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5 Mindset Hacks for Facebook Live Videos

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If you’re like most people that I speak to, you find the idea of going live on a video rather scary…

When I first got introduced to the idea of Facebook Live videos, I was terrified. I was used to editing my videos and I wanted them to be professional and polished.

But I realised Facebook Live videos are such a powerful way to connect with people. Plus, they are here to stay and if I didn’t jump on board, then I’d be left behind.

If you haven’t been getting the engagement that you want, the reach, connection or sales conversations booked in and you’re wondering why not, then you’re in the right place.

Facebook Live videos are so effective, because they build trust and rapport a lot faster than written posts.

As you get better at using this skill, you can grow your business fast using Facebook Live videos.

I heard an interesting statistic recently, that using companies who use videos in their marketing enjoy a 27% click through rate and 34% higher web conversions than those who don’t.

Mark Zuckerberg says:

“I see video as a mega trend, same order as mobile. That’s why I’m going to keep putting video first across our family of apps.”

You can make or break your business by avoiding videos altogether or by creating poor videos.

People remember about…

* 20% of what they hear

* 30% of what they see

* And 70% of what they see and hear

Video content is so much more memorable than written or audio.

Videos also enable you to help more people at one time. Instead of having one-on-one coaching conversations all day, you can jump on live on video and impart a message very fast to your community.

Whether people show up live, or whether they show up to the replay, you’re building your content library that’s hosted in Facebook. You can download the videos as well afterward and post them to YouTube.

If you want to be an influencer and inspire people to take action, the best way to build your community is through Facebook Lives.

They also open a lot of doors of opportunity for you. I constantly get asked to speak in other people’s Facebook groups and speak in online summits and events because I show up consistently on video.

To do Facebook Live videos well, the right mindset is key.

What we say is super important, but it’s only a small part of our communication. If you’re showing up without the right mindset, it can totally affect your Facebook Live video.

Today I’m going to share with you some powerful mindset tricks and tips so that you can show up more confidently, engage, build more trust and rapport with your followers, tribe and community.

There are the three main problems that I’ve discovered that people come up against when it comes to video:

1 – Fear of Judgment

Fear of judgment is a very common human fear. Something that helped me overcome that fear is only speaking to my people, my tribe. The people who aren’t my people will not watch this, they will be repelled by this.

Marketing is all about repelling the wrong people and attracting the right people.  It’s actually good for some people to judge you because that means you’re being bold and confident in your message.

You’re not watering it down and trying to be all things to all people. That’s the worst thing you can do as you miss your whole market.

People want to know that you understand them, value them and speak their language. It’s very hard to do that through the written word because all we see is typing and we can all look the same in typing.

We don’t all look the same on video, right? So accept the fact that there are going to be people who are judging you, but don’t worry about that.

I was so fearful of people judging me because I was judging me. And we attract what we project onto the world with our own limiting beliefs. I’m not judging myself anymore.

I see judgment as a good thing, as you know you’re in the success club when you have people judging you.

2 –  Imposter Syndrome

Imposter syndrome is a big one as a lot of people feel like they don’t know enough. We think if we’re going to talk on a topic, we need to know everything on that topic and if we don’t, then we’re a fraud.

Imposter syndrome is killing people’s dreams.

There are always going to be people who know more than you. And there’s always going to be people who know less than you. You don’t want to rob the people who can benefit from your message, teaching and inspiring stories.

No one else has your stories and your way of sharing things. There’s nothing new under the sun, but there’s different ways of teaching and applying different stories and experience, so your delivery is unique.

I used to have impostor syndrome because I was scared of those people that had Master’s degrees or PhDs in business.

But I’ve learned so much from running my own business for so many years, having hundreds of clients and spending thousands on education.

I used to think ‘Who am I?’, but I changed that mindset to ‘Why not me?’

3 –  Fear of Rejection

People often face the fear of rejection. Do you worry if friends may see your video and think, ’Who do they think they are?’

Or maybe you fear that you won’t be liked or you may be misunderstood?

Perhaps you fear that people may find out you don’t know everything about the subject and you therefore fear you will be rejected.

The problem with this fear is that it stops us from taking action and helping the people who really need and want it.

Is it time for you to stop fear robbing you from creating the success you want and helping more people?

