are copying other people.


They will know it’s not genuine because you may not be able to talk about it in a confident, certain, convicted way like you would if you came up with it yourself.

I’m not referring to ‘modeling’ – which is one of the fastest ways to grow your business. 

Modeling is watching other businesses that are similar to yours and taking ideas, not content, and implementing them with your own voice.

Use your own voice by coming up with your own way of saying things. 

Begin developing a method that is really unique to you. This is so incredibly powerful.

It does take a lot more work and it can be hard, but stepping out and doing the ‘hard things’ is an opportunity for big growth and productivity in your business.

When it comes to being original, I recommend having a “Cave Day” or a “Cave Hour”. What this looks like for me is walking in nature listening to audiobooks. As I get ideas, I write them down in my phone.

Being original means that you can use other people to inspire you and then come up with your own ways of expressing these ideas.

Some ideas for “Cave Time” are:

  • Putting ear phones in for 30 mins a day
  • Going to local cafe by yourself
  • Reading a book for 30 mins a day
  • Sitting in a quiet place for 30 mins a day and just allowing your mind to think and come up with creative ideas

The idea is to have a ‘blank piece of paper moment’ where you are pouring out all of your ideas onto the piece of paper, like a brainstorming session.

A great idea is to do this away from your laptop so you are not easily distracted. Ideally, be in a quiet place, without distractions, allows your mind to get creative and invites ideas to flow freely to you.

Often when something is hard, your competitors aren’t doing it.


2. Be Professional

Many people don’t set themselves up to win by not looking professional or speaking professionally.

It’s not about perfectionism – it’s about professionalism.

I don’t strive for perfectionism, I strive for excellence. I strive to be outstanding. I strive to be polished and do the best job I can at communicating my value.

This doesn’t mean that I haven’t made massive mistakes. If I wasn’t willing to fail, to show up and do things badly, and launch so many products and services, I wouldn’t keep showing up consistently now.

Showing up, no matter what is having an entrepreneurial mindset.

It’s so important to get out there BEFORE you feel ready. You can make the commitment to do the best that you possibly can

Some ways to do this are:

  • By having a great Zoom background
  • Always looking your best
  • Taking the time to craft a great post instead of rushing to get ‘something’ out there – quality is so important 

This is a gift to your community when you’re engaging with them and you’re not distracted by your surroundings or what you look like when you’re presenting.


3. Be Soulful

Being soulful is about connecting to things that are outside of status, power, and money. This means tapping into something that is bigger than yourself.

Think about why it is so important to you to get that message out to your community, beyond making money.

Create content from a place of wanting to serve, being influential, being a thought leader… to challenge the status quo and not just talk from a practical level.

When you can show up and speak from your heart, and not be self-conscious but share your soulful message, people will pick up on that and it’s very attractive.

It’s like the Masterpiece game – it’s not just a beautiful painting, it’s not style without substance … it’s soulful.


It’s being professional and being elegant, but it’s also about having that deeper mission, that deeper ‘why’.


4. Be Specific

I look at some content and at times it can be quite vague. Clarity is very important.

Clarity very rarely comes upfront. Clarity comes along the journey.

Great impact isn’t made when you’re not being really specific. There is such a saturation online now so if you want to gain and hold people’s attention, you have to be specific.

Think about your website, your social media profiles, your comments that you’re putting online.

Are you speaking very specifically and directly to your dream client? Or are you trying to be everything to everyone?

When your dream client comes to you, it’s so important that they know exactly what you do and know why you’re unique.

They want you to know that you ‘get them’ and you do this by speaking to them very specifically. This is how you gain connection and influence.

We’re all hungry for people who speak our language. To be an effective influencer, you want to be an interpreter of your dream client’s journey.

You have already been through the journey with its road bumps and obstacles, and you successfully navigated that terrain so now you’re their guide.

You’re there to interpret a very specific journey for other people.

5. Be Brave

It’s important to stand FOR something and stand AGAINST something if you want to be influential.

Influence is motivating and inspiring someone to take a new action to improve their life.


In order for them to move on that new action, they need to change their thinking, their perspective on their situation, and about themselves.

To help them create a new perspective, a new belief, you can inspire them and not be wishy-washy.

Your message needs to be bold and brave … and not everyone is going to like it. And that’s totally OK.

Marketing is about attracting some people and repelling others.

You are to be really firm in who you are, in what you believe and what you don’t believe, and then you get your dream people into your community … and life is super exciting.

These are the 5 things I recommend you focus on to get more clients using the art of elegant influence

They will help you to connect better with your ideal clients and you’ll be able to attract more of the right people into your business.

What this ultimately means for you is that you can help more people, make a bigger difference in the world, create the impact that you’re here to make, have a profitable business doing what you love …

… and have greater fulfillment in your life.