So here are 5 mindset hacks for doing Facebook Lives:
1 – Identify the Fear

Most people have fear when it comes to doing Facebook Lives. You’re not alone. You’re in good company!

So the first step is to identify the specific fear. Call it out, tell it as it is. What is your fear?

For me, I feared that I would come across as silly. I feared that I would forget what I was going to say. I would fear that I was going to stumble across my words.

We need to step out in boldness and vulnerability. We need to shine a light on our fear.

Putting the light on is like at night and there’s cockroaches. They scurry into the dark. Similarly, when you put a light on your fear, it loses its power.

2 –  Remember Your Why

Love is a more powerful force than fear. Fear and love cannot exist together. You can’t feel loving towards yourself and fearful at the same time, because they are polar emotions.

It’s the same as with your passion. When you remember your passion and why it is so important for you to share your message, your why becomes bigger than your fear.

Remembering your why brings you back to gratitude. We get to put on a video and talk about something that we’re passionate about. I never want to take that for granted.

I’m so grateful that I get to show up on Facebook live videos. I don’t have to. I don’t think I should. I want to show up. My passion is strong enough to take me through fear.

My why stops me focussing on my fear. Humans do incredible things when they understand their why.  Your why is so powerful. When you understand your why, your fear will become insignificant.

3 –  Choose What to Believe

You get to choose what you believe. You can believe lies and limiting beliefs or you can choose healthy beliefs.

I believe it’s a privilege and honour to show up on Facebook Live. This is the mindset that I choose to believe.

I choose to believe people want to hear what I have to say. I choose to believe that what I have to say is valuable. If you focus on how hard it is or how scary it is, then you’re just going to spin your wheels and not move forward.

Facebook Live videos always bring me clients. People often private message me and say they want a free session after my Facebook Live.

I do what I do to help people, but one of the benefits of showing up and helping people on video is that those I help often become my clients.

4 –  Focus on Your Message

By focusing on your message, you take your eyes and focus off yourself.  If you’re really self-conscious about how you’re looking or how you’re sounding, then you won’t be focussing on your message.

I’m focusing on what I want to say and how I can best communicate this to you, so that you not only hear the information, but you take action.

When you focus on your message, your focus is turned off of you and onto those who you are serving.

5 –  Decide to Take Uncomfortable Action

You get to decide to take uncomfortable action. This is a powerful choice.

Doing a Facebook Live is uncomfortable especially at first. Your heart will probably race, you might sweat, stumble, find it hard to swallow. Your body will probably react because you’re stepping out of your comfort zone.

If things go wrong, it’s not a big deal. Worst case scenario, the internet doesn’t work and who cares? None of that matters!

We’ve got to show our brain that we can do things. That’s what entrepreneurs do. We don’t shy away from challenges. We show up. We take uncomfortable action and we take lots and lots and lots of action.

Your community wants to see you being consistent so that they trust you. It’s not about doing a Facebook Live every month or two. You need to consistently show up.

You don’t have to use notes, just talk about something that you know. Preparation is good, but sometimes I don’t have time to prepare.

I speak about what I know and because of that, it flows out of me. You’ve got to trust yourself, and that’s part of choosing what you believe.

If you don’t develop these skills, you will get left behind.

Want to fast-track your ability to use presenting to get more clients?

Let’s chat. You can apply for your ‘Client Attraction Strategy Session’ here.

Looking forward to connecting with you!

Kat

 

 

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7 Mistakes People Make When Running Online Events

Have you ever thought that you’d like to run online events?

Do you currently run online events and would like to make them better?

Running online events, like webinars or virtual workshops, is one of the fastest ways to attract your ideal clients, especially right now.

Having run over 100 online events, each one getting me clearer and clearer on what works, I’ve tested and measured the best ways to do them effectively and successfully.

There are so many things that you have to think through prior to an online event, like how to best use technology, what marketing to do, how to effectively structure your talk, and how to get people to turn up for your event.

Over the years working with so many different people, I’ve noticed that there are 7 core mistakes that people make when it comes to running online events.

There are some critical things that people get wrong and in this video and article, I unpack them, so you can avoid making the same mistakes.

Before I go into the 7 main mistakes, I want to first share with you 4 reasons why running online events is SO effective:

1 – Online Events Help You Grow Your Email List

Your email list – your database of people – is one of your most valuable assets in business. Obviously we don’t own anyone’s details on social media, Instagram, Facebook or LinkedIn, so it’s important to build your list.

We do this by having landing pages where people can opt in to your event, so that you now have their email address so you can continue to give them value and share other offers with them.

There are always people who sign up for a workshop and don’t turn up, but you’ve got their details and you can continue marketing to them and nurturing them in the future.

2 – With Online Events You Can Speak to More People at One Time

If you’re only ever doing one-on-one coaching, you’re very limited to the impact that you can have.

If you want to make more money, help more people faster, have a bigger reach and make a difference to more people, then online events are a beautiful way to do it.

3 – Online Events Can Help You Get People’s Attention Fast

Holding online events it’s a fast way to get and hold people’s attention. It’s very hard to hold someone’s attention by just a social media post, a blog or even a Facebook Live video.

If you run an event people get to know you, like you, trust you and build rapport with you because they have longer exposure to you, so you can inspire and educate them.

4 – Online Events Raise Your Positioning and Credibility

Your positioning and credibility are increased because not everyone is willing to take the risk of putting themselves out there.

If you’re willing to do this, it puts you more in the position of being an expert. It also enables you to educate and inspire people to take action.

Not everyone’s ready to buy straight away and they need your education so they will see the benefit they will receive when they make a change in their life.

A lot of people are resistant to change, so you can use events to educate people and them overcome their limiting beliefs.

Running online and live events has opened up so many opportunities for me and I get most of my clients through running events.

Online events are not going to go away, in fact they will only grow and ramp up – so now is the time to get in!

Now you know WHY you should be holding online events, here are the 7 mistakes I’ve found people make when running online events:
1 – Not Tailoring the Talk to the Audience

When running online events, I’ve noticed that some people speak on what they want to share, but what is so important is that you tailor the message to your ideal clients.

So you’re not being general or broad, but you’re solving the exact problems that your ideal client has.

I’ve never given a talk where I haven’t asked people for some prior input, like a survey. I’ve asked them what they want to learn about, what their main challenges are, what their dreams and goals are.

At one company I spoke at, I had one of the board of directors sit down and interview all of the instructors and staff. I listened to the recordings and created the talk based on that.

You don’t want to try and just wing it and guess.

If you are giving people what they want, if you’re speaking their language, then they’re going to get so much value from it.

You need to do your research by talking to people, going to networking events, seminars and talking to and listening to people to find out their needs.

You can poll your Facebook community, get people to complete a survey before a coaching session or at the end of a workshop or webinar.

2 – Failing to Set Frames

A frame is something that you build an idea around that you want people to have. For example, when people come to an event, you’ve got to quickly set the frame so everybody is sitting within the same frame.

There’s different types of frames, and they can include things like; the rules about the event, how you want people to behave within the event, and also beliefs that you want people to have through the event.

When people come to my workshops or my webinars, I always have a slide that says, ‘I’ve been at the top like the most successful people’. And then I’ll give a list of things that successful people do.

I put things like, ‘Successful people show up ready to learn, they stay focused, they take lots of notes…’

I’ll read through this list and that is setting a frame of how I want people to show up in that event. And if I miss that slide the event can be a bit chaotic.

I don’t want people to come and just be chilling out. If they have a question I want them to write it down, or put their hand up or write it in the chat box.

There are also frames are around how you want people to behave. There are also logistical frames, so I always have a slide that talks about making this a world-class learning environment and that we keep everyone’s information confidential.

I also let people know they will be put in breakout rooms. There’s also a disclaimer about being able to have participant’s photos taken and things like that, so you set all those frames at the beginning.

The other frames that are really important to mention are beliefs that you want your participants to have. Often I will show my private community Inner Circle’s manifesto which says ‘In the Inner Circle, we are on-mission action-takers. We operate from a growth mindset, we free ourselves from blame, excuses, and denial, we choose to value people, contribute, pursue our vision and loads of fun…’ etc.

This is setting the ‘frame’ that shows participants that in this event, we don’t focus on our excuses, we have an entrepreneurial mindset – we show up, we give things a go, we never give up and we see challenges as an opportunity.