P.S Whenever you’re ready… here are 3 other ways I can help you grow your business:

1. Grab a free copy of my ‘Client Attraction Checklist‘

It’s a powerful roadmap to attracting leads, signing clients, and scaling your coaching business. — Grab It Here

2. Join the community and connect with like-minded Coaches & Experts

It’s our Facebook community where ambitious entrepreneurs learn how to increase their income, influence, and impact. — Join Us Here

3. Work with me privately

If you’d like to work directly with me … just send me a Facebook Message with the word “Private”… tell me a little about your business and what you’d like to work on together, and I’ll get you all the details! — Message Here

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Amplify Your Influence, Business, Business coach, Business growth, business strategy, Coach, Coaching, Content, Content That Connects, Entrepreneur, Entrepreneurship, Kat Millar, marketing

October 26, 2021 by katmillar 2 Comments

3 Beliefs That Prevent People From Having A Profitable Business




We human beings are pretty masterful at throwing obstacles in front of us.

We usually do it to avoid hard things. Our brains are wired to avoid things outside of our comfort zone.

These obstacles we’re placing in the way are stopping our success. A lot of times in business, however, we don’t even realise we’re doing it.

We think the obstacle is truth… not a belief.

Profitable business owners don’t just do things differently than other people — they think differently than the people around them. 

Over the years, I’ve spoken to thousands of people and heard a lot of reasons why they’re not sharing their expertise online consistently.

I’ve summarised these into the top 3 beliefs I’ve observed that may be delaying your success.

Limiting beliefs can keep you small and stuck – but they don’t have to. You can drop ALL the beliefs that are holding you back right now, with a bit of awareness.

The world’s most successful people have one thing in common: they’ve mastered the ability to produce the results they desire most. And it starts with our thinking.

Your brain is a wonderful tool so let it work for you and ditch those beliefs that will keep you from your success.

When it comes to stepping up as an expert, the first belief that many people have is:

1. They believe they’re not ready

A lot of people think that those who run events, speak onstage, are interviewed for magazines or on podcasts must be there because they have authority. 

Thinking you have to be THE authority in their space before they get onto a platform and hold a microphone …

… is like putting the horse before the cart.

They wonder if they have to know more before they step onto a platform. This is not the way it works. You don’t have to be ready to step up.

You don’t need to have a website, a fancy logo, a certification before you are able to take action and get out there and share your knowledge online.

I’m not sure where we get the idea that someone needs to tell us that it’s ok to position ourselves as an expert in our topic.

A lot of people don’t put themselves out there because they allow fear to stop them in their tracks.

You don’t need to have success before you put yourself on a platform.


Successful people don’t wait to be selected. Successful people believe they can select themselves.

For example, my amazing friend Lisa is a phenomenal copywriter.

Lisa made a decision to take action and created a beautiful company, “Sacred Social Media”.

She stepped out and became fully booked and within 3 weeks, she was turning clients away.

She then put things in place – a Zoom account, a payment gateway, a website, etc. She started with social media, gained clients, and moved forward from there.

So can you.

“Once upon a time most people had to wait: to be accepted, to get funded, to be promoted–to somehow be ‘discovered,'” writes Dharmesh Shah, founder of CTO of Hubspot.

“Not anymore… You can do almost anything you have the desire and skills and drive to do; you don’t need to wait for someone else to discover your talents.

“You get to discover yourself. The only thing holding you back is your willingness to take the leap and try.”

Blame is all about being stuck focusing on you, rather than getting out there and being of service to people.

Knowing that you’re fully responsible for your success is one of the most important beliefs in business. 

You have wisdom, experience, and knowledge right now that can take you to your next level, and you don’t have to wait to have all of your ducks lined up in a perfect row before you can do it.

You can help more people in a bigger way NOW!

New belief:  “I’m Ready Already!”


2. They believe they can figure things out on their own

It’s easy to think, “I’m all alone, sitting behind my laptop, and I need to find all of the answers myself.”

It is tempting to think that running an online business is a solo venture. 

After all, you can sit for hours, oftentimes by yourself, building and communicating through a computer screen. 

It feels isolating but at the same time, a lot of people think that it’s the only way … that being “self-employed” means spending most of your time by yourself.

I promise you, nothing could be further from the truth.

“Self-employed” simply means being your own boss, not being by yourself

… and guess what? 

The best corporate bosses in the world actually seek out contact with others — their peers, colleagues, employees, and clients.

That’s how they learn what’s working and what’s not in the way they run their company.

The business owners I know who are thriving, myself included, have mentors they trust and can turn to again and again.

Having mentors for different areas of your life is not only important but essential for your success, especially in business.