3 – Not Adding Enough Value

I find that people often will not plan their event enough, where they give people ideas or concepts that they haven’t heard before, or they maybe haven’t heard it in a sort of way before. They haven’t really thought through what’s going to be truly valuable.

Value is what gets someone to take an action right away. Are the facts you’re presenting inspiring and educating enough to make people take action? If not, then it’s not valuable.

Value also means spending time practicing, thinking through what is going to be really useful for people. People love examples and stories of others who have taken a concept and put it into action in their life.

People also love templates and they want their questions answered. They want to be able to share with other people. This is all part of adding value.

Value is not squeezing in the content. I once heard someone say that if you squeeze in the content, you squeeze the audience out!

You want to make sure that your content is valuable, that people can apply it right away. And you need to give people plenty of time to think through things also, so they can digest the toolkit of ideas you’ve given them.

4 – Giving Away Too Much Information

This is probably the one that I have found the hardest. I just want to share so much of what I know because I’ve studied this stuff for over a decade and I’ve been in business for 17 years.

If you give too much information, it could be like standing in front of a fire hose to get a cup of water. It’s actually doing your audience a disservice if you give away too much information, because they can’t apply it.

If you say to your audience that they will learn all they need to know from this event, they will leave thinking they know everything and that’s not possible, so it’s doing them a disservice. They also won’t buy from you because they’ve got everything they need.

You also need to create curiosity. It’s called the Zeigarnik Effect and it’s about opening loops in people’s minds, where they actually realise they’ve got to spend more time with you as the educator.

Show them how many hours worth of knowledge there is to know about that subject and one way they can get that knowledge is through using your coaching.

5 – Speaking Without Structure

People want organised knowledge and people pay for organised knowledge. When you’re creating an event and you show up and try and pour out everything you know about the topic, that is a mistake.

You don’t want to just give people a whole heap of content or information and leave people to have to figure out what to do with it. You want to make it digestible and palatable for them, by breaking it down into steps or pillars.

The best speakers in the world have organised the information into a structure. If you think that they’re just winging it and speaking intuitively, believe me – they’re not.

It’s also good to refer people back to the beginning of your talk. You don’t just take them from here all the way from the start to finish, it’s good show them where they are in the system.

You also want to make sure that when you’re delivering your content, you use diagrams and images, so people can see a clear visual of what you’re explaining and show how things fit together.

6 – Being Unprofessional

This goes without saying, we all know that we need to be professional, but what does that look like?

Being professional means:

  • Having a nice quiet environment and making sure your audio is good and clear with no background noise
  • Making sure that you’ve got a good lighting system
  • Setting your computer or tablet up at eye level
  • Making sure you start on time
  • Ensuring you have nice professional PowerPoints, if you’re using slides
  • Practicing your talk before you deliver it

All of this is part of being professional.

This doesn’t mean you can’t be personable though. It really helps to add humour and your personality and flavour to it. Professionalism is not perfectionism. It about giving the most value while still being yourself.

Remember that everyone who comes to your online event or talk knows at least 50 close people that they can potentially refer you to.

Always be thinking that it’s not just the people that show up, but those people potentially know 50 others that you can reach.

Even if just 2 people show up, always give those 2 people your 100%, because if one person makes a change from what you’ve shared, it’s worth it right? And they will tell their friends.

7 – Focusing Too Much on Themselves

People are so self-conscious, they put off running events because they’re so concerned about what people might think of them and they are scared of judgment.

There are fears around if the technology doesn’t work and fears if no one turns up. I’ve had all these fears and different limiting beliefs myself.

Instead of focusing on the fears, focus on the good result possible, not the negatives.

I’m completely detached from who comes to my events. I care about the people attending as people, of course, but I believe that whoever turns up are the people who are meant to be there.

I don’t focus on money, I focus on doing your best work and preparing well for the event and give it your all.

I put aside days and days to create my events. I give myself feedback after events on all the things I could do better next time and I take on board all the feedback that I get from people who attended.

Turn the focus away from yourself and onto focusing on the value you can offer people.

That’s how you grow your business.

Here’s a review of 7 mistakes people make when running online events:

1 – Not Tailoring the Talk to the Audience

2 – Failing to Set Frames

3 – Not Adding Enough Value

4 – Giving Away Too Much Information

5 – Speaking Without Structure

6 – Being Unprofessional

7 – Focusing Too Much on Themselves

Would you like to learn the presenting formula that I use, so you can run online events that attract new clients?

I’m running a workshop on Saturday 4th July that will show you how to present effectively, and use online events to attract clients and build your business.

In this workshop, you’ll pick up the tools that you can use to run effective online workshops and webinars….

…so you can not only be successful in your presentation, but know exactly how to get people to show up, engage and take action.

Click here for details of the ‘Grow Your Business With Online Events’ workshop

 

See you online soon!

Kat

 

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How To Not Suck At Facebook Live Videos

So you’re planning on doing a Facebook Live video! Congrats!

Going live on Facebook is one of the best ways to get in front of more people and build trust, offer value and attract your ideal clients.

Going live on video can be scary, but every one after gets easier and easier.

Learn my top tips to doing Facebook Live video well.


1. Remember that it’s a conversation, not a performance

This guide is called ‘how to not suck’, rather than ‘how to be amazing’ – because it’s really not about perfection.

You already have an audience who wants to hear what you have to say, so that takes the pressure off.

Be confident. You know your stuff. People aren’t there to critique you – they are there because they want to be. They’re your tribe.

Be real!

Tell them some of your own failures and why you do what you do.

2. Practice

It’s nice to warm yourself up by just going live to chat about small topics at first, before you take on the longer segments with big takeaways.

Just speak like you’re talking to a friend rather than “giving a presentation.”

Practice a few times before going live. The most important bits to practice are the start and the end. The middle flows easily, as it’s usually our content comfort zone.

Record some videos that aren’t live if so you start feeling more comfortable. Practice helps a LOT with nerves.

3. Have a structure

You have content to focus on so don’t waffle on. You want to provide the all-important “value in advance”.

If something goes wrong, just talk it out or improvise, everyone loves knowing you are an actual human 😉

Remember, you will not lose people by being yourself and making mistakes. You’re human and people relate to that.


4. Speak to one person

Imagine that you are talking to one person who you know needs to hear what you have to say.

Tell them what they need to hear.

Just one person. Maybe her name is camera 😉

Solve a small problem and then engage her further.
 

5. Write a Note

Make a few bullet points on sticky notes just in case you blank out.

Try to keep it to 1-3 key points so that you don’t go on for too long. If you have more than 3 points you want to cover, then congrats – you have a series now and you can invite them back later for the rest of the content!

I like to write my opening and closing words and my 1-3 point on a small piece of paper with a hole cut in the middle and place it over where the lens is.

It’s a good prompt, and it doesn’t mean you lose engagement because I just slightly look away for a brief second then look back to the lens.

6. Get engagement

Encourage people to comment and engage with you.

Firstly, it helps more people to see the video

Secondly it also feels more enjoyable when it feels more like a conversation than a monologue.

7. Power Pose

Power pose for 60 seconds beforehand and your testosterone will increase and your cortisol will decrease.

You will literally feel like you’ve got this!

Personally, I like Wonder Woman 🙂

8. Write and speak some powerful affirmations

Set the intention of a successful video.

Write down empowering affirmations and say them out loud before you go live.

Here are some examples:

“I believe that this video can make a change in someone’s life, so it’s worth it”

“I believe that the right people will enjoy consuming my content”

“I believe that I am a great communicator and what I have to say is meaningful and important”

“I believe that every video I do is a step closer to my ultimate vision”

Turn the fear into excitement and tell yourself that you are going to be amazing – because you will be.

9. Breathe deeply

Close your eyes and take 5-10 deep breaths with looooong exhales before you go live. This will slow down your heart rate.

A breathing meditation beforehand can help also.

10. Be yourself and speak from your heart

‘nuff said.

You’ve definitely got this!

Ready To Attract Your Ideal Clients And Create A Profitable Business That Gives You Back More Time?

So you can make a difference doing what you love?

If you want to know, with certainty, how to create a profitable business

So you can make a deeper impact with your message

Create the income you deserve

Position yourself as the go-to expert in your niche

And also have a business that gives you the lifestyle and time-freedom that you want…

Let’s chat. You can apply for your ‘Client Attraction Strategy Session’ here.

Looking forward to connecting with you!

Kat

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