Mentors and coaches hold you to a higher standard. They hold your goals and potential high while you’re walking towards them.

It’s great to watch free webinars, listen to podcasts, and attend conferences but it’s important not to get stuck in over-consuming. You want to move from ‘consumer mode’ into ‘creator mode’.

The fastest way to accelerate your success is to work with someone who is doing what you want to do. Someone who has gone before you and is having success in their space. 

The best of the best have mentors and advisors around them.

New belief:  “No-one succeeds on their own.”


3. They believe they can succeed with just a few hours a day

The very first purchase you might think about making is to buy the most comfortable office chair possible. 

They are expensive but you’ll be so grateful you did, because to grow a successful business, you’ll spend a ridiculous amount of time in it.

A good question to ask yourself is, “If I was working in someone’s company, what would I be fired for?”

If there was a video camera on you 24/7, what would you be fired for? For most people, 9 times out of 10 it’s laziness.

Will Smith said, “I’ve never really viewed myself as particularly talented. I’ve viewed myself as slightly above average in talent. And where I excel is a ridiculous, sickening, work ethic.”

There’s no easy way around it … you cannot rely on your talent alone. No matter how talented you are, your talent is going to fail you if you’re not skilled. 

You need to put in the work and dedicate yourself to being better every single day.

Warren Buffet says, “I wake up in the morning thinking, “Today I want to be the best investor in the world.””

I know there is NO WAY that I would ever be fired from my company.

Your worthiness issues start to vanish when you know you’ve worked hard for something.

You can help more people, create a greater impact, gain more fulfilment in your life, and have a profitable business doing what you love. 


There’s a reality to putting in the effort of 8 hours a day and making great money. Your self-worth problems start to disappear and no one can make you feel like you don’t deserve success.

Eventually, you can reduce the effort when your systems, marketing, and funnels are all set up and still continue to have success … 

… but you have to do the effort first to show your brain that you’ve earned it.

New belief: “My work ethic is unfireable.”


When you believe:

1. I’m ready already
2. No one succeeds on their own
3. My work ethic is unfireable

… you can connect better with your ideal clients and you will attract more of the right people that you can help, into your business.

And what that ultimately means is that you can help more people, create a greater impact, gain more fulfillment in your life, and have a profitable business doing what you love. 

Do you want help doing this so you can get more quality clients?

I work together with people in the following areas:

1) Creating compelling content that converts

You’ll craft the right language to attract your ideal client, so the right people can immediately see what you’re all about and that your program is right for them. We also makeover your existing marketing and online presence and make sure your offer is irresistible. I’ll help you uplevel your package for your stage in business and the stage that your ideal clients are at to create rock-solid certainty in your offer that people find it hard to say no to. We work together on your marketing campaign to get the right people to attend your presentation.

2) Creating automated marketing funnels

You will create your 24/7 marketing machine that sets up your launch for success. You don’t need to be a tech expert, every single step is laid out for you to effortlessly follow. You’ll learn my unique method to monetise your event before it even happens. You’ll know exactly how to increase your registrations and how to get people to show up live. Plus you’ll get my strategy for how to leverage the presentation afterward.

3) Creating profitable presentations

We use my proven ‘Profit From Presenting’ formula to craft an event that signs up truly ideal clients. You learn exactly how to structure your presentation to give yourself the highest possible chance of filling your program.
You’ll also learn how to deliver with confidence, what content to share and what to leave out to make it valuable, but also profitable. You’ll know how to keep people engaged right to the end and have people raving about your event and telling their friends about it.

There is the option to work either in a small group mastermind or 1-on-1 (very limited spaces for 1-on-1).

In order to be the best candidate to get results, you must have experience serving clients in your area of expertise and getting results.

You would also have a pretty clear idea of what problem you solve and who you enjoy helping the most.

You must also be willing to create content, either with writing and/or video, and sharing your knowledge about the topics you’re an expert in.

P.S. Whenever you’re ready… here are 3 other ways I can help you grow your coaching business:

1. Grab a free copy of my ‘Client Attraction Checklist‘

It’s a powerful roadmap to attracting leads, signing clients, and scaling your coaching business. — Grab It Here

2. Join the community and connect with Coaches who are also growing their business

It’s our Facebook community where ambitious Coaches learn to get more income, influence, and impact. — Join Us Here

3. Work with me privately

If you’d like to work directly with me … just send me a Facebook Message with the word “Private”… tell me a little about your business and what you’d like to work on together, and I’ll get you all the details! — Message Here

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Amplify Your Influence, Business, Business coach, Business growth, business strategy, Coach, Coaching, Content, Content That Connects, Entrepreneur, Entrepreneurship, Kat Millar, marketing

